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Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by kolajamesjnr(m): 5:05pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
marshalcarter: Which of d god are u blabbing about sev 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by aIrbenIc(m): 5:13pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
onetrack: Woah! Coincidentally I used the same analogy for her. It's not possible to believe that, one can only pretend to. Thanks. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by trapQ: 5:35pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
love is enough. if it isn't enough, its not love chocolateme: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by wordcat(m): 6:06pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
marshalcarter: Lol. This guy no well I swear! |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by wordcat(m): 6:16pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
aIrbenIc: Pretend?? Except u are not planning to marry the girl then pretense may be the solution 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by chocolateme(f): 6:18pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
trapQ:OK no wahala though I am still wondering why people divorce on daily basis due to lack of handling family issues exception of unfaithfulness matter. Thought love is enough to tolerate a dirty unkept wife who can't cook food or take care of her family. Wonder why putting up with a career wife can lead to separation when love should be there to cover it all. Well for me, I maintain that love is not enough to marry your partner. That moment when your wife files for divorce in court due to maltreatments being meted out on her and her children by her drunken husband, too numerous to mention. I think understanding, patience, tolerance and even endurance are ingredients that comes before love follows. That's why people can easily fall in love with the physical beauty but not the dispositions.(character) |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by trapQ: 6:31pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
when I mean love, I mean true love. but then If love isn't true it isn't love. men who beat or mistreat their wives don't love their wives. their are different levels of attraction. you could like someone, be attracted to someone or have a crush on someone. it doesn't necessarily mean its love. that's why you see that some women leaves their sick or broke husbands. it is because there was no love in the first place. they only loved the money or physical appearance of the person. also, just because people are together doesn't mean they love each other. real love is always the same and never changes. but unfortunately in this day and time, love is rarer than diamonds. chocolateme: 1 Like |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by bytemeister(m): 6:34pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
bro we in d same boat...ma gal wnt leave me be too.... dunno if it's by force to go into sumtn I got no bliv |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by bytemeister(m): 6:34pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
bro we in d same boat...ma gal wnt leave me be too.... dunno if it's by force to go into sumtn I got no bliv in 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by chocolateme(f): 6:39pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
trapQ:you WIN. tk |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 6:45pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
aIrbenIc: First , I don't believe in romantic love, or lets say I have different views about the romantic love. Let her understand that you are not a religious person, and it might be because of her fears that you might make your atheism public to everyone and how everyone would look down at her as a wife of an atheist, that could be the reason why she wants you to join a religion, or you can join Rastafarian religion that doesn't really demand anything from you, tell her you plan on joining Rastafarians if she persist. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by trapQ: 6:46pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
all I do is win, win , win. hehehehehe chocolateme: |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by aIrbenIc(m): 6:49pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Dapo777: LOL! Thanks.. Noted. |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
aIrbenIc If I were you, I would have dumped her since, because I hate blackmail. I don't see why she can't just accept me for who I am and her clause in our relationship shows that she doesn't really care for me. And I know she would repeat the act again, if she is not checkmated now. Or if I truly can't do without her (which is irrational, because no one is indispensable), I could just lie to her about getting a deity to worship and when am done getting what I want from her, I would show her my true colour. The danger in this approach is that one of us or both could really get hurt. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 10:15pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
I always tell friends, play along and get what you want. follow her to church if need be, make her your wife first, then make her come back to her senses. the priest that wedded me is still my friend till date. think as as you like but behave normal with others. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by hahn(m): 10:24pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
MrPresident: Law of power. Same thing over here 1 Like |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 6:28am On Aug 24, 2015 |
hahn: yes bro, just like during election campaign, buhari can even go to church, pray with them and give donations, just to win their votes. OP should be smart, play along and get what he wants. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 6:57am On Aug 24, 2015 |
It is a plus sign for you to know a smart lady...As a matter of fact,I know a family in the process of breaking this morning because the hubby refused going to church yesterday,they have a kid(boy) and the wife is threatening to leave this morning. My parents are up on my neck for me to convert back to christianity but I'm proud atheist and can never go back,Death is the maximum. My advice to you is be conservative and don't get so outspoken because its upset them and make them look stupid for doing religion and as for your girl,let her go,if she truly loves you she would come back to love you for who you are and not what you are or believe in and if she don't then in the long run,she prolly might regret leaving you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 8:28am On Aug 24, 2015 |
wordcat: |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 8:30am On Aug 24, 2015 |
kolajamesjnr: Brah M blabbin of the GOD who created you in his own image |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by johnydon22(m): 8:43am On Aug 24, 2015 |
marshalcarter:Yeah he was created by a powerful God, actually their were two powerful Gods anyway.. A man and a woman, a wonderful phenomenon and through it a beautiful child was created by real Gods who actually did it and don't just claim it 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 8:53am On Aug 24, 2015 |
johnydon22: Feel lyk floggin you |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 8:55am On Aug 24, 2015 |
marshalcarter: according to king james' story book 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by wordcat(m): 8:55am On Aug 24, 2015 |
chocolateme: Your initial post still stand. In marriage, love comes after understanding and tolerance. And I don't believe that there is such thing as real love,"love is love" it's either u love something or u don't love it. |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by johnydon22(m): 8:57am On Aug 24, 2015 |
marshalcarter:It wouldn't still change the fact that he was created by two Gods.. a man and a woman... very powerful Gods and they are very real... 1 Like |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 9:12am On Aug 24, 2015 |
marshalcarter: you should flog your sunday-school teacher either, for teaching you that human being was made with soil 2 Likes |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 9:23am On Aug 24, 2015 |
johnydon22: Who created those 2 gods u're talkin abt |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 9:25am On Aug 24, 2015 |
MrPresident:Who made soil |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 9:26am On Aug 24, 2015 |
MrPresident:Which king james |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 24, 2015 |
marshalcarter: You wanna deny it's not a story book? . They had so many versions tho 1 Like |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by johnydon22(m): 9:45am On Aug 24, 2015 |
marshalcarter:Simple... Another man and woman!!! 4 Likes |
Re: She Mandates Me To Leave Atheism by marshalcarter: 9:46am On Aug 24, 2015 |
ifeness: ppl dey lie sha |
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