just curious.

It happens too often, where a women has everything- looks, perfect figure, good job, great cook, socialite, etc etc, fills all indices yet still finds herself in such circumstances.

what could be the cause?

It's not by beauty either is it by figure nor atttitude but by choice says the men

Because beauty alone can't make me stay. U got to know one thing, when men decide to be caring and faithful to a particular woman, it is never because of her beauty.

A man normally will remain Faithfull to his woman for other reasons apart from beauty and sex. Take note, beauty attracts us to you bt it won't make us stay and good sex always makes us come for more but that doesn't mean we shall stay!!

So rather, you should be asking beautiful women what do they have to offer to a man to make him stay because their beauty alone just isn't what makes us stay...

Because there's other beautiful women out here

Most beautiful women are proud and takes their man for granted. It is just like everyday I see Beyonce and JayZ, I see pretence and stage managed love. If not for losing money, JayZ will likely cheat on Beyonce. They are all about their beauty and nothing else most times. Aside from their stinking pussies!

both male and female are all sinners by nature, so can't do without lust.

women wt good looks+good job with excess of self-consciousness, lack of respect and financially intoxicated psyche can't be endured by even a true serious minded man.

Some women change characters just like men do once they are settled wt a man.

Am nt saying cheating is right, but how u threat your man goes a long way

tpiadotcom:
just curious.

It happens too often, where a women has everything- looks, perfect figure, good job, great cook, socialite, etc etc, fills all indices yet still finds herself in such circumstances.

what could be the cause?

because there's always another beautiful woman out there. humans are insatiable. we always look out for more ways to improve the status quo.

interesting

Beauty intoxicate women. This makes it difficult for any man to stay.

A man who truly loves God wil never cheat on his wife. (temptations wil com, buh D grace 2 overcome is available). Hav learnt in life determination is d KEY

Jus like saying y sompips serve God & stil bliv in or visit man-made gods (rmbr God is a jealous God)

Op u fit eat d same food everyday?

...because they lack self control...which is a fruit of the Holy spirit.
The fruits of the Holy Spirit is the result of the Holy Spirit's presence in the life of a Christian.
According to the bible we like quoting of course.

Its simple
. An irresponsible man will cheat no matter what... A responsible man will not cheat no matter what.

Yes, but i'd have thought beauty should be able to prevent a man from cheating.

Ie if you score a 10/10 or maybe a 9/10 on his rating of ideal wife material, then he won't stray.

tpiadotcom:
Yes, but i'd have thought beauty should be able to prevent a man from cheating.

Ie if you score a 10/10 or maybe a 9/10 on his rating of ideal wife material, then he won't stray.

Naaa.. an irresponsible man without good morals and character.. even if he gets more dan what he wants, will still stray.. they are the ones that will come up with statements like..."I cant eat one food all the time" "variety is d spice of life " and all that crap to back up their behaviour.

On the other hand a good man will respect himself and his partner.. even if she is not all dat..

It all depends on character shaa

Ceeesaw:
Its simple
. An irresponsible man will cheat no matter what... A responsible man will not cheat no matter what.

Responsible men cheat too. I know it sounds complicated.

dinachi:
Most beautiful women are proud and takes their man for granted. It is just like everyday I see Beyonce and JayZ, I see pretence and stage managed love. If not for losing money, JayZ will likely cheat on Beyonce. They are all about their beauty and nothing else most times. Aside from their stinking pussies!

O boy,you dey vex o Fine babes don do you strong thing

tpiadotcom:
Yes, but i'd have thought beauty should be able to prevent a man from cheating.

Ie if you score a 10/10 or maybe a 9/10 on his rating of ideal wife material, then he won't stray.

Are u talking in terms of beauty or the whole package?

You see, you still think it's beauty that ties man to a woman.






Wrong.

I said beauty as in what the man considers the whole package (read the opening post).

say for example, the man rates a lady 10/10 or 9/10 in overall wife material, and goes ahead to marry her.


why do so many men still cheat afterwards?

If the man was forced to marry, or the lady wasn't so good looking (in everything), then one could assume those were what made him stray. But when no comma is there, why does the man still cheat?

For some people, boredom, while some are just irresponsible.

Men who marry 10/10 or 9/10 based on the whole package RARELY cheat. I say this with all impetus and sincerity.


Most men marry women for reasons other than the "whole package". To be candid and raw, reasons for marriage vary from :
Am coming of age

She's been with me for a long time. Better reward her.

I've dumped so many girls and this one is no different. Might as well marry her.

All girls are the same. Might as well marry her.

She is educated. She will add something to my life.

She is rich. She will add something to my life.

I feel guilty after all I have put her through. Let me marry her.

Etc. Etc.

Funny enough, very few guys will actually marry an exceedingly beautiful woman(mostly politicians do this) cos they naturally (and wrongly) see her as high maintenance or too "open eye" or prone to temptations. She might get a lot of toasters but few will be willing to risk taking the long haul with her unless they are very well to do.

<Enters> Shouts: "Beauty is Only Skin Deep" <Leaves>

Vision4God:
A man who truly loves God wil never cheat on his wife. (temptations wil com, buh D grace 2 overcome is available). Hav learnt in life determination is d KEY

Jus like saying y sompips serve God & stil bliv in or visit man-made gods (rmbr God is a jealous God)

love god?

Same old lines. Of course I wasn't expecting to read anything genuine and reasonable. Like they're all saying the same thing

Moreover

Ab025:
Because beauty alone can't make me stay. U got to know one thing, when men decide to be caring and faithful to a particular woman, it is never because of her beauty.

A man normally will remain Faithfull to his woman for other reasons apart from beauty and sex. Take note, beauty attracts us to you bt it won't make us stay and good sex always makes us come for more but that doesn't mean we shall stay!!

So rather, you should be asking beautiful women what do they have to offer to a man to make him stay because their beauty alone just isn't what makes us stay...

...beauty is vain.i respect intelligent women,a woman that will bring out the best in me and add value to my life.

Beauty or no beauty

SAMBARRY:
Beauty or no beauty

This tony gaskins is a pastor of which church?

5minsmadness:

This tony gaskins is a pastor of which church?

of common sense

SAMBARRY:
of common sense

Oh I see.

5minsmadness:

Oh I see.


So he's actually a nobody.

he's an important person