Am looking for a Nigerian Muslim wife, sisters feel free to send me an email if you're interested. However, the certain thing men look for in women differ, I have a summary for who am looking for.

1. She must speak English clearly.

2. She must be good looking

3. She must not tell me lies when I ask her something I honestly want to know. Instead of lying you may say you don't wish to talk about it. I may not bother to ask you any longer. Once lies are detected, I automatically think of ending a relationship.

4. She must not like talking too much

5. She must not think of stopping me from doing any good. That includes giving charity

6. She may smile or cry but not when she doesn't mean. (This itself is pretense), if you're a pretender please it is not an offense don't mail me.

7. She must not be too cultural/traditional -- Islamic traditions come before your hausa or Yoruba custom.

8. She has to be honest with me-- somehow, I have informants who will monitor your actions with other men-- don't be surprised that I may be living far away from you, I have people that would detail even the time and place you commenced an action that may not render our relationship legitimate.

9. She must not try to seduce or make sexual advancements when I have not called her a wife yet.

10. She must not sound rude if in case I vex her (which I don't really do purposefully), but she has the right to react in a fair polite way.

That is all for now. As the relationship commences, you would be asked to sign "a terms and condition statement", that reserves the right to end the relationship before our marriage commences this year.



Muki, please don't put this in the romance or joke section. It's meant for neither.

U're kidding me,right?!

Dude,no wonder u're still single. (No pun intended).

@nana

But from your user name, you are probably igbo. And most probably not a Muslim. How do you know am single?

If u aint single,u wouldn't create this thread.

Yeah,am a xtian and a yoruba gal.

nana:

If u aint single,u wouldn't create this thread.

Yeah,am a xtian and a yoruba gal.

Good point, I don't want to write what wont make me receive mails from honest girls though.

Good luck in your search you'll need it

All ze best!

mukina2:

Good luck in your search you'll need it

Hehe. Thanks.

Rofl what happened to the girl you bought an Ipod for?

DeReloaded:

Rofl what happened to the girl you bought an Ipod for?

She left me, but not for another guy I know. She said we need some boundaries now-- that really turned me off 

interesting

All these girls sef why u knw send am mail nah.

Oga Frizy salam shey all these requirements no too much like this. D girls wey dey town now i dont think dem go get all this traits. Maybe if you get someone with the potential and you can groom/develop/reform to suit your standards. what do you think cos i maybe wrong as well.

Frizy:

She left me, but not for another guy I know. She said we need some boundaries now-- that really turned me off 

Perhaps she sensed you were a jealous manic?

or what else would she mean by boundaries

I suggest working on changing some things instead of hoping to catch someone else that will eventually leave as well.

Lagosboy:

. Maybe if you get someone with the potential and you can groom/develop/reform to suit your standards.

Like a show dog?

DeReloaded:

Perhaps she sensed you were a jealous manic?

or what else would she mean by boundaries

I suggest working on changing some things instead of hoping to catch someone else that will eventually leave as well.

@Dereloaded
Hmm, Listen, I don't want to start this bash and I bash mode this year with you. What do you mean that the next person I find would leave me? I only mentioned this on nairaland because my dear mum doesn't seem to like girls who aren't Nigerian. I don't have to get personal here, but just to let you know-- I don't like people who sound offensive all the time. You need to step up your game besides this your bashing technique ok?

Lagosboy:

All these girls sef why u knw send am mail nah.

Oga Frizy salam shey all these requirements no too much like this. D girls wey dey town now i dont think dem go get all this traits.

Well, seem many but the central theme is, a woman (most preferable Muslim) of a good character and look. That's all.

Maybe if you get someone with the potential and you can groom/develop/reform to suit your standards. what do you think cos i maybe wrong as well.

Well am not in Nigeria, a personal groom would therefore the difficult.

Lmao my friend I dont need to step up anything esp not for you  

Im not the one with a personal ad on NL  

In case you are unaware. Your #8 and #10 says alot. You might see it as being "insulting" but Im actually being genuine. You have the traits of a possessive, overly jealous maniac. Look up the meaning and traits

You want someone you can annoy but must not react to the fact that you annoyed her like a castrated dog. I wish you luck in finding such a Naija female unless you wanna look into the Hausas and even their women arent as docile anymore.

The sooner you accept the truth and work on YOURSELF instead of looking for a robot to mold, the sooner you'll find someone who wont use you for material things then run for her life

Serious question, what did she mean by boundaries?

@Reloaded are you married?

to you of course

DeReloaded:

Lmao my friend I dont need to step up anything esp not for you  

Im not the one with a personal ad on NL  

In case you are unaware. Your #8 and #10 says alot. You might see it as being "insulting" but Im actually being genuine. You have the traits of a possessive, overly jealous maniac. Look up the meaning and traits

You want someone you can annoy but must not react to the fact that you annoyed her like a castrated dog. I wish you luck in finding such a Naija female unless you wanna look into the Hausas and even their women arent as docile anymore.

The sooner you accept the truth and work on YOURSELF instead of looking for a robot to mold, the sooner you'll find someone who wont use you for material things then run for her life

Serious question, what did she mean by boundaries?

First of all, am not looking for someone to annoy. But we all have to behave civilized. A woman that is quick to anger is not a good woman for me or anyone seeking something good in a relationship. You have now twisted my words as though I never expect a reaction if I did something she may not like. There is nothing wrong to voice your stance as long as I know it doesn't appear 'manic".

While it is good to show care by buying stuffs for people you love, I don't expect that I buy someone's love with material things, and concerning the monitoring please don't mistake this that I don't trust people. Far from it, it just depends on the person's character--

I would try and I welcome any better adjustment towards myself, it's not all about making rules, there may be some compromises.

Haha-- boundaries? That's best defined by her, I think she's sort was jealous . . .(that's all I can say-- please don't further interrogate me, except you want us to "get personal"

As for getting personal or whatever,no idea what you're getting at so I'll ignore it.

My point was why marry or consider marrying someone you feel you might have to moniter. Doesnt make sense.

Frizy:

I would try and I welcome any better adjustment towards myself, it's not all about making rules, there may be some compromises.

That's what you should be working on

Why do all these mallams find it difficult to get muslim wives? with the millions of females who troop like cows to mecca every year you'd think they would never lack for female flesh.

Well Frizy wait for jaanat, 72 virgins are yours there or you can die now.

davidylan:

Why do all these mallams find it difficult to get muslim wives? with the millions of females who troop like cows to mecca every year you'd think they would never lack for female flesh.

Well Frizy wait for jaanat, 72 virgins are yours there or you can die now.

read ur posts again and go nail urself on the cross like they did to ur god!!!

davidylan:

Why do all these mallams find it difficult to get muslim wives? with the millions of females who troop like cows to mecca every year you'd think they would never lack for female flesh.

Well Frizy wait for jaanat, 72 virgins are yours there or you can die now.

and you wonder why people call our dear dawoda nackson a chauvinist . . .maybe 'female flesh' is all he looks for in a life partner. . . ,

seems the moniker is right on the mark. . .

javalove:

read ur posts again and go nail urself on the cross like they did to ur god!!!

why the crucifiction dey pain una like this?

What a joker! Go find urself a doll to play with abeg. . .

davidylan:

Why do all these mallams find it difficult to get muslim wives? with the millions of females who troop like cows to mecca every year you'd think they would never lack for female flesh.

Well Frizy wait for jaanat, 72 virgins are yours there or you can die now.

**OMG, i didn't receive mails to prompt any replies**

@davidlyan

I don't have to wait for that long, please fellows don't get this all twisted, I don't lack females that's an obvious truth. Am just searching for someone Nigerian which I have not yet seen.

Radiant:

What a joker! Go find urself a doll to play with abeg. . .

Your dirty mind, what do you mean by play with?

Frizy:

Am looking for a Nigerian Muslim wife, sisters feel free to send me an email if you're interested. However, the certain thing men look for in women differ, I have a summary for who am looking for.

1. She must speak English clearly.

2. She must be good looking

3. She must not tell me lies when I ask her something I honestly want to know. Instead of lying you may say you don't wish to talk about it. I may not bother to ask you any longer. Once lies are detected, I automatically think of ending a relationship.

4. She must not like talking too much

5. She must not think of stopping me from doing any good. That includes giving charity

6. She may smile or cry but not when she doesn't mean. (This itself is pretense), if you're a pretender please it is not an offense don't mail me.

7. She must not be too cultural/traditional -- Islamic traditions come before your hausa or Yoruba custom.

8. She has to be honest with me-- somehow, I have informants who will monitor your actions with other men-- don't be surprised that I may be living far away from you, I have people that would detail even the time and place you commenced an action that may not render our relationship legitimate.

9. She must not try to seduce or make sexual advancements when I have not called her a wife yet.

10. She must not sound rude if in case I vex her (which I don't really do purposefully), but she has the right to react in a fair polite way.

That is all for now. As the relationship commences, you would be asked to sign "a terms and condition statement", that reserves the right to end the relationship before our marriage commences this year.



Muki, please don't put this in the romance or joke section. It's meant for neither.

if olabs and lagosboy no take 4: 4 each your chances for better. why not go huseland go find one take start now.

lagosboy no fit help you find one. you see your brothers for islam and NL

@ davidlyan,why do u like putting sand in peoples garri,they will ask 4 a simple request and u will turn everything into a mess ,he dint ask u citisize their opinion,he ask 4 peoples views on his request.

Why do all these mallams find it difficult to get muslim wives? with the millions of females who troop like cows to mecca every year you'd think they would never lack for female flesh.

Well Frizy wait for jaanat, 72 virgins are yours there or you can die now.