Na wa, 13 yrs is like forever.how does he survive?

since when are u married?

@mamajd.alles klar?wo in deutshland wohnen sie?bin jetzt in deutshland ,ich mach urlaub.

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chaircover:

I am really sorry to hear this as it must be really frustrating for both of you. Do you mind if I ask you a few questions

1. How have you been surviving for the past 13 years?
2. Do you work?
3. Is he actively looking for work or something to do to bring money home?
4. Why are you frustrated & the marriage not giving you happiness now?
5. How are you helping your husband?
6. Where are you based? Nigeria?
7. Do you love your husband

All this question 4 one person.na w.a.e.c.step by step na.

all you need to do is have faith and always pray

13 years that is a very long time but Gods time is the best

kick his ass out off the house. No work for 13 years

Love him or not, he is not worth it, any real man will provide for his family

Send me a picture of yourself, if you are cute and attractive maybe I will give you a go

13 yrs? Lord have mercy

I hope she meant 13 months. I read so many posts here that make me question if they are true or not. I mean, look at this one, what has she been looking at for the past 13 years. It just makes no sense!

Poster please come back and answer chaircover's question. That will shed some more light into ur situation and you can get some advice.

Seems to me the only chartered accountant is you, 13 years!

U do realise if this is as straightforward as ur making it, then he isn't going to get a job, he has been too comfy, but am hoping it's 13months and not years, because, damn!!

Marriage is for life O,

He hasn't been working for 13 years?

Seriously, what is going on with ppl nowadays?

One is marrying a "ugly" fiance, another one got HIV from a cheating husband. . . .now your own.

Oga o.

*Toyinrayo:

He hasn't been working for 13 years?

Seriously, what is going on with ppl nowadays?

One is marrying a "ugly" fiance, another one got HIV from a cheating husband. . . .now your own.

Oga o.

Abi o,

@brutal, bin im süden und du?

@Akusimple/poster where are you o

MamaJD:

@brutal, bin im süden und du?

  central(HESSEN)40km.von frankfurt am main.

alles klar, hast du yahoo msn?

ja, aber email. du hast es schön gesehen.

@Poster,
13 years of suffering is like eternity, how have you been coping?
It will do you good if you can open up and shed more light on the whole issue,maybe useful tips could come in afterwards

@ poster,

pls answer the questions asked to enable one help you else we might just accept the post to be a lie

if he hasnt been working for 13 years and yet dont wanna find a job in any field to take care of his family, he must be a lazy dude.

akusimple:

Actually am the one that posted this topic, i need to shed the weight off me. I tnk all those that showed their sympathy,God will never allow you go through what am experiencing.When we got married we never planned it this way.I love my husband and we are good christians.But sometimes it is not easy not to think about the situation.am a career woman civil servant,stays in abuja.

You still haven't told us anything about your husband's profession and how he hended up being unemployed for 13 years?

speechless! take heart!

Cant your husband 'charter one wheel barrow' and push and practice his accountancy? He must be lazy to sit on his fanny for 13 months.

Treetop20:

if you tolerated it for 13 years dear
another 40 will not kill you

LMAO

@Poster
Is your husband a disable?

invisible!:

Cant your husband 'charter one wheel barrow' and push and practice his accountancy? He must be lazy to sit on his fanny for 13 months.

rofl

Those of you that are making big mouth here, y not thank God for the oppurtunity He has given you and pray for this family rather than make useless comment here.

There are people with all the "paalis" out there without job. it's not becos they're lazy and handicaped but just because fate has not smiled on them. Notwithstanding, 13 yrs of joblessness is not the end of the world. It doesn't take God a day to change a person's fortune.

@poster,

Please don't leave your husband as a result of this. God has created you purposely to help him through this trying times. All you need to do is pray for him with all your heart and with love and sincerity and God will surely speak to your situations. I assure you that in no time, you'll come here to testify. You'll soon shed tears of joy.

13 years appears to be pretty long.

Few questions

- Any particular reason why this has taken so long
- Is it by choice or circumstance?
- Which everway if accountancy is not the forward, maybe he should change jobs and ask God for directions.

Sorry about your predicament though,