Compliments of the weekend friends!

1. To Marry : Women looks Future of Men, but Men
looks Past of Women.
2. Love : Women Likes Quality of Love, but Men
likes Quantity of Love.
3. Search : Mostly Women Search for Character of
Men. So its easier for her to forgive him but difficult
to forget him, Whereas Mostly Men Likes Beauty of
Women so if he find better one he can forget her but
if she makes any mistake to him its difficult to
forgive her.
Here are some tips to maintain a healthy relation
with your spouse
Ways To Keep Your Wife's Love
1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t
threaten her with divorce.
2. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best
way and atmosphere.
3. Be a good listener.
4. Call your wife with the best names, cute
nicknames, names she loves to hear.
5. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by
working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the
husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the
family.
6. Sit down and eat meals together.
7. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take
it outside.
8. Don’t leave home in anger.
Ways to Keep Your Husband's Love
1. Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a
female--a man doesn’t want a man for his wife.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-
maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
3. Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband
as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental
break.
4. Don’t keep asking him, “what are you thinking?”
5. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you
would like your husband to be kind to your own
mother.
6. Keep your house clean, at least to the level that
he wants it.
7. If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him
yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight
will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can
tell him your side of the story and how you wanthim
to change something.
8. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
9. Look attractive and be seductive towards him.
Flirt with him.
10. Don't EVER compare your husbands to other
husbands! For example don't say, "well her
husband doesn't do that, why do you" (thats a
killer!)
11. Wake him up for Qiyam ul-Layl (in the last third
of the night) and ask him to pray with you.
May ALLAH preserve all of our marriages and help
us understand and implement them in and with the
best of manners, Ameen!