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Words From A Father To His Son About Marriage by Ayopercent(m): 3:07pm On May 13, 2015
1. The man who turns his wife to a punching bag
should have faced a Mohammed Ali in the ring.
There is no justifiable reason to punch your wife – it
makes you small
2. Your wife is not a slave. Slavery has been
abolished a long time ago. She is your help-meet,
treat her as such.
3. The man who compares his wife to another is not
wise – Didn’t you see her before you marry her.
The person you compare your wife with is definitely
not perfect.
4. The man who finds nothing good to appreciate in
his wife and all he does is to complain and whine
about everything may end up having to compete for
the wife’s attention with another man who
appreciates her. Re-trace your steps. What you do
not appreciate depreciate.
5. When you were a ‘nobody’ your wife stood by
you, now that you are made, she is not good
enough for you. You want to ‘step up’ with another
woman. Which planet are you from? Be careful so
you don’t come crashing down like many before
you.
6. The man who finds excuse in sleeping with other
women because he claims the wife does not satisfy
him in bed may die before his time – You have been
warned.
7. You complained that your wife isn’t the woman
you married; maybe you are no more the man she
married.
8. You find out that your once loving wife is sleeping
with another man (or men) that is really terrible.
There should be no justification to excuse her
behavior but have you sat down to think how a once
loving wife turned out to be someone who now
cheats on you. Could it be that you have turned to a
globetrotter who hardly stays at home? Could it be
your personal hygiene changed? Could it be you
have turned yourself into a beast pouncing on her at
every slightest provocation? Maybe she is trying to
pay you back in your own coin…re-evaluate the
situation and you may be able to find answers. Your
marriage should not deteriorate to that point. You
may be able to save it.
9. You call yourself the man of the house and yet
you compel your wife to pay the bills for the house.
Are you sure you are truly the man of the house?
How come you sit on the sofa all day with the TV
remote in your hands flipping from one channel to
the other whilst your wife had gone out working two
to three jobs. Are you sure you are normal? The
worse is to expect the same woman to come back
from work late in the night and head to the kitchen
to make your meal. You know you can do better
than that.
10. The man that makes his wife a subject of
ridicule and disdain amongst friends and family is
not wise.
11. A man that runs to the mother at every little
misunderstanding with the wife is still a baby and
as such not ripe for marriage.
12. You must not be tired of dating your wife. Before
marriage, you were everywhere with her. Before
she gets to the car, you have opened the door for
her. You waited for her to sit before you did each
time you went to the restaurant but after wedding
you stopped all these gestures. Why? You give the
answer. What you cannot continue in marriage,
don’t start in your courtship.
13. Your marriage must not take God from you. As
the head of the family, it is your duty to train up your
children in the Lord. You should not be in bed when
you should be having family prayer time together.
You should not take your family to church and leave
them there without you being involved. Remember
you are just a custodian…Do it right.


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Re: Words From A Father To His Son About Marriage by Ayopercent(m): 3:10pm On May 13, 2015
Re: Words From A Father To His Son About Marriage by Tenim47(m): 3:18pm On May 13, 2015
A man wu cnt cater 4 is wife, should stat treckin 4 Buhari or GEJ

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