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5 Ways To Gain Self Confidence When Shy by 360crest(m): 11:17am On Aug 20, 2015
How To Gain Self Confidence When Shy

Ever asked yourself the mind bugging
Question? “How to Gain self confidence when
shy?” – Marquee minds my words I didn’t say you
weren’t confident, but I mean how to gain self
confidence when shy.


perhaps your going to an interview been unprepared,
your defending of a project you didn’t personally
created, or perhaps reading a speech written by
someone, which you where to present as
an “IMPROMPT II“ in a hall full of respected
guest ?.

If you have ever felt been shy that very moment –
when you want to deliver a very extravagant delivery
but just then your hands get cold, your feet snowy
and you face sweating, trust me that happens
because of lack of confidence.

However if you are truly confident about your aim
goal, and what you really want to achieve, Screw
scripts! And written speech, you would make your own
remix on stage, with confidence you could present an
extravagant delivery even without making a single
presentation.

Personally I was once unfortunate to defend a
project I knew nothing about the producer, but all I
did was find a key point I knew so much, I made my
lines, and saved the company’s head from a
presentation I knew nothing about.

That was because I followed these 5 Rules to Stay
Confident When I Get Shy


Say well to your self

One way I trick the heart when I feel I lack some quantity of confidence is “ place my heart hands on my heart, pause for 2 minutes notice the heart beat, feel my breath and say to myself all is
well” – yes like practicing Yoga!

the truth is the heart adapts to it environment, it
comes from your eyes, down to your brain to your
celebrum, and it’s been explained through our
thinking faculty and then your heart beat increase
due to your current situation in turn your self
confidence level decrease like the battery life of an
electronic Device.

Stop Comparison
You are the best maker of yourself and that
mentality should stick with you forever, I mean
forever. Comparing your activity in the office
with another work college only makes you look
lesser and limits your hidden potentials.

To build a high self confidence, smile to yourself
and stop Comparison, see yourself as the best in
any game you are into.

Make Self Rules and don’t break it
To always keep your self esteem, you need to
make rules and try your possible best never to
break the, making rules such as this helps keep
your sanity, and from built sanity it develops into
pride and from pride to self confidence , yes self
confidence that shyness can never take away.

Don’t Change your Goal
One way to attain self confidence is to be
confident of yourself, gain and nurture self
confidence, if you have got a goal don’t change it
until you are sure its results satisfies you.
Keeping goal definitely boost your mural, it boost
your confidence level and takes you out of a low
thinking capacity that you can’t do better.

Keeping your goals makes you really sure of what
you are going for and it just don’t wave your
confidence level like that of the sea.

Don’t buy other Ideals – Build Yours
To be confidence don’t buy others ideal about
confidence, read there’s and build yours, by the
sidebar are list of top rated self confidence
building books your could buy.

Read the ideal of others and don’t make it yours,
it keeps your sanity and self confidence that you
are the best even more than the rest.


Source :-
http://studyhowtobuildselfesteem.com/how-to-gain-self-confidence
Re: 5 Ways To Gain Self Confidence When Shy by Mediatekroms: 7:46pm On Aug 25, 2015
Hello Mr Emmanuel. Please i need your contact
Re: 5 Ways To Gain Self Confidence When Shy by 360crest(m): 7:49pm On Aug 25, 2015
Mediatekroms:
Hello Mr Emmanuel. Please i need your contact

pin:26572A3D: and mynumber 09098200893 - Neon Emmanuel. 360crest@gmail.com - email
Re: 5 Ways To Gain Self Confidence When Shy by SimonStiles: 4:12pm On Nov 06, 2018
hey guys, i just wanted to drop this 4 simple steps on improving self confidence...https://www.teachalearner.com/self-confidence-improvement/

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