To our Nairaland ladies especially married ones can you manage #5000 as upkeep money for the week.
Let's be realistic. Some men are paid #20 000 as monthly salary. If he doles out #5 000 per week he's a loving husband, isn't he?

To ladies that can please enlighten your fellow sisters here.
Who knows whose family you'll be saving from divorce. Keep it coming....

We are married,she aren't a generator neither is she a contract wife/marriage,why should I be giving her pocket money,when we are suppose to give her pocket money...

Food stuffs money is different,school fees...and other home expenses..

Why should I give her. Pocket money,is she a kid,to buy what,chocolate or ice-cream or biscuit..

I don't understand,when will be understand that marriage is a joint venture with no profits involve

kevinberry:
We are married,she aren't a generator neither is she a contract wife/marriage,why should I be giving her pocket money,when we are suppose to give her pocket money...

Food stuffs money is different,school fees...and other home expenses..

Why should I give her. Pocket money,is she a kid,to buy what,chocolate or ice-cream or biscuit..

I don't understand,when will be understand that marriage is a joint venture with no profits involve

Please this is for married people.

Fxwarrior:
Please this is for married people.

I know,I gave my advice as a married man

Fxwarrior:
To our Nairaland ladies especially married ones can you manage #5000 as upkeep money for the week.
Let's be realistic. Some men are paid #20 000 as monthly salary. If he doles out #5 000 per week he's a loving husband, isn't he?

To ladies that can please enlighten your fellow sisters here.
Who knows whose family you'll be saving from divorce. Keep it coming....

YES it can be managed very well, you cut your cloth according to the material you got. if she know the situation of things and how mucb you earn,she will understnd and spend wisely. things will definately change and 5k will increase as your monthly pay increases. All the best.

I don't believe this . You are a married man and you typed this . So, bcox u ar married, no pocket money 4 ur wife Won't she wear change her wears or make her hair or buy personal things?. MR, your wife deserves personal pocket money in fact everyday ni self.

kevinberry:
We are married,she aren't a generator neither is she a contract wife/marriage,why should I be giving her pocket money,when we are suppose to give her pocket money...

Food stuffs money is different,school fees...and other home expenses..

Why should I give her. Pocket money,is she a kid,to buy what,chocolate or ice-cream or biscuit..

I don't understand,when will be understand that marriage is a joint venture with no profits involve

No, I cannot manage it if kids are involved .I can reserve balance if there are no kids,just buy a bottle of red oil and a paint bucket of rice. By the time whoever gave such upkeep eats oily rice for a week, he certainly will improve.


Besides which upkeep are you talking about? I assumed house upkeep, chop money matter.

HateU2:
I don't believe this . You are a married man and you typed this . So, bcox u ar married, no pocket money 4 ur wife Won't she wear change her wears or make her hair or buy personal things?. MR, your wife deserves personal pocket money in fact everyday ni self.

I no support pocket money at all o, she be my staff?.

I believe in giving her wen she asks also with gifts nd suprises here nd there. Bt compulsory stipend? Mbanu

KingRex1:
I no support pocket money at all o, she be my staff?.

I believe in giving her wen she asks also with gifts nd suprises here nd there. Bt compulsory stipend? Mbanu

Really?

So, u can't give it to her unless she's asks for it? That's bad dude.

HateU2:

Really?

So, u can't give it to her unless she's asks for it? That's bad dude.

I'm not insensitive so there shld be lotsa surprises, bt i'm also nt her employer to give salary.

Monthly allowance... How does that sound sef

KingRex1:
I'm not insensitive so there shld be lotsa surprises, bt i'm also nt her employer to give salary.

Monthly allowance... How does that sound sef

*sighs*
Just looking at you right now like

She deserves it cox we ladies's wants/needs are too many. It's gonna get high when a lady is married self.

HateU2:
*sighs*
Just looking at you right now like

She deserves it cox we ladies's wants/needs are too many. It's gonna get high when a lady is married self.

Married women dont work?

HateU2:
*sighs*
Just looking at you right now like

She deserves it cox we ladies's wants/needs are too many. It's gonna get high when a lady is married self.

You see the person u dey crush with. I pity 4 u. By the time him finish with u na tapioca and palm kernel u go use do breakfast and dinner.

KingRex1:
Married women dont work?

Even if she earns more than you, she's your responsibility now. Ur job is to take care of her and HER.


You are from which state

Firstlieutenant:


You see the person u dey crush with. I pity 4 u. By the time him finish with u na tapioca and palm kernel u go use do breakfast and dinner.

HateU2:
Even if she earns more than you, she's your responsibility now. Ur job is to take care of her and HER.


You are from which state

Responsibility, money, upkeep, care, love no be issue.
Just that 'monthly allowance' be my issue cos i may even give more than a regular monthly allowance.

We're a team, my money is even hers (no too look that one).

All im sayin is that my wife shld pass that allowance thing. She aint my staff

I'm from Anambra

Firstlieutenant:


You see the person u dey crush with. I pity 4 u. By the time him finish with u na tapioca and palm kernel u go use do breakfast and dinner.

She'll be a queen nd get any she wants for brkfast nd dinner.. Garrit?

KingRex1:
Responsibility, money, upkeep, care, love no be issue.
Just that 'monthly allowance' be my issue cos i may even give more than a regular monthly allowance.

We're a team, my money is even hers (no too look that one).

All im sayin is that my wife shld pass that allowance thing. She aint my staff

I'm from Anambra

It's your opinion thou, you are entitled to it.


I see

HateU2:
It's your opinion thou, you are entitled to it.


I see

U seem lyk an ogun state babe

KingRex1:
U seem lyk an ogun state babe

Nope, i'm not 4rm ogun state

HateU2:
Nope, i'm not 4rm ogun state

Its oyo then

KingRex1:
Its oyo then

nope. Keep guessing

HateU2:
nope. Keep guessing

You want make i dey sing state nd capita for you.

Ok whisper it

KingRex1:
You want make i dey sing state nd capita for you.

Ok whisper it

Just two more nd I will tell u

HateU2:
I don't believe this . You are a married man and you typed this . So, bcox u ar married, no pocket money 4 ur wife Won't she change her wears or make her hair or buy personal things?. MR, your wife deserves personal pocket money in fact everyday ni self.

HateU2:
*sighs*
Just looking at you right now like

She deserves it cox we ladies's wants/needs are too many. It's gonna get high when a lady is married self.

HateU2:
Even if she earns more than you, she's your responsibility now. Ur job is to take care of her and HER.


You are from which state

[size=24pt]But you no dey shame for yourself at all? [/size]

crackhaus:




[size=24pt]But you no dey shame for yourself at all? [/size]

dis u type smtin bro

HateU2:
Just two more nd I will tell u

ah omo sunshine. Ondo

kevinberry:

I know,I gave my advice as a married man

Marry again please.

KingRex1:
I no support pocket money at all o, she be my staff?.

I believe in giving her wen she asks also with gifts nd suprises here nd there. Bt compulsory stipend? Mbanu

Fair enough!

byvan03:
No, I cannot manage it if kids are involved .I can reserve balance if there are no kids,just buy a bottle of red oil and a paint bucket of rice. By the time whoever gave such upkeep eats oily rice for a week, he certainly will improve.


Besides which upkeep are you talking about? I assumed house upkeep, chop money matter.

Better still, you can also get a source of livelihood, and supplement what he brings home.