.This is happening to a close Person to me.


Her Fiancee is insisting He doesn't want to marry any lady whose parents are still alive.This he attributed to the problem his dad faced in the hands of his mum's parent and so on and so forth.He is however not against relatives only parents.

Now the guy is Rich,handsome and everything a woman will wish for in a man except this his one rule

.The lady and her parents have liased that she would reveal that they are dead and she would get married to him .Subsequently after d marriage they would reveal their existence and they are laying their hope on the fact that if he truly loves her,he would understand and accept the reality.

However the lady is doubtful of the plan as it may backfire and she doesn't want to lose him after two failed relationship and besides age is not on her side as she is clocking 33 this year .

Matured Advice pls ??

Cc lalasticlala

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She should tell him and if he still insists that he can only date orphans, she should let him be and move on.

Don't lie.

Because if you go into marriage with lies hanging over you.....by the time the truth comes out....you won't like it at all.

Your friend should look at other options if the fiancee insists. That is not her husband. A man who is not mature enough to accept changes in his life fully....

Dump him.Why build on foundation of lies?

All because he's rich abi?

I will deny my parents' existence because of a man


And the parents are even thinking about it



Jesus wept!

All parents in law are not the same

He will go to the orphanage last last

Wonders shall never end. So because your dad had a bad experience with your mom's parents so invariably you also will. Is it a generational curse that you need MFM deliverance for.

Miss Lady kindly let him know that your parents are alive and won't die till they have seen 4th generation. There are a lot of orphanage homes where he can get a wife.

How can my own parents deny their existence simply because they want me to get married

That's a very dumb thing to do, the guy is definitely looking for an orphan he can treat anyhow. I think getting a good woman to marry should be his priority.

Y do I hav a feeling dis is not ordinary...I think dere is something fishy....which sane guy ll be looking forward to marry an orphan jst Becos of one horrible experience...babe I think u tell him ur parents re alive and living, warming parent and he is most welcome to your home...try convincing him...if he says until u re an orphan(ur parents die) pls use the left door and walk out of dat relatnship..in marriage u don't look @ love alone put other tinz to place, love alone cnt sustain a marriage, yes I agreed love is the key tin Bt there re other relevant ingredients,don't look @ ur age, forget ur age...good guys ll cum only a matter of time..babe be careful and more importantly pray abt the situation Bt pls neva u hide ur parent's existence..be careful, watchful and prayerful

coogaluta:
I will deny my parents' existence because of a man


And the parents are even thinking about it



Jesus wept!

There's nothing one won't hear in this world.

He should go to orphanage and buy a wife there.

Some parents ehhh smh

There is nothing money won't cause in this world , lieing that your parents re dead jus because he is handsome nd rich, I wil advice u to tell him the truth, if he is interested, he would stay, if not, pls let him go though it might be hard but God wil see u through. If he cnt accept the truth, let him check orphanage home.

Any r/ship built on lies n deceit will surely crash.
Stand for d truth always.

.ishilove

l wonder how parents could liaise with their daughter to work towards building a marriage on deceit....l shudder! As for the man insisting on an orphan, l hope the man who his daughter would date would not also expect his daughter to be an orphan as a condition to marry her? Because his dad had a bad experience with his maternal grandparents is not an excuse but if he must insist, l hope on his behalf, he would be alive to see his own daughter get married....life is a circle!

softysparky:

There's nothing one won't hear in this world.
He should go to orphanage and buy a wife there.
Some parents ehhh smh

I don't think the girl is even interested in the guy as a person sef. He is just a meal ticket. If she is truly your friend then advise her to tell the guy the truth.

@OP:

The girls parents are exactly the type of in-laws he wants to avoid:

Classless, shameless and greedy

Maybe the guy has seen the parents for whom they are that's why he is pulling that stunt.

Na wa

What will I not hear in this world eeh kwa?



Since her parents has refused to die, he should carry ak47and shoot them na.

This is the highest point of demonism that could ever exist.
And to think the girls parents have volunteered to play dead.... Hmmmn. practice they say makes perfect.



Tufiakwa!!! Aja ana ekewena...

Why can't your friend put up a meaningful argument that all parents are not the same.

Besides if he love her which i doubt, he should love all the package..

Summary of what i understand in this is that the lady is looking at her biological clock..

OP this the best time for your friend to call the guy's attention over the issue. Let her tell him she got parent. And she cannot kill her parents because of him. Let him do his worst.

It is better than the lies you people were about to cook. Also it is better now incase he wants to break up ge would not waste her time no more.

kukuruku156:


I don't think the girl is even interested in the guy as a person sef. He is just a meal ticket. If she is truly your friend then advise her to tell the guy the truth.

I am not the op.

@topic, I agree with you, he is just a meal ticket to them.

I will only advice her to go on with the plan if she is willing to lose both parents a day to her wedding...

The girl and her parents are the worst things I have imagined in this life

Iamsynord:
.This is happening to a close Person to me.


Her Fiancee is insisting He doesn't want to marry any lady whose parents are still alive.This he attributed to the problem his dad faced in the hands of his mum's parent and so on and so forth.He is however not against relatives only parents.

Now the guy is Rich,handsome and everything a woman will wish for in a man except this his one rule

.The lady and her parents have liased that she would reveal that they are dead and she would get married to him .Subsequently after d marriage they would reveal their existence and they are laying their hope on the fact that if he truly loves her,he would understand and accept the reality.[b][/b]

However the lady is doubtful of the plan as it may backfire and she doesn't want to lose him after two failed relationship and besides age is not on her side as she is clocking 33 this year .

Matured Advice pls ??

Cc lalasticlala

Jesuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!

Un-freaking-believeable.

So Nigerian women can be this desperate for marriage

It's time for us to admit that we have failed as a society in raising our children . . men and women alike.

For a man to have such an unbelievably selfish and unrealistic expectations of a future spouse . . . . For a woman not to be disgusted, but scheme desperately to marry such a man by wishing her own parents dead!

All because he is rich!!!

May God save us all from this terrible terrible society we live is.

thorpido:
Dump him.Why build on foundation of lies?

She has two failed relationships ,DAT will make it the third

Cutest001:
I will only advice her to go on with the plan if she is willing to lose both parents a day to her wedding...

The girl and her parents are the worst things I have imagined in this life

Are you saying she should quit the relationship ?? she will be 33 this year

bukatyne:
@OP:

The girls parents are exactly the type of in-laws he wants to avoid:

Classless, shameless and greedy

Maybe the guy has seen the parents for whom they are that's why he is pulling that stunt.

Na wa

your advice for the lady ?

Iamsynord:


Are you saying she should quit the relationship ?? she will be 33 this year

I will not tell her what to do, but again if I was in her shoes I will quit the relationship over and over again..

The man in question has his desires and made it clear to her, I have this strong feeling that the guy is mean and hard-hearted..
Imagine getting married to the guy with lies and pretense and after marriage the parents appears, what will be her excuse?
Oh the age and the likes...
Will you blame the guy if he kicks her out of the house after then?
Or he makes the life and marriage unbearable for her?
Or tells her he doesn't want to set his eyes on the parents or hear her talk to them over the phone..

Yes everybody's life is difficult but we shouldn't intentionally make ours more difficult..

Iamsynord:


She has two failed relationships ,DAT will make it the third

20 broken relationships are better than 1 broken marriage