Most spouses are perpetrators of infidelity, they get involved in it for one reason or the other.the cause of infidelity can also be due to economic reason,many families could not meet up with responsibility of taking care of their homes. There is a limit a woman can bear, when she discovers that her husband cannot provide for the family, she seeks assistance outside,the issue of money makes women to cheat on their husbands when he cannot meet their needs financially, she falls for a man who showers her with money. While to Some people infidelity was just a way of life to some people; they could never be satisfied with one man or woman. They are just wired to be unfaithful, some are serial cheaters, they cheat for the thrill of it. Insatiable sex could also lead to extra-marital affairs, many spouses always accused one another of dissatisfaction or denial of sex. Many couples complain of being sex starved by their spouses or that they are not satisfied with their spouse’s sexual lives, while some couples withhold sex as a form of punishment for their spouses. Adultery set in when a partner feels neglected by his spouse, who pays more attention to his/her career, children or relatives, thereby leaving the partner no choice than to seek for attention outside the marriage. Spending little time with your partner could increase the chance of infidelity.

When spouses become unfaithful to each other, most of them resulted to divorce as the only solution.

EFFECT

Divorce has a social effect, especially on children, and the society is put at risk if the children are not catered for, they may turnout to be a nuisance to themselves and the society.

“Most of the children roaming the streets, committing havoc and those who drop out of school are mostly from divorced parents. No single man or woman could train a child effectively or provide adequate care no matter how rich he or she was, as God had made it the responsibility of both parents

Some Helping Ways

The secret of a successful marriage is trust, patience, understanding, confidence.knowledge and unity of purpose.

“Trust, understanding and patience are some of the important virtues that sustain a relationship, these virtues are the foundation of a strong bond between two people.

couples to be good communicators and listeners as this would strengthen their relationship.

“Couples should communicate effectively, avoid conversations that will cause their spouses pain, the more open you are the closer the bond you will have with your spouse.

“Partners must also be able to resolve conflicts effectively as every couple have disagreement. You should also accept that you cannot change your partner.

"The major thing here of all is you should first of all always place your marriage in the hands of God and his Son Jesus Christ.

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Marriage or wedding?

Good points though.