There is this guy i ve been going out with but he just got a job
and not yet settled but intends doing the introduction and we ve
been dating for long about two years now and we love each other
Recently, there is this guy already made man ,his working and his a
'big guy' in nigerian context. He is asking me out and i know his ready
marriage. My mum says the second guy seems good just because his ready
and tells me that the first guy wont take some time to settle
But i believe that you never can tell what will happen he may make it in
time.
What do u advise do i wait or still cut the relationship
*Am not desperate to marry abut ve reached the marriageable age.

My sis, I would advise that you go for the one that truly loves and respect you as a woman (though some of you do not deserve one inch of respect!) Money or not, if you are not respected in your husband's house then you are nothing more than a SLAVE. Your mum has lived her own life, let her guide you objectively and stop thinking about what she would gain. Once again, your mum is a woman and 99% of women think alike. It's only their style that differs. The other guy is rich today, what if he goes bankrupt tomorrow would you still stay with him. By then he would have used you to produce children and you would be as unwanted as any old woman out there.

Hello,what matter most is to have a good matrimonia home and rest of mind,i will therefore advice you to go for love and not for money because money can without happines i meaning lessgood luck

blive me girl u do not want to go 4 d rich guy cos if u marry him u may turn to a piece of furniture but if u go 4 d oda guy stil tryin to make it en u suffer wit him he will 4ever luv u en afta all u luv him so dont question ur luv 4 him.

Follow your heart dont let your mummy mislead you to what you'll regret for life because 1minute enjoyment can course everlasting sorrow, pls follow your heart.

Follow your heart dont let your mummy mislead you to what you'll regret for life because 1minute enjoyment can course everlasting sorrow, pls follow your heart.

Gurl! everyone here has said all that needs to be said, all I just want to add is that, money isn't all.

Thanks you guys for the response
i pray i make a good choice
Nairalanders you people are the bomb