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What Is Your Definite Major Purpose In Life? - Personal Development by bare1(m): 3:14pm On Aug 28, 2015
Quite often, a lot of people find themselves with issues defining their definite life purpose. They lack self-fulfillment and know they aren't accomplishing much and also know they ought to be doing more with their lives but just seem lost and confused as to what it is. Usually this leads them to working jobs they don't desire and just have to do to make ends meet, ending up unhappy, stressed and angry. This results in them transferring their aggression to coworkers, friends, family and people they come across daily at some point.

I can relate with that because it is an experience I have felt and really did not like. It gets worse because we spend so much time at the workplace and being often exposed to such environment means that we would just get that feeling over and over again, making it a part of us and depriving us of so much pleasant things like love, happiness, friendship and the feeling of fulfillment.

Honestly we do not have to go through it, and only do so because we unconsciously choose to. We do not need to work jobs we do not find pleasant and satisfactory. As a matter of fact, we can do the things we desire and pursue our dream careers only if we decide that we want to do so. And when we are doing the things we are passionate about, we stand a better chance of success and this eventually leads to more efficiency at the workplace, healthier relationships and marriages and a happier life.

The only way to achieve this is to first discover your definite major purpose which is the driving force to lead to success and then seek and accomplish goals in that respect. When you realise the power you possess to create the life you desire, then you can strive to do just that. And this is one of the many needs for self-development.

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Re: What Is Your Definite Major Purpose In Life? - Personal Development by 400billionman: 3:47pm On Aug 28, 2015
bare1:
Quite often, a lot of people find themselves with issues defining their definite life purpose. They lack self-fulfillment and know they aren't accomplishing much and also know they ought to be doing more with their lives but just seem lost and confused as to what it is. Usually this leads them to working jobs they don't desire and just have to do to make ends meet, ending up unhappy, stressed and angry. This results in them transferring their aggression to coworkers, friends, family and people they come across daily at some point.

Thank you for penning this down. I felt this as an employee for years and felt it as a businessman when business profits went low. It's so confusing a state to be in. Its called unfulfillment. This does not necessarily mean absence of money. You might have the money but do not know what to invest into.

Now I found the magic.
Re: What Is Your Definite Major Purpose In Life? - Personal Development by bare1(m): 4:14pm On Aug 28, 2015
400billionman:


Thank you for penning this down. I felt this as an employee for years and felt it as a businessman when business profits went low. It's so confusing a state to be in. Its called unfulfillment. This does not necessarily mean absence of money. You might have the money but do not know what to invest into.

Now I found the magic.


Absolutely. You might have money and still find yourself in such state. Glad you found a solution. Please do well to help others through it as well. Thank you.

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Re: What Is Your Definite Major Purpose In Life? - Personal Development by DMLords: 4:32pm On Aug 28, 2015
This is the type of topicsthat should be making front page

Mods please we are tired of all the divorce stories we are hearing on here

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Re: What Is Your Definite Major Purpose In Life? - Personal Development by bare1(m): 4:46pm On Aug 28, 2015
DMLords:
This is the type of topicsthat should be making front page

Mods please we are tired of all the divorce stories we are hearing on here


Subjects like this hardly catch the public's fancy. Only the few who realise they need to make changes in their life actually go the length to find how they can. The majority who feel secure in their comfort zones just keep scrolling. Unfortunately they pay the price everyday but never realise.
Re: What Is Your Definite Major Purpose In Life? - Personal Development by Acme77: 8:19am On Aug 29, 2015
well done

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