For every lady who is of marriage age, there's so much joy in finding some1 you love and want to share your life but simply because you are of age to get married doesn't mean you just throw caution to the wind. You should @ least consider some things.
1. His source of income: am not here to say money 1st but i'm saying if you must marry a loaded guy be sure to know what of job keeps him loaded.
2. His journey thus far: for some the past doesn't matter but if you are going to spend your life with a guy it is necessary you know his journey thus far that way you can relate with certain situations around him.
3.‎ His weakness: it is better to know a guy's weakness that way you can manage things. His strength will always be to make him a better person but when you know his weakness you make your relationship a better one.
4. His plans: Don't be in a rush to change your last name rather be eager to build an empire with him. If changing your last name is all ‎that matters then sooner than later it'll change again
5. ‎His family attitude: I don't think a man who has forgotten his roots(family) simply because of some misunderstanding is all rest for the next phase. Help him to be a better person.
6. Does he have a forgiving spirit? If not then to be it's not such a good idea.

N:B there's no fast or safe rule to marriage but a little insight is necessary ‎

Okay. But can u change ur topic title?

Noted! Though I am male

Great.....