my close friend is 3 months pregnant with twins and she has ask me for advice if she should abort the pregnancy. she has been married for 11years and has been seperated from her husband for 7 years. within the 7 years her husband has been in and out of her life but they never lived together, their marriage was blessed with three children before the seperation. my friend recently met another guy 4 months ago who has father 3 other children from 3 different women and she is now 3 months pregnant and the ultrasound says, she is pregnant with twins. what advice sholud i give her. pls nairalanders help!!!!!!!!!!!

I pity her so much, could i say she is lucky and unlucky? i don't know what to say infact, why will she be dating a man that has kids from three women? anyway i am completely against abortion, and for the fact that she hasn't got any baby of her own, let her tell her guy about the pregnancy, she should take abortion out of her mind, i wonder why she was not protecting herself if really she didn't want to get pregnant.

@ poster, wait for those wise once, they will tell u what is best for ur friend as for me i am against abortion period.

Dilemma, dilemma, what to do! if only we can prevent certain things from happenin but heck, it happened. Let her have the twins, cuz she is blessed. Im sure the new guy will *understand* the situation she's gotten herself into.

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my close friend is 3 months pregnant with twins and she has ask me for advice if she should abort the pregnancy. she has been married for 11years and has been seperated from her husband for 7 years. within the 7 years her husband has been in and out of her life but they never lived together, their marriage was blessed with three children before the seperation. my friend recently met another guy 4 months ago who has father 3 other children from 3 different women and she is now 3 months pregnant and the ultrasound says, she is pregnant with twins. what advice sholud i give her. pls nairalanders help!!!!!!!!!!!

3 +2 =5 IN 17YRS not bad. tell her not to kill. she might be killing the next obama

She should keep it, don't abort because it might cost her life

Um mmmmmmmm . . . . . i dont know
i dont support abortion.

Story is cock and bull,
abortion is a sin before God and Man,
Advice her and the blood of the babies are on ur head
Good luck

plz tel her not 2 tempa wit d pregnancy, God has a popoz 4 d pregnancy, and it mite jxt b her only chance of havin a baby.

She does not need an abortion at this stage of her life. She is a mature adult and i believe she can fend for them, She should just have the children and take care of them. Abortion=murder (and twins at that) 

abortion is deadly

the true question IS: can she afford to take care of 2 extra mouth to feed and educate them for the next few years? if she has problems surviving already then having 2 babies ain't gonna help and abortion is the more plausible solution. there is absolutely no need to bring human being into this world if she is not going to be able to provide for them (for the next 18yrs at least).
ex husband is non existant and by the sound of things, the father of the twins has already his hands full with 3 babies from 3 baby mommas.
what is amazing is your "friend" having unprotected sex with such deadbeat only a month after meeting him, maybe she was aspiring to be baby momma number 4

She have just multiplied her problem. From an uncaring husband to an irresponsible cassanova. Now, she is contemplating a deadly transistion through abortion. Was she blind before sleeping with the new man?

Let her have the kids and live with shame. Let her abort and risk her life. The two have consequence. She must choose one!

The good news is that if the new man is ready to take the twins, she must make the best use of it. Turn a new leave and focus squarely on raising her kids. . .

tell her not to abort the babies bc abortion is a sin before Baba God

don't be fooled by the people who tell you that abortion is wrong in the eyes of the bible, read this post to educate yourself and make the right choice.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-235639.0.html