tpiadotcom:

Is that the spin you put on yourself?

I guess the difference is now you got a vasectomy?

Anyway, your post about "father figures" was what I responded to.

Not sure why you feel yourself qualified to criticize that kind of situation, when you are part of the problem..

How am I part of the problem when I have no baby mum and I'm not a deadbeat dad?

Oh, I didn't having fun and exploring what chics have to offer as a teenager is problematic and I ought to have joined the Roman Catholic Church to be a monk.

adorable29:



Loool! Sorry for taking it that far....


So for the sake of argument, your girl is going to be an exemption from all the other Nigerian chics due to your "fatherly empowerment".....

Does that therefore mean our NIGERIAN MEN ARE ALL FAILURES for not empowering their daughters to be go getters with pride and self worth and therefore are partly to blame? Yet they won't stop ranting!

I know you to be intelligent and will be able to answer constructively... Hehehe

We are not even denying it. It is a big problem and we (naija men) are culpable as well. I think our girls are only responding to the environment in which they find themselves - an overly and excessively materialistic society where even pastors preach only about prosperity.

But you have to agree with me: our girls are too materialistic. Y'all are the same. Fact

adorable29:

Crazy guy!

"I have got a Nigerian dad WHO RAISED girls that are......", so quoting you, it all still comes down to Nigerian fathers and men being irresponsible as parents, hence the prevailing situation under discussion....

Hehehe! Just playing tho.... Nice day!

I hope you aren't thinking I'm trying to take a shot a naij chics. I'm shook of voodoo dolls from naij chics lol. I just don't know to feign ignorance and I always my mind.

Regardless, naij chics need a re-orientation on how to be great/desirable women and mums. Most naij guys into them these days just do it cos they wanna stick to their own and perhaps they got stuck while selling them a dream. And some of them are physically attractive. Apart from that, a lot of them don't have that supreme desirability a complete woman should have due to how predictable they are with their shenanigans. Once you meet a naij chic, she doesn't need to tell you what she is about before you know you just have to use material thing as a bait to get under her skirt. It is that easy.

Shymm3x:


How am I part of the problem when I have no baby mum and I'm not a deadbeat dad?

Oh, I didn't having fun and exploring what chics have to offer as a teenager is problematic and I ought to have joined the Roman Catholic Church to be a monk.

Hypocrisy is what I mean.

If you don't believe in safe sex, you should not condemn the absence of father figures since you are also contributing.

jerryunit48:
The rate at which Nigerian young men are marrying ladies of other nationalities leaving our NIGERIAN girls wondering what really has gone wrong is so alarming. I attended a friends wedding in Germany last weekend and it was lovely,beautiful couple the guy Nigerian the girl a German and no it's not what you think,the guy is German citizen, I have to make a thread like this because I have another friend who just got engaged to his Lithuanian girlfriend and I have a lot of friends with either a girl from Cameroon or Kenya and even Ghana so I ask myself are we scared of Nigerian girls? Well I met one who asked me if I have ever seen the queen walking behind a man? We have heard so many stories about our girls and even in nairaland if you are regular you must have heard of one guy in U.S. Warming us against marrying an Aruchukwu girl so really are they all bad ? Well I witnessed one case of a friend who brought his wife to Germany and she eventually asked the police to kick him out even though she was the one that slept around with guys but really there have to be some good ones.
Pls help our Nigerian girls with some advice while we we are very much happy for our married guys irrespective of the nationality of the wife because ultimately it's their happiness that matters

When some Nigerian Guys Travel and live and nationalise in European
Countries or mainly Non English Speaking European & Asian countries they
mostly want to settle down and integrate into the society.. and they Women you
see on a daily basis and interact with in a work and social setting are the
ones you are most likely to marry....nothing is wrong with Nigerian Girls
but when a Nigerian Guy is living abroad, it better for him to marry a Nigerian
girl who also lives abroad that he can see on a daily/weekly basis...distance
relationships work but only for the those who really understand themselves...
sometimes is just better for the Nigerian Girl to be abroad with the Nigerian Guy she
is dating so that all the Illusions and Fantasies are removed from her head and she knows
the reality of the situation.....

Too many Nigerian girls who are dating Nigerian Guys who live abroad are leaving
in Disney Land...their expectations are 99.99% wrong....

the only Nigerian girls that i know that are dating a Nigerian guy abroad that are level
headed are the ones that have lived abroad and have come back to Nigeria. to live while the
guy is still abroad...

Those ones are have seen both sides and they are level headed to the core and know
what they want....

sinaj:
nigga itz called choice....



u dnt av to generalise because a hot hoe u got married to, burnt you.


avnt u heard of Caucasians dat are happily married to Nigerian gurls

Lol i guess most guys will discount what you have said by 99.99% since you
leave in Port-Harcourt...the city of premium gold digging nigerian girls seeking Petrol-dollar Guys! lol
and you use of the "N" Word tells us that you are still stuck in Coo-Coo Land....lol!

sinaj:


u got it all wrong dude...

u guyz always think dat gurls are after yo money nd itz not evn as if u guyz got d money

You are In Port-Harcourt..you are young..and you have not see life so much
both home and away..so you need to take a chill-pill and just read and learn.....

tpiadotcom:


Hypocrisy is what I mean.

If you don't believe in safe sex, you should not condemn the absence of father figures since you are also contributing.

How do you know I don't believe in safe sex? And how am I contributing to anything?

onelife97:
I don't know if there is any gud girl in Nigeria again.I am also married with oyinbo and I very bn thinking of coming bk home to find a gud 9ja girl but damn it they r all the same VULTURES that won't let u die b4 descending on whatever they could grab.
especially taking ur name to pastor, alfa baba law ,etc.cannot trust a 9ja babe.
One I met few months ago,a med doctor that I tot shld b educated and normal but alas!she is a miss.I am regretting everything I dis with her.

are you not a very foolish husband. The suprising part is that you find no shame in your story.

NgwaManNaija4LF:
Well, I live in the Netherlands,had a german woman before but things fail apart, I don't want to marry any European girl @34, I think is time to get someone serious, but i'm also bit confused because of what i'm reading here about our sisters back home,some of our sisters here bring their local mentality from Nigeria,making it hard for us to cope with them.

where do you meet these women? Bar? Night club?

justwise:
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Very easy to say that but in practice its a different ball game, you can preach all that when the relationship/marriage is new and fresh...wait until the chips are down or when you have an argument then you will know what she really think of you and the situation.

Well I personally love arguing in a relationship, still doesn't shake the ground values I had at the start of the relationship

sanmibukunmi:
There is no criteria you can use to try to bring foreign and Nigerian ladies 2geda. Nigerian ladies can't be compared at all with them.... The only aspect I fink Nigerian ladies will be preferred to a foreign lady is in the aspect of cooking local dishes and dts all. And to make matters worse just abt 50 percent of dm even know how to do dt.... Here is a difference dt I have observed between a Nigerian lady and a foreigner.
A white lady will break up with u for not having a good ambition.
A white lady will break up with u for not spending enough times with her privately ( note not abt monez)
But a Nigerian lady will break up with u cos
1- you are not spending enough on her
2- you are not spending an hour thrusting in and out of her Vagina.....lol
To me even the dumbest of the whites av ha better iq, composure, self esteem, respect and sincerity than a Nigerian....

i hope you remember you are a Nigerian too

kingslly:
Our gurls only pretend to be reasonable when its time for marriage or when they are in a very disadvantaged position. Marry one abroad and she take advantage of the Oyibo's women friendly laws and frustrate d hell out of ur life

could this be as a result of lack of proper home-training from their Nigerian fathers? After all they are the head of their homes.

ceecee0703:


if u meant what u jus wrote n u will practice it. Sis u will hav a grt home...n i say u r a rare breed....

Well I do. And I'm sure so do a lot of Nigerian women.

thank you

MarryMeee:
could this be as a result of lack of proper home-training from their Nigerian fathers? After all they are the head of their homes.

Ma broda i just dunno,some cases are as a result of dat.

Nigerian wife?? I really need to know, what could be new?

not everyone on the thread is Nigerian.

most are probably not, and multiple monikers are also here.

one person can post with ten or more different monikers, carrying on the conversation with themselves.

Nobody is talking about distance relationship here, read my post again

martinosi:


When some Nigerian Guys Travel and live and nationalise in European
Countries or mainly Non English Speaking European & Asian countries they
mostly want to settle down and integrate into the society.. and they Women you
see on a daily basis and interact with in a work and social setting are the
ones you are most likely to marry....nothing is wrong with Nigerian Girls
but when a Nigerian Guy is living abroad, it better for him to marry a Nigerian
girl who also lives abroad that he can see on a daily/weekly basis...distance
relationships work but only for the those who really understand themselves...
sometimes is just better for the Nigerian Girl to be abroad with the Nigerian Guy she
is dating so that all the Illusions and Fantasies are removed from her head and she knows
the reality of the situation.....

Too many Nigerian girls who are dating Nigerian Guys who live abroad are leaving
in Disney Land...their expectations are 99.99% wrong....

the only Nigerian girls that i know that are dating a Nigerian guy abroad that are level
headed are the ones that have lived abroad and have come back to Nigeria. to live while the
guy is still abroad...

Those ones are have seen both sides and they are level headed to the core and know
what they want....

Thank God.
It would help reduce the evil gene in Nigerian men encouraged by Nigerian mothers .
Nigerian mother-in-laws would not be able to display as they want with foreign wives.
Nothing more refreshing and pleasurable than seeing a humbled, dutiful Naija man doing 'homely' chores the european society encourages.
White women have my blessing in training those niggas on how to adapt to the 21st century woman. The law is even on her side.

Only an ugly naija girl would be fighting for Naija men, lol. Iyama. You dey craze? You better date outside your race, tribe, and the whole nonsense. Expand your horizons. Many Naija girls are in interracial relationships. They don't just make noise because it's not a big deal, unlike Naija men wey e dey shack . Naija men trying to feel needed, lol, in your dreams...
Make una learn from your black American sisters that wanna die on top black men in the name of 'loyalty' to race, lol.
Loyalty and a black man's d.ick is such an oxymoron, lol.

MarryMeee:
where do you meet these women? Bar? Night club?

Nigerians in diaspora organization.

YourMain:

Well I do. And I'm sure so do a lot of Nigerian women.
thank you

i may agree to urs but only very few are in ur category i tell u

freecocoa:
But you been tell me say you belong to me o, I no vex sha as change don come and that your teeth wey you never brush 4 years sef, well since oyibo talk say there is love in sharing, I go manage am.

No mind those mumu boys wey no get work, I no provoke again.

hehehe the time wey i be wan marry u na ur papa pursue me na with cutlass sayin the bride price too small nah .
Yes ooo no let dem dudes provoke u ooo.just ignore and act like a lady.

adorable29:



Bros, go the nearest joint go relax your head abeg... Guys like you reduce my IQ and try to bring me to ur level...

Oh better still, when I get your time, I go call you out. At the moment I am watching the CNN news on how Toshiba CEO just resigned due to a BILLION DOLLLLARS scandal! I still dey reason the money. That guy no be ur mate! Hahaha!

u sure say no be the latest telemondo movie u dey watch?
no vex oooo.i was kidding

EggovinMma:



One of the otolo wey I date no dey fir reach 5 seconds!

na too much sugar wey he dey consume cause am.tell am to cut down on im sugar intake nah

Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!

Niklausa:


Shut your trap!
Won't you agree to marry/date a rich guy, despite your own financial status?
Won't you readily accept the proposal of a man who has money even if you don't have a penny?

Are your dreams not to marry a wealthy man?

Are you not the same ladies that abandon a broke guy that loves you and foolishly trail a rich guy like a lost sheep?

Most of you ladies even don't care about building a successful future for yourselves, all you do is day dream about establishing a financial empire on the foundation of the financial success of man.

See your mouth like "girls are not after your money"
Nonsense!

Oh god! See as my nigger end the mgbeke wey bin 1 feel fly! Lolzzzz!

funlord:

Oh god! See as my nigger end the mgbeke wey bin 1 feel fly! Lolzzzz!

no comment ,, this thread is still active ...

EggovinMma:


Bush guys plenty for thus country oo.Dem no dey fit wash hand o.

You're insane.
I will soon expose your deeds here.
Bewared.

Adaeze003:
Just here to watch guys lie to themselves...



Plus, why do I feel like this thread is meant to make naija gurls weep? Smh...

Weep not child

Stillfire:
You better date outside your race, tribe, and the whole nonsense. Expand your horizons. Many Naija girls are in interracial relationships. They don't just make noise because it's not a big deal

Stilly! Stilly!! Stilly!!! How now?

Please, stop decieving your gals now, quit misleading the sisters. The "many" you used up there is in a relative sense. Unfortunately for black women, they are at the bottom of the hierarchy when it comes to "global mate choice".

In absolute terms, and where there is choice, very few non-black men want black women. Black men on the other hand are pretty much at the top - and our stock continues to rise. Please make peace with these facts and encourage the sisters to "try harder".

One love
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WI-xQ7IksUc


TV

Surely you aren't as irrascible as this.

Or are you one of the non-blacks here.

Stop putting black women down, there's enough hostility among blacks already, regardless of gender.


Women are the ones who are competing for male attention, and as such, they are also the ones who badmouth their fellow women in the game. Most men could care less what colour, or form their booty call comes in ( as we see with some black males) its women who are more picky. Women know this, that's why they are very militant in such matters.