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| Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 8:06pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
today when my neighbor's kids came to my apartment, i carried the youngest one as she rested on my shoulder, she slept off. I thought within myself that i would make a good daddy due to the way I feel around kids. At that point, I started wondering how possible is it for me to be a good father without being a good husband due to my poor level of commitment in my past relationships. I know I go extra miles when it comes to caring and giving attention to kids but doing that to women especially the ones have had something with, I find it very hard with time. any suggestions on how to deal with that is welcomed. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Mamaflex(f): 8:25pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
I guess you have not find someone you really love. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 8:31pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Mamaflex: people have been telling me that but my question is, till when? |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Beesluv: 8:36pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
That's irresponsibility. May God deliver you |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by KanwuliaJara: 8:42pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
A winner any day!  I can be good to myself! |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Moana(f): 8:42pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
bmoney9ja:wait till you are 40 (with no wife) and giving advice about women up and down the forum like your fellow friends on NL  2 Likes |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 8:45pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana:babymama wont be a bad idea you know?.. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Moana(f): 8:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
bmoney9ja:sure, then you can come back and make noise about paying child support and blame it on feminism like your fellow mates again |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by angieberry(f): 8:57pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Stop being a playa  The fact that you love kids and love being around them does not automatically prove that you'll be a good father... Being a good father is beyond feeling good around kids, its interconnected with being a good husband because I don't know how you'll be good to your children if you're bad to their mother...hope I made sense 2 Likes |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Mamaflex(f): 9:10pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
bmoney9ja:Just chillax. You will eventually do. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 9:17pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
angieberry:maam you are right, I really wish for better me. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 9:21pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana:I can neva make noise spending on a child that has my dna..not even on adopted one. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by jossey94(m): 9:24pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Seriously? Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good spouse. The same way being a good mother has nothing to do with being a good wife. The love one has for one's kids can't be compared with anything( except for an unortunate few) and IMO is independent of ones love for his spouse. My two cents. Howeva, I feel that every child should grow up in a loving home and being a good father means ensuring ur a good husband even if its js 2 mk ur kid happy. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 9:37pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
jossey94:on point bro, I think my growing up affected my feelings towards women. I wud try to be a better me. 1 Like |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by segedoo(m): 9:33pm On Jun 17, 2015 |
angieberry: You do. Are u in doubt? The gal I loved deeply turned out to be 'wrong' and confused. She's set having my own kids back:@  This is why sometimes I don't blame playas - male or female! @bmoney9ja mehn, I'm pretty cool with kids too. Can't wait to have mine preferrably all boys. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 11:55pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
segedoo:bro, me love preety baby gurls ooo at least one. in short i cant wait to have one, then boiz can follow. |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Nobody: 4:22am On Jun 19, 2015 |
Mamaflex:Mamaflex seconded  |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Nobody: 4:24am On Jun 19, 2015 |
angieberry:first of, u are making maximum brain Secondly.. must u be so beautiful  |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Yustash001(m): 6:21am On Jun 19, 2015 |
Here to read comments.... |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by Nobody: 7:36am On Jun 19, 2015 |
You already know you won't make a good husband even before you're married? If you can love your kids, why can't you show same to their mum?? I pity whoever is going to settle down with you. . If you know you can't commit in a relationship just as you've said, please don't get married cos marriage is about commitment.. Save a woman a life of misery biko.. 1 Like |
| Re: Good Father Without Being A Good Husband, How Possible? by bmoney9ja(m): 10:16am On Jun 19, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:d problem is, i give my all at d initial stage but after a while i ll start thinking abt why am into the relationship and before i know it..I lose interest even when sex isnt involved. I really wish I have the zeal of commitment. not dat i never wish to be a good husband mbok |
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