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We Are WIERD... by leXHansplaCE(m): 12:25pm On Sep 04, 2015
The society wants us to conform to certain values, norms and traditions and this has limited us.

We do things while looking over our shoulder. We're afraid to snap in irritation because the world thinks it's rude.

The result? We torture ourselves mentally when we do that.

We are too scared to tell a friend the truth because they might feel hurt.

For people who have impulsive tendencies, it is even more difficult. Their kind are strange and weird. They are not permitted to walk out of a gathering when they no longer feel comfortable there.

They easily get bored of things, yet subject themselves to enduring it because our society wants them to stay.

They would be seen as weird if they give some random persons a hug just because they feel an inexplicable affection for the person and nothing else.

They are not allowed to have some time alone.

They are not allowed to break communication from friends without announcement because the society think it's rude.

The world wants explanations and they are too weak to do that.

They don't even remember the origin of the whole issue in the first place.

They don't need to nod heads to show attentiveness.
Silence works best for them.

They prefer to listen to your tale without making any gesture.

Trust me, it's when they are quiet that they are most attentive.

They are processing your story as you speak. When you cry on their shoulders, they do not need to say "sorry", and it doesn't mean they do not feel your pain.

They do. They even wish your problem was theirs.

Truth is they won't explain why they break communication with friends because no one would understand. Yes, No one would. They may claim they would understand just because everyone loves a story.

They want to know what's going on in your head. They nod their heads in understanding but your story is out to the public and you're labelled "insane". This limitations of the society on their behaviour has made them unreal and disabled them from performing to their full potentials.

They are sorry but henceforth, they are taking the path of truth and realness.

If this article touched you in a way or the other..

Place a comment in the comment section as am sure this is going on day in day out in the society we live in..

http://www.lexhansplace.com/2015/09/we-are-wierd.html

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