The Soothing Balm of Apologies

An 'apology' is a statement or an action showing remorse for an offense committed intentionally or unintentionally. It's basically an expression of regret, an admission of an error or acceptance of blame and a willingness to make amends for better relationship and understanding. It's a genuine desire to get above an offense and make peace not just with the aggrieved but also with self for a better functioning of the soul which is the seat of intellect.

Although an apology is an integral part of human coexistence, it's also important to talk about 'Offenses' being the reason for apologies. Offense (Friction) is one of the most common occurrence in human relationship. Given our individual differences and uniqueness, there is likely to be friction when people come together for a common course, and this is what leads to offense. It is more likely to occur in groups were members are unfamiliar or have little awareness of "individual differences". The marriage relationship is not exempt from this.

Offense is toxic in nature. Without the offering and acceptance of genuine apologies If urgent steps are not taking , an offense can rend the tender fabrics of human relations, breaking down walls of familiarity and ruining the entire relationship.
In a world of imperfection driven by personal desires offenses are inevitable even amongst family members. It leads to pains and bitterness which could develop into sickness of mind and body (Psychosomatic ailments) this could culminate in the development of chronic diseases in a man.

Thankfully there is a renown antidote of this toxin 'Offense' and its simply genuine heartfelt 'Apology'. A sincere apology carries with it a soothing balm that is capable of melting any form of pain that was brought about by bitterness caused by offenses. It doesn't really matter who tenders the apology first but it sure has a greater healing on the initiator than the recipient. This simply means you are more liberated from bitterness, chronic conditions when you pick the courage to apologize first, especially in cases when both parties feel aggrieved. So today rise above that offense and save that ailing relationship with the 'Soothing Balm of Apology'.avoid health risks!

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