For me o, it's not but let's have your view.

To hypocrites it's abnormal when its father and daughter

But normal when its mother and daughter

your point being?

So not appropriate!

Chidoks:
For me o, it's not but let's have your view.

u mean Father n Daughter? or Old man to an underaged? or Brother to his younger sister??

Baddo101:

u mean Father n Daughter? or Old man to an underaged? or Brother to his younger sister??

i mean father and daughter

Chidoks:

i mean father and daughter

it may not really mean anything if the daughter is at a tender age. Ladies and Jealousy sha...nawa oo

tpiah2:
your point being?

my point is that it's not appropriate to expose your genitals to young children.if she mistakenly grabs his privates...?

Chidoks:


my point is that it's not appropriate to expose your genitals to young children.if she mistakenly grabs his privates...?

Baddo101:

it may not really mean anything if the daughter is at a tender age

that baby there is up to 3, if not more.children these days are wiser.besides your private properties as parents should be kept private.

Baddo101:

it may not really mean anything if the daughter is at a tender age. Ladies and Jealousy sha...nawa oo

i'm laughing ooooo

First of, its his daughter. The world isnt made up of pedophiles. The abnormal people actually make up the minority eve though everyday news would have us believe otherwise.

Second of all, its his daughter. Cant father and daughter have their fun bonding without outside people poking thier noses where it doesnt belong?

Third of all, Its his daughter! He bathed her when she was a baby and still obviously bathes her, she's not too big to share a bath with him.

Those who think it is inappropriate should kindly tell me if they were in the man's shoes wether they would molest thier daughter.

Ko posibu ke e. My kid playing wt my prik in bathtub

5minsmadness:
First of, its his daughter. The world isnt made up of pedophiles. The abnormal people actually make up the minority eve though everyday news would have us believe otherwise.

Second of all, its his daughter. Cant father and daughter have their fun bonding without outside people poking thier noses where it doesnt belong?

Third of all, Its his daughter! He bathed her when she was a baby and still obviously bathes her, she's not too big to share a bath with him.

Those who think it is inappropriate should kindly tell me if they were in the man's shoes wether they would molest thier daughter.

yes she is his but he shouldn't be in the bathtub with her..he was not bathing her. for that is not how to bathe a child.
yes there is nothing wrong in having fun with yoyr child but i have an issue with being naked with a child.bucket naked? oh pleaseeee!
I'm not even of the opinion that he may harass her but what if in the process of having fun the daughter mistakenly touches somethings? she will know that that is not a regular body part.before you know she would start looking foward to the bath with the hope that the mistake occours again.from there she becomes aware of stuffs and may even mistakenly touch her other peoples own afterall it's okay to mistakenly touch daddy's own..kids are smart these days so have your fun fully clothed.let her climb from your head to toe but not naked..

Dis comment makes me wonder if u were having ur 5mins moment while typing.. Oh my
Plz wat is wrong is wrong, dun try justifying wrong cos u seem silly doing so.
The comments I have bin reading on NL of late cause f9r worry.

Chidoks:

yes she is his but he shouldn't be in the bathtub with her..he was not bathing her. for that is not how to bathe a child.
yes there is nothing wrong in having fun with yoyr child but i have an issue with being naked with a child.bucket naked? oh pleaseeee!
I'm not even of the opinion that he may harass her but what if in the process of having fun the daughter mistakenly touches somethings? she will know that that is not a regular body part.before you know she would start looking foward to the bath with the hope that the mistake occours again.from there she becomes aware of stuffs and may even mistakenly touch her other peoples own afterall it's okay to mistakenly touch daddy's own..kids are smart these days so have your fun fully clothed.let her climb from your head to toe but not naked..

That's the granddaughter if I remember correctly and it is so inappropriate. Allowing your daughter to get naked with any man at this age is very inappropriate.

Kimoni:
That's the granddaughter if I remember correctly and it is so inappropriate. Allowing your daughter to get naked with any man at this age is very inappropriate.

At which age?

5minsmadness:


At which age?

This story was trending some months back. She was about 4/5 if my memory has not failed me.

Chidoks:


yes she is his but he shouldn't be in the bathtub with her..he was not bathing her. for that is not how to bathe a child.
yes there is nothing wrong in having fun with yoyr child but i have an issue with being naked with a child.bucket naked? oh pleaseeee!
I'm not even of the opinion that he may harass her but what if in the process of having fun the daughter mistakenly touches somethings? she will know that that is not a regular body part.before you know she would start looking foward to the bath with the hope that the mistake occours again.from there she becomes aware of stuffs and may even mistakenly touch her other peoples own afterall it's okay to mistakenly touch daddy's own..kids are smart these days so have your fun fully clothed.let her climb from your head to toe but not naked..

Lol, very funny at looking forward to touch, at that age what does she know that she wants to look forward to touch. abeg this is social forum and people will always think the worst.

i rememebr this pic very well, the parents posted thier granddaddy and granddaughter in the bathtub together, I'm not even sure they were buck nakiid. If there was anything inapproporiate going on they wouldnt have posted it on social media. the world is full of too many gullible people abeg. So if i want to go swimming with my daughter I now have to be careful so she doesnt touch my thing and become magically attached to it? Or if I walk out of the bathroom butt nakiid I have to be careful so my three year old daughter who is still a toddler wont see my thing and start asking me questions? The same people saying this ius inappropriate will be the one to tell you not to hide anything sexual education from you child. If your child is not going to learn about sec from you who will she learn it from? Me I see nothing wrong with this pic as far as am sure its her grandfather or father in the pic, the generality of men are not monsters as some people will have us believe.

So kimoni will see this as inappropriate but with the same mind be bathing her three year old son and washing his thing, dont you think its inappropriate? Isnt it possible she might molest her son when no one is looking?

abeg there is nothing wrong with this pic. You folk should not raise your kids in fear. your kids should be able to trust family. If they cant then the problem is with that family and not society as a whole.

Kimoni:


This story was trending some months back. She was about 4/5 if my memory has not failed me.

i think she was three. I remember the story well. I felt so bad for the pastor, he was truly shocked when he saw the depth of evil thoughts that was generated through such a sweet innocent pix. He had to apologise in front of his congregation. I feel it was all a lot of hullabaloo over nothing. Like the same people who cried foul when Will smith's daughter snapped a pix of her self in a bed with a male family friend and everyone began to say it looked like they snapped the pix just after having sex. I love Jada Pinketts response to them. She bullsh1tted the media and made sure the guy returned to visit the girl (or was it vice versa) that week.

I referred to you in my previous post, if it were you what would you do?

i think we are over sensitizing our kids and destroying the trust of the family unit.

Maybe the man wore swim shorts.
It beats reason to believe he will be dangling his something bare in the presence of the little girl.
He doesn't look dumb.

If he wore swim shorts then it's okayish. I guess.

But If not, I'm just gonna go somewhere and puke right now.

5minsmadness:

Lol, very funny at looking forward to touch, at that age what does she know that she wants to look forward to touch. abeg this is social forum and people will always think the worst.

i rememebr this pic very well, the parents posted thier granddaddy and granddaughter in the bathtub together, I'm not even sure they were buck nakiid. If there was anything inapproporiate going on they wouldnt have posted it on social media. the world is full of too many gullible people abeg. So if i want to go swimming with my daughter I now have to be careful so she doesnt touch my thing and become magically attached to it? Or if I walk out of the bathroom butt nakiid I have to be careful so my three year old daughter who is still a toddler wont see my thing and start asking me questions? The same people saying this ius inappropriate will be the one to tell you not to hide anything sexual education from you child. If your child is not going to learn about sec from you who will she learn it from? Me I see nothing wrong with this pic as far as am sure its her grandfather or father in the pic, the generality of men are not monsters as some people will have us believe.

So kimoni will see this as inappropriate but with the same mind be bathing her three year old son and washing his thing, dont you think its inappropriate? Isnt it possible she might molest her son when no one is looking?

abeg there is nothing wrong with this pic. You folk should not raise your kids in fear. your kids should be able to trust family. If they cant then the problem is with that family and not society as a whole.

I wish but unfortunately it is not the case. It is fast becoming a soceital problem. There is hardly any day I log on to Nairaland or any other news channel that I don't read about kids being sexually molested by families, guardians or teachers. Hence, I am now more aware than ever and will not let my daughter be used as a guinea pig. I will rather take necessary precautions and pass the same awareness to her. It is what it is.

Chidoks:


my point is that it's not appropriate to expose your genitals to young children.if she mistakenly grabs his privates...?

may God help you to cleanse your mind.

raydatluvs:
Dis comment makes me wonder if u were having ur 5mins moment while typing.. Oh my
Plz wat is wrong is wrong, dun try justifying wrong cos u seem silly doing so.
The comments I have bin reading on NL of late cause f9r worry.

Yes i'm having my '5 mins' and there is nothing wrong with that!
opinions differ, again it's allowed.!
If everyone thinks alike life will be boring!
I still maintain that it does not go down well with me. How about you?

tpiander:


may God help you to cleanse your mind.

I'm not trying to be vulgar, silly nor funny! Exposing your genitals to young children is wrong.i will dig up articles where experts discussed this matter extensively and share with you.

Chidoks:

i'm laughing ooooo

Laughing? why?

He cant be Nakked in there. No he cannot.

Baddo101:
Laughing? why?

In the comment i quoted you mentioned jealousy... jealousy ke!

Chidoks:


In the comment i quoted you mentioned jealousy... jealousy ke!

yes. now Ladies n jeolousy no b small mataz. just because father and daugther dey bath.

Baddo101:

yes. now Ladies n jeolousy no b small mataz. just because father and daugther dey bath.

yeah! i agree it's part of our 'make up'
show me a lady that doesn't exhibit a degree of jealousy and i will show you a lady that doesn't care.
BUT i didn't say no out of jealousy o.

Chidoks:


I'm not trying to be vulgar, silly nor funny! Exposing your genitals to young children is wrong.i will dig up articles where experts discussed this matter extensively and share with you.

Where did you see genitals in the picture?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, it has to do with perception.
Exercise like this will even help to strengthen the bond between father & daughter...