bukatyne:
@Chidoks and Pamshow,

The problems people have with these kind of advice/prayers is that while we see the husband's unfaithfulness as something evil spirits are behind and target with prayers, why can't husbands also pray for their wives when they cheat or do evil spirits target husbands alone?

And I assure you that the husbands 100% know what they are doing so don't go the 'jazz' stories... even jazz needs a contact (sex/food) to be effective.

The ridiculous instances is when a man spent his youth with various women and drags his empty sick body back to his wife for nursing in the twilight years.

Trust me, if more women start to walk out of cheating marriages, less husbands will be used by the devil.

And yes, the men will always support this line of thought. It gives them the free hand to gallivant without facing the repercussions of their actions.

Chidoks:


Yes it's annoying when the woman makes 90% efforts to keep the home in one piece.it's absolutely irritating to know hubby might be indulging though you've not caught him red handed.it's emotionally tasking and stressful for you to wonder if he's having an extra marital affair but in all these what can a godly woman do.
divorce? for me it's not an option.marriage is like any other venture.yoy can make it stand and you can watch it crumble .it all depends on what you want.

Chidoks:

i make no excuse for no man.i've never seen where God permitted adultary.no matter who does it; it's 100% wrong.
But the prayer is preventive.to turn the heart of the man to God before he brings home disease, before he brings a demonised woman home, nay before he goes deep into sin..the bible says that the heart of a man is in the king's hand...God turned pharoa's heart strong and in due time turned it soft again.the essence of that prayer is for God to turn the man's heart away from adultary.is that bad? does it mean that men should go on and cheat? no .God forbid.

Chidoks:

i still ask, apart from divorce do you have any other suggestion on how to handle an adultrous husband? i truly want to know.thanks.

Dyt:



Yes
We must call out holy ghost fire to consume
They shall fall
They must die
In my deep voice
Die
Die
Fall down and die
Fire
Fire
Consume
I am starting a 21 day dry fasting

bukatyne:


Which rules says a woman contributes 90% to the making of the home? Is the man not the head? is he not to lead by example? Are you referring to a husband not yet cheating? Why should a woman marry a man that is not trustworthy? And no, not all men cheat.



Preventive prayers? Does the husband pray preventive prayers too? Prayers for the home to continually be sweet yes but specific prayers geared towards adultery? It speaks volumes



It depends on if the wife knew forehand he was a cheat, I do not see the need to cry foul when he begins to manifest true to his nature.

If the man started after marriage, it lies in the hands of the wife however she wants to.

The Bible supports divorce in the instance of adultery so the wife is free to take that route.

Chidoks:
thanks for the tips.i can't wait for midnight to come o.additional point:Father destroy any emotional attachment my husband has with any female that is not me AND let any plan any lady is having to get pregnant for my husband and/ or to steal her way into my home be broken to unconnectable pieces.amen

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All the other women in your husbands life most die by fire

Berbierklaus:

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All the other women in your husbands life most die by fire

Dyt:

Abeg how much dem dey sell am

I don't know o,saw it in my aunt's library among others