MrOlai:
1. Loss of Dignity

The moment you allow a boyfriend to sleep with you, that is the end of your dignity in his mind! You can never be proud of yourself again in his presence. He can sleep with you again and again and deal with you any how he likes!

2. Barrenness/Infertility

You may be forced to commit abortion if you get pregnant for a boyfriend. Your abortion(s) might lead to barrenness especially if it affects your womb.

3. Breast Cancer

If you commit abortion(s) for your boyfriend(s), that might lead to breast cancer and cancer can lead to death! Recent researches link breast cancer to abortion(s). It is said that whenever an abortion is committed, physiological processes in the body developing with pregnancy are brought to an abrupt end. So, the processes of milk development in the breasts are cut short and this might lead to development of cancerous cells in the breasts having gathered momentum for the processes of milk development!

4. Murdered Baby(ies) on Your Neck

If you commit abortion(s) for your boyfriend(s), the unborn baby(ies) you kill will be on your neck. In the heaven, the baby(ies) will keep asking you why you kill them and you will need to explain why to God!

5. Marital Problems

When you eventually get married to your husband after having boyfriend(s) with whom you have intimate relationship(s) with, the affairs you have with boyfriend(s) might cause problems in your marriage. For instance, if your husband decides to know about your past and you let him know that you have had like 7 boyfriends and you have committed like 4 abortions! That might create a serious problem in your marriage. In fact, what you are calling "funs" now are potential dangers for your future marriage and well being.

6. HIV.

You might contract HIV, hepatitis or any other STD that might endanger your life!


7. Hell Fire!

You might end up in hell fire with what you are doing now in the name of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, if God does not forgive you, when you die!


So, ladies, let's fear God. Your body belongs exclusively only to one person, and that is your husband. This is the decree of God Almighty on us. For the youths and students amongst us, let's remain patient. Face your studies and pray to God to make you steadfast. The time for you to have maximum enjoyment of sex with your husband is not too far. With this, you will be highly blessed and you will have no cause to regret.

ITbomb:
After your first reason which may not be true in a responsible and mature relationship, the other reasons are just based on abortion scare. Therefore in a relationship that the couple engage in "best practices" ie using condoms and spacing out sex like once or twice a month during safe periods, the rest of your reasons lack merits and is therefore thrown out.

We know that fornication is a sin but give us better realistic reasons next time. Thanks

tranxo:
Well if you know that fornication is sin, the BEST PRACTICES would be abstinence, abstinence, and abstinence.
What you wrote above is not for the unmarried.

tranxo:
Well if you know that fornication is sin, the BEST PRACTICES would be abstinence, abstinence, and abstinence.
What you wrote above is not for the unmarried.

donholy28:
Op...change d topic

funlord:

Who still reasons like this in this day and age abeg? Or op, are you gay?

Mzdivacious:
and all these is to the consideration of one future husband prolly opening another girl s legs right this minute abi

agarawu23:
don't forget i am your future husband


Op repeating same point