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This Marriage Don Tire O by germainediva(f): 4:39pm On May 04, 2015 |
Abeg I nid encouragement.......am tired of ds marriage......been married for 14yrs.......no good sex,no money,full of emotinal abusive........... |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by Merlissa(f): 4:58pm On May 04, 2015 |
Sit down and work it out! DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION!!! 1 Like |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by MRBrownJ: 5:12pm On May 04, 2015 |
@OP why would you stay in this unrewarding unhappy union, and keep on being miserable willingly?! if it doesnt go then it DOESNT GO. dont keep staying in some BS union because of that paper that called you Mrs. being a divorced lady or single again may scare you BUT being miserable in a dead end marriage will simply damage you for life. if you dont go toward where you wanna be in life then you will never get there; and unless you start making steps towards where you wanna be, you will always remain in that miserable place you find yourself today. so you simply have to tell yourself that you try and it didnt work out. we all make mistakes and its never too late to correct them. here are a few questions for you before you should consider marriage though: - when was the last time you were happy because of this marriage? - when was the last time you felt blessed because of that marriage? - when was the last time you felt good about yourself (or who you see in the mirror every morning)? - what does your heart beat for, what are you passionate about, and is your life in anyway connected to any of it? 9 Likes |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by sammieguze(m): 5:24pm On May 04, 2015 |
What God has joined together, who am i to put asunder 1 Like |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by mopelola123: 5:34pm On May 04, 2015 |
That the ups and downs of marriage. Sit your spouse down, have a talk I mean real talk. Talk about how you like it(sex). In terms of money you can try some petty petty trade. Quitting is not the solution for your replacement is right at the corner. Above all pray. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 04, 2015 |
Try to solve all those probs uve just listed, and if it still doesn't work, divorce is d next thing. Btw, are there issues? |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by Nobody: 7:11pm On May 04, 2015 |
How did you marry someone who is not sexually compatible in the first place? |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by kennynelcon(m): 7:28pm On May 04, 2015 |
For the money: Men ought to be prepared before marriage. Mothers coercing son into it, take note germainediva Lol u too like sex. |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by SAMBARRY: 8:02pm On May 04, 2015 |
As Tony will say. Let me even quote him sef. Na the Genesis be this o
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Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by SAMBARRY: 8:03pm On May 04, 2015 |
He also said
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Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by SAMBARRY: 8:04pm On May 04, 2015 |
Ahen
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Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by SAMBARRY: 8:05pm On May 04, 2015 |
Ooo
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Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by rolled: 8:47pm On May 04, 2015 |
Don't tell me you have been a stay at home mum for 14years oh If not... |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by bukatyne(f): 8:47pm On May 04, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: I very much agree with This post 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by bukatyne(f): 8:58pm On May 04, 2015 |
germainediva: I went through your profile and it seems the se.x issue is very bad with crazy requests. Has things always been like This? Even pre-marriage? |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by olamega(m): 8:48am On May 05, 2015 |
pls take it easy, there are sure ways of handling this to turn it positive. you may contact me off NL. Some things on an issue like are better discussed offline, esp. cos of some funny/childish ppl we have here. cheer up!! |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by Dheartless: 2:12pm On May 05, 2015 |
if to say na man now, that woman go Don dey post communication is the key (she knows herself) @op if you try communication and it does not work, then I must tell you that you don't deserve to die young all the name of marriage. but check yourself first. |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by 5minsmadness: 3:43pm On May 05, 2015 |
germainediva: OP be encouraged. Have u thought of being the person you want your husband to be? Instead of waiting for him to provide good sex, you give him great sex whenever you guys are chanced to do it. Buy the book "how to improve your man in bed", it is phenomenal. Having no money is a common problem, it's not peculiar to you. Make do with what you have. Pls don't compare yourself with your friends cos a lot of ladies do that and give themselves unnecessary heartache. Be happy with what you have and make the best of it. Emotional abuse is still kinda better than physical abuse. Can you explain what you mean by him being emotionally abusive? Is it verbal or what? I've found out that sometimes the best thing to do is to ignore the demon that feeds on anger and hate that comes with abuse. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start living. Seek out the things that make you happy without resorting to illegal/immoral activities. Ignore him when he becomes emotionally abusive and fid something to do when he begins to behave badly e.g. Watching movies or chatting online or going to a a friend's place to stay. You have wonderful kids, find joy in them. Take them out and have a good laugh with them together. Focus on being the happy partner. In turn your happiness will rub off on him or at the very least he'll stop harassing you. 1 Like |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by KanwuliaJara: 3:43pm On May 05, 2015 |
And you think the next one will be better ehn? Ask those who have tried the other 'man'? 2 Likes |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 12:41pm On May 27, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:wonderful advice coming from you |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by ireneidiva(f): 12:54pm On May 27, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Sometimes, the next one may be way better. 1 Like |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by raumdeuter: 5:15pm On May 27, 2015 |
Try the next man |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by Safari29: 5:55pm On May 27, 2015 |
Try the next man. U go hear whennn |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by dinachi(m): 7:59pm On May 27, 2015 |
@Op does your puccy stink and your attitude suck? Do you guys only try missionary style? Have you been faking orgasms to make him feel good? Any pre-intimacy before the real thing? On the money side. Is he a civil servant? What do you do for a living? |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by bebe2(f): 9:25pm On May 27, 2015 |
mkpakanaodogwu: I tire ooo, For a long time she has been making sense |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by mkpakanaodogwu(m): 7:24am On May 28, 2015 |
bebe2:wonders shall never end |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by Nobody: 8:44am On May 28, 2015 |
Merlissa: Y is divorce not an option? Is she to remain in an unfruitful relationship just cos you feel, without reason, that divorce is not an option? |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by KanwuliaJara: 2:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
ireneidiva: Hmmmmm! Way better and still in THE MARKET? Impossible! Na only "rotten tomatoes" dey full basket for h-insai hot sun o! The GOOD ones are all taken!!!! Gbam! 2 Likes |
Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by CashdownNG: 4:59pm On May 28, 2015 |
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Re: This Marriage Don Tire O by gostartit(m): 5:41pm On May 28, 2015 |
Your marriage may not be a bed of roses or paradise but there is still room for change i know of a marriage that went through hell for 21years for things later got better in all areas it can happen to you too. Pray and believe in God for a miracle. www.nairaland.com/attachments/2410757_waecvol3endorsedphsize_jpege5d88479da0bed5d5b837ae01ecefd3d |
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