santos247:
Most Men are unfaithful !!!!!!!!!
HArdly can a married man stay without cheating
There are no more virgins in the land
Relationship without sex is near impossible
If He has not undressed you, then its likely He is impotent
These are many more are the tales that have dominated discussions here on nairaland and other social media platforms. Even the innocent are gradually settling for the false premises. Somebody said, when a lie has been told repeatedly, it gradually assume the status of being the truth.
In the midst of so much infidelity in marriage, sexual pervasion among the youths etc, i can bodly confirm that there are lots and lots of youths who have refused to cave into the world's standards. MAny have their reasons ranging from: Spiritual values; Moral standards and personal decency.
Are you there and have been standing for what the real truth is, lets go here and give a shout out. This will encourage those at the brink of compromise to stay strong. We overcome by....words of our testimony....
Here are a few of mine:
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The greatest factor that has helped me is my Love for God: As a young boy growing up, i had lots and lots of moments i would have compromised sexually, but each time i remeber how God has been faithful to me, i withdraw myself.....CAmpus things, NYSC things, Being a Banker etc...Lots of girls frolicking around you...
If you can keep off sex in your relationship, then you would be able to resist any other woman. I have been away from home as a married man for over 1yr and despite series of temptations, I have been able to hold myself. I know i will even till i return........
Guys, let us tell ourselves the truth....We can !!!!!
He works in us both to will and to do..........
MArried and faithful dudes, lets have your words..........

zaragal:
FTC...good piece...really great piece

uptoHim:
Good one Sir!
Though I'm not yet married, but I have had two great no sex relationships. When I say great relationships, I know what I'm saying! The first just got married last December. It was very difficult for her to bid me a final goodbye, even till her wedding day. And the second one? Till today, 2 years after we parted, she has never stopped talking about us getting back together. Yes, I brought them up here so that some of you that think "everyone is doing it" would have a second thought. And you might ask why the relationships didn't last forever. Well, I have learnt that some people can come into your life just for a season, and not for a lifetime. And you have to accept it that way.

When I talk about no sex for the single and faithfulness for the married, I'm talking about decency, honest, and purity. Not masturbation, emotional cheating or secrete lust. Am I normal? YES! More normal than all the larger percentage of unfaithful and sexually irresponsible men on earth. Yes, I'm normal... well endowed and sexually healthy! How do I know? I'm educated, well informed and very much 'aware' of my body. The urge and temptations do come, many times, but I don't and will never succumb to it. Am I a kid? No! I'm a grown man, around 30yrs!

And let me also tell you that as a single guy, I'm talking about a fornication free life here, no fingering, sulking, smooching or any of those immoral things many do and still tell you they are not Bleep ing! Do I get opportunities? Yes! More than you could imagine. I'm certain from my secondary sch senior prefect days, SUG universities day, NYSC too many free and available sex days, till today that I'm doing very well in my career, I have been practically(not green light) chyked by not less than 20 females(single and married). No exageration pls! Don't think I'm rigid or too unemotional. No! I have more female friends than even so many so called players. What do I do with them? Same thing I do with my many male friends. Friendship knows no gender. And I know the lines that shouldn't be crossed for their own good and mine as well.

My point is, I have the grounds to follow the general belief on this cheating and sex sex of a tradition thing, but no. It is not my life. I will only pull down my boxers for that woman that walked down the isle with me. Of a truth, she go hear am. Lol. Until she comes, it's me and my career, and the lives I will be touching positively on daily basis.
I'm not the holier than thou type. In fact, though God is my utmost all, but I'm not the too churchous type.

A faithful or no sex relationship is very wonderful. In fact, if you have not practised faithfulness or experienced somethings greater than sex in lady, you have not dated at all. Life is a decision. Live is strongly and courageously! Live it for God. Live your personal principle on! Faithfulness pays! Virginity is priceless! Keep yourself for who you should keep it for. If you have strayed, retrace! Now! And for those who are faithful and keeping themselves, you are not alone. And don let anyone deceive you! If anyone talks too much, shut him or her up/out. When you allow people to keep speaking, you keep reducing! Be firm in your decisions!

N/B
If you don't believe me, it's you business!

uptoHim:
Good one Sir!
Though I'm not yet married, but I have had two great no sex relationships. When I say great relationships, I know what I'm saying! The first just got married last December. It was very difficult for her to bid me a final goodbye, even till her wedding day. And the second one? Till today, 2 years after we parted, she has never stopped talking about us getting back together. Yes, I brought them up here so that some of you that think "everyone is doing it" would have a second thought. And you might ask why the relationships didn't last forever. Well, I have learnt that some people can come into your life just for a season, and not for a lifetime. And you have to accept it that way.

When I talk about no sex for the single and faithfulness for the married, I'm talking about decency, honest, and purity. Not masturbation, emotional cheating or secrete lust. Am I normal? YES! More normal than all the larger percentage of unfaithful and sexually irresponsible men on earth. Yes, I'm normal... well endowed and sexually healthy! How do I know? I'm educated, well informed and very much 'aware' of my body. The urge and temptations do come, many times, but I don't and will never succumb to it. Am I a kid? No! I'm a grown man, around 30yrs!

And let me also tell you that as a single guy, I'm talking about a fornication free life here, no fingering, sulking, smooching or any of those immoral things many do and still tell you they are not Bleep ing! Do I get opportunities? Yes! More than you could imagine. I'm certain from my secondary sch senior prefect days, SUG universities day, NYSC too many free and available sex days, till today that I'm doing very well in my career, I have been practically(not green light) chyked by not less than 20 females(single and married). No exageration pls! Don't think I'm rigid or too unemotional. No! I have more female friends than even so many so called players. What do I do with them? Same thing I do with my many male friends. Friendship knows no gender. And I know the lines that shouldn't be crossed for their own good and mine as well.

My point is, I have the grounds to follow the general belief on this cheating and sex sex of a tradition thing, but no. It is not my life. I will only pull down my boxers for that woman that walked down the isle with me. Of a truth, she go hear am. Lol. Until she comes, it's me and my career, and the lives I will be touching positively on daily basis.
I'm not the holier than thou type. In fact, though God is my utmost all, but I'm not the too churchous type.

A faithful or no sex relationship is very wonderful. In fact, if you have not practised faithfulness or experienced somethings greater than sex in lady, you have not dated at all. Life is a decision. Live is strongly and courageously! Live it for God. Live your personal principle on! Faithfulness pays! Virginity is priceless! Keep yourself for who you should keep it for. If you have strayed, retrace! Now! And for those who are faithful and keeping themselves, you are not alone. And don let anyone deceive you! If anyone talks too much, shut him or her up/out. When you allow people to keep speaking, you keep reducing! Be firm in your decisions!

N/B
If you don't believe me, it's you business!

onyaigo:
The holy spirit just revealed to me that you are my missing rib .what took you so long?

santos247:


HUmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyways, God works in mysterious ways

onyaigo:
The holy spirit just revealed to me that you are my missing rib .what took you so long?

duchess25:
nice one bro.i agree wt u cos the fact remains that if you dont engage in promiscuity u stand to shine more in life and have a less stressful life cos i normally tel pple that what u hvnt tasted wont be hungrying you morese if u hv sex wt smone b4 marriage it makes d marriage loose its sweetness easily. so bro jisie ike(keep it up)cos its nt easy.

uptoHim:



Exactly! They really don't know what sexual immorality takes away from them. Tanks. A gam ejisiriri ike gbanahu onwunwa ikwa iko obula

MarvellousGod:
Where dem guys dey na?? Coming here to read new updates, but none

It's a week thread was opened yet e never pass one page?

jmoore:
I am not married yet.
I will definitely be a faithful husband.
I cherish sexual purity which is one of the reasons I have kept a 'clean sheet' as a single man.


Strength lies in your faithfulness while cheating reveals how weak you are.

Jamean:


They can't come. He who must come to equity must come with clean hands

uptoHim:



Hahhahaa, pls tell the holy spirit to reveal it to me too. Me sef get spiritual eyes to hear Him. Thank you o.

onyaigo:
Lol. Just chill,you will start seeing things soon.