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Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by CrazyMan(m): 1:55pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
When it comes to communication, as humans, most of the time, we express our thoughts and feelings non-verbally. Actions they say speak louder than words. And no, it is not another cliché. Think about this: we express anger and disapproval by frowning, we hold hands for solidarity and support, we twitch our lips and hiss to show contempt, and we fidget when we are afraid, to mention a few. Body language or non-verbal communication can be very effective if handled carefully and could be very damaging if taken with kids’ glove. Here are some body languages that could be doing you more harm than good in the work place: 1. Breaking eye contact too soon: This can make you seem untrustworthy or overly nervous. Hold eye contact a hair longer, especially during a handshake. 2. Nodding too much: Even if you agree with what’s being said, nod once and then try to remain still. 3. Crossing your arms: This makes you look defensive, especially when you’re answering questions. Try to keep your arms at your sides. 4. Holding your hands behind your back (or firmly in your pockets) makes you look stiff. Aim for a more relaxed hands-at-sides posture. 5. Looking up or looking around: This is a natural cue that you're lying or not being yourselves. Try to hold steady eye contact at all times when being spoken to. 6. Failing to smile: This can make people uncomfortable, and wonder if you really want to be there. Go for a genuine smile especially when meeting someone for the first time. 7. Stepping back when you’re asking for a decision: This conveys fear or uncertainty. Stand your ground, or even take a slight step forward with conviction. 8. Checking your phone or watch: In an important meeting or when being by your superiors portrays you as a staff with bad manners. Someone who prefers to be somewhere else than listen to them. 9. Having a delicate handshake: Cultivate a professional handshake. Look the person you are about to shake in the eye, smile, greet the person warmly and shake hands firmly. http://insidify.com/discovery/these-body-languages-are-doing-you-more-harm-than-good?utm_source=Language+To+B1&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Language+To+B1 70 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by AnneMomoh: 2:35pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Nice Write up, This can foster good working relationship in an organization 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Ojestas(m): 2:35pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Just be good at what you r doing. .if u like, be nodding like agama lizard or cross your arms like booker T, your boss go just dey look. Nice tips though!! 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by ggrin(f): 2:35pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Chukwutobi: 2:35pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Ok. |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Lanre4uonly(m): 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
You're on point. Nice one. |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by ggrin(f): 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
AnneMomoh:why |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by loomer: 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Una too take life serious self for that country. Experience nai matter pass all these things jare 3 Likes |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Prettydiamond(f): 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Impressive..noted! |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by holicalpha(m): 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
10. Placing your hand at the back of your Neck- makes you look nervous. Interesting Post,I'm no Psychologist but I'm able to read people's mind with the way they act. Expo: If you're talking to a girl and she does that(10) that means she's hella Nervous.....use it well - Valar Morghulis 1 Like |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Sammyprinceson(f): 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
And you expect me to comment on this abi? 1 Like |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by sleazy5(m): 2:36pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Nice one. Op. Thanks |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Guy codes. |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by meshacha1: 2:37pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
It depends on the situation, beside a sign can mean so many things depending on who you are communicating with. Nice write up anyway....wink 2 Likes |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by zicoraads: 2:38pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Chai! I am very guilty of using my phone during meetings |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Luckygurl(f): 2:38pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
This doesn't have to be only in your workplace. It's also applicable in your day to day activities and also when meeting new people. I've taken note of these and definitely will put it in practice. 1 Like |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by gbaskiboy: 2:38pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
issorait |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by swimcash(m): 2:38pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
n u xpect me 2 comments on dis |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by mrzee(m): 2:39pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Nice one OP... Profound!!! |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Rumpelstiltskin(m): 2:40pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Very true @OP...... I'm guilty of that nodding too much during a conversation. Me and agama lizard, I no know who nod pass. 5 Likes |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Wow! This is nice...... #TEAM SCENT |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by HRich(m): 2:42pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
10 > If she's a newly wedded wife. Dont look too deep into her eyes when the husband is around. 3 Likes |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by millionboi(m): 2:42pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Kai |
Re: Body Languages That Could Be Doing You More Harm Than Good In The Work Place by realGURU(m): 2:43pm On Jun 08, 2015 |
Gej did not deserve any award for conceading defeat out of no option |
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