Getting angry is one thing but maintaining your sanity when you are is another thing. When you feel the need to explode as a result of your partners actions I suggest you;
1. Decide to stay sane. When your partner throws tantrums decide to stay reasonable despite all odds. Refuse to be sucked in by those verbal outbursts but choose to reply with controlled emotions.
2. Accept your Partner’s Outburst As A Way Of Letting Off Steam. Realize that your partner reserves the right to express his or her anger. Read More>>http://projectlikeminds.com/how-to-respond-when-your-partner-is-angry/

Well....... . As long as the anger doesn't lead to insults