Going by responses on various threads,it seems to me like men and women define cheating and what constitutes cheating differently and it also seems to vary from person to person within the same gender.
What Okeke considers cheating may be totally different from what Okafor and Mgbeke consider as cheating.
So what is cheating to you?
Must it include physical contact?
How about cyber contact only,texts,calls,do yo think they ought to be weighted differently?
Is flirting cheating by your definitions,if you saw your man stealing glances,would that be a cheating heart at work and ought to be addressed
Do you think on the other hand that flirting is not a big deal.
How about the men,is flirting a big deal to you or not ,should your woman do such
Is there a difference between one night stands and long standing affairs in your opinion,in other words are you more likely to forgive one and not the other ?

Share your opinion familanders ( males and females)

Please keep it civil or keep off.thanks.

Hmmmmm

What of watching Beyonce or Bradd Pitt on TV and fantasizing about her/him

Cheating to me is intimate contact involving sex.
I can't prevent you from having opposite sex friends and as long as it ends there, I'm cool.

It seems OP is kindof obsessed with this word.

Still none of my business.
*Pops collar*

raumdeuter:
Hmmmmm

What of watching Beyonce or Bradd Pitt on TV and fantasizing about her/him

That is the kind of mature discussion I want us to have
If one is chopping Nnamdi and thinking of Okeke,is that cheating?

To me, when actions like lyn abt ur whereabouts, not bein comfortable wit me in public, getn angry when I introduce u to my friends as my girlfrnd are spotted, there and then will I say she is definitely cheatn on me

FrancisTony:
It seems OP is kindof obsessed with this word.

Still none of my business.
*Pops collar*

You must have something to say

Babymama1:


That is the kind of mature discussion I want is to have
If one is chopping Nnamdi and thinking of Okeke,is that cheating?

naaaah. I dnt think so. Buh gbege is wen u pronounce okeke's name to his hearin. That then is cheatin

armyofone:
Cheating to me is intimate contact involving sex.
I can't prevent you from having opposite sex friends and as long as it ends there, I'm cool.

So to you,it must be actual ikwokirikwo?

Cutehector:
naaaah. I dnt think so. Buh gbege is wen u pronounce okeke's name to his hearin. That then is cheatin

Some ladies will beg to disagree o
You mean hubby is with me and thinking of his babe from NYSC in Makurdi,is not considered cheating ?

The last bit was funny lol

Babymama1:


Some ladies will beg to disagree o
You mean hubby is with me and thinking of his babe from NYSC in. Makurdi,is not considered cheating ?

do u knw wats on his mind? U cnt tell for sure wat he is thinkn so its null nd void. Cheatin involves physical actions which go contrary to what two ppo hv agreed. Ur hubby can be wit u nd b tinkn of ekaette doesn't mean he is cheatin on u dat present moment. Is he?

Maybe you can say Cheating is whatever your partner consider to be cheating

Cheating this, cheating that
I don tire, I tell ya
Since we've been discussing cheating here, I'm sure the statistics haven't changed in the slightest bit.....
Can we talk about other things?
It's getting boring, biko

Babymama are you looking for me?
back to topic.
Cheating is mentally, physically and emotional.

FrancisTony:
It seems OP is kindof obsessed with this word.

Still none of my business.
*Pops collar*

me too. Let me adjust my brassiere

coogaluta:
Cheating this, cheating that
I don tire, I tell ya
Since we've been discussing cheating here, I'm sure the statistics haven't changed in the slightest bit.....
Can we talk about other things?
It's getting boring, biko

This is cheating week so if you don't want to see cheating stay off nl.



coincidentally as I was typing the radio played celeine dions song "let's talk about love, let's talk about life, let's talk about trust