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In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 1:51am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Thanks |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Treetop20(m): 1:55am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss: i stopped reading here |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 1:57am On Mar 04, 2009 |
LOL. . . @op i dont know wat to say but dont break up an happy home |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Akinagirl(f): 2:02am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Wow, I would have said give it a chance, if he wasn't married already. Since the chemistry is out of this world after so many years. Sorry But I guess as much as you all don't want to, you have to let go, nothing good would ever come out of that situation, just heartbreak. By the way why haven't you found someone all this time? 38? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Treetop20(m): 2:04am On Mar 04, 2009 |
tope2000:tope your siggy and photo do not match up we need a close up so we can tell where you fall under don't you reckon? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 2:05am On Mar 04, 2009 |
I said I was single, not unable to get a man, this wasn't intentional. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:06am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Treetop20: Wetin come consign u na Why u wan see my close-up?? u just want to see how ugly i am sha I wont let u |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by DaPhoenix(f): 2:06am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Try to put yourself in his wife's shoes. Think about how awful it will feel for you to find out the love of your life is throwing your relationship away for a woman who he hasn't seen in the past 20 years. Though he make you feel loved and all, you need to let him go solely for the fact that he is with someone else. I'm sure there's someone else out there for you who is willing to love you and more. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Treetop20(m): 2:07am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss:why do you reckon this is the case? if you really can get a man then why date someone elses? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:07am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss: Pls dont tell me u were one of those women that hided under the canopy of im miss independent till it was too late?? I pray u find ur husband cuz its not worth the heartbreak u'd get from this relationship |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 2:10am On Mar 04, 2009 |
very independent, and it's not to late trust me, THIS JUST HAPPENED!! |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 2:12am On Mar 04, 2009 |
why do you reckon this is the case? if you really can get a man then why date someone elses? I don't know if I knew why I wouldnt be posting on a board for strangers to ridicule me , life just happens sometimes! |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:13am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss: So were u more into ur career more than actually settling down?? Or were you the i cant cook for a man etc type because i have got a life |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Nobody: 2:13am On Mar 04, 2009 |
end it. i pity his wife. All this time he's spending with you he must be lying to his wife to cover it up. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Sauron1: 2:13am On Mar 04, 2009 |
DaPhoenix: What if there is no one out there for her to love?? There's no guarantee. The OP should enjoy herself while it lasts. The feeling is like a puff of breath. . . . .It lingers for a while and then it diffuses after a while. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Akinagirl(f): 2:14am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Yeah, didn't say that you were unable to find a man, was just wondering why you didn't have your own after all this time, being 38 and all. Then the first relationship you get is with someone that is married? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Treetop20(m): 2:14am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss: |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:15am On Mar 04, 2009 |
~Sauron~: So does it really worth the heartache? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 2:16am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Afraid of commitment been burned too many times and grew up w/ parents who's marriage was horrible! I been in a 9 year relationship w/ my daughters father and wouldn't marry him because I fear commitment. I can cook, clean, and am very attractive and educated it lies no where in that area. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Sissy3(f): 2:16am On Mar 04, 2009 |
my dear dnt confuse lust with love. u both r just lusting after each others flesh thats all. i dnt see any love here, he is married, not ready to leave his wife and u knw this, y continue on with affair? or u want to get caught or heartbroken? . if u ask me, i will advise u 2 end it cox no good thing other than good sex will come out of this relationship. dnt appear desperate, end it and find anotha single man. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Akinagirl(f): 2:18am On Mar 04, 2009 |
You are talking about being burned in past relationships. Then you better let this one go. Because you would only get burned in this one. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by DaPhoenix(f): 2:19am On Mar 04, 2009 |
~Sauron~: At what cost? There is also no guarantee that the man is going to leave his lawfully wedded wife for her. It's best to end it before you get too deep. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:19am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss: My dear, let it go and look for ur own . . . . . . . .And i pray u find him soonest How long do you want to be second best for?? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Sauron1: 2:19am On Mar 04, 2009 |
tope2000: It's a dead end relationship. Both of em know that so there's nothing to lose afterall. I am sick n tired of NLers who go. . . .End it, stop the relationship, kill it, gag it. Is it that easy?? DaPhoenix: Women who think they have got guarantee also get dumped so whats the biggie?? Let the OP enjoy herself while it lasts. Live for the moment. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Akinagirl(f): 2:20am On Mar 04, 2009 |
Yeah sweetie, you deserve to be first in a mans life. Not second. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Treetop20(m): 2:21am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss:enjoy it while it lasts. no matter what we all say you will do what you want regardless just remember that he will not leave his wife for you |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 2:22am On Mar 04, 2009 |
You are talking about being burned in past relationships. Then you better let this one go. Because you would only get burned in this one. Yes I am aware I will be burned, but its so incredible the whole realm of it , I am dating other men, matter a fact I have a date Saturday, I am not not stopping my life for this, just caught up in the whole thrill I guess? People seem to be on their high horses about this subject and before this happened to me I would have never thought I'd have an affair either! |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:23am On Mar 04, 2009 |
~Sauron~: If nothing but heartache, sadness, unhapiness is going to come out of the relationship, might as well end it now b4 its gets too deep, and she becomes more attached to the guy who wont leave his wife . . . . . . im sure so its still her loss . . . . . . so why not lose now than later |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by DaPhoenix(f): 2:25am On Mar 04, 2009 |
~Sauron~: I agree with Tope. For someone who has been burned many times before, she sure knows how to set herself for the heat again. |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by firstkiss: 2:29am On Mar 04, 2009 |
How am I setting myself up? I know the facts I know hes not leaving his wife, nor do I want him to after all I couldn't trust him, I am not stupid, He's hot, successful, caring and funny we have the best time together, I am NOT waiting for his calls or wanting him to leave is wife, as someone just said, I am living for the moment, and enjoying the ride, I want you to ask yourself what you would do if your first love came back in your life if you would over step the moral boundaries? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by tope2000(f): 2:31am On Mar 04, 2009 |
firstkiss: If u have already figured it all out, why are u here asking for advice?? |
Re: In Deep W/ The One Who Got Away & Is Married Now & We're Having An Affair! by Treetop20(m): 2:31am On Mar 04, 2009 |
then why did you post here seeking advice? |
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