An older guy(maybe 10-18yrs age gap) you love so much and used to with a bad past and not so much going in his present like you know, being a medical doctor or so or a guy who doesn't have that much age gap, aspiring to be a top medical doctor, got so much going for him and all, like everything seems so right but no much love maybe on the friendship level compared to the first? You as the girl got so much going too so not lacking anything.

Girls which would you choose or which will be right? Guys you are also welcome.

This shouldn't be about age. . . it is about who has more potential and less bagage.

@Sisi Jinx

I know it's not about age @ all, I gave further details, which between the two with the little you've read, ?

i will go wit the young hot med chap. . . we grow old together

Ditto Hauwa.

_{Thought my answer was obvious with the More potential and less bagage}

easy, go for d richest of d lot n forget about love. yeah, i know, bad advice. boohoo

a guy who doesn't have that much age gap, aspiring to be a top medical doctor, got so much going for him and all,

what about guy with same age gap, but no love, but very ambitious and younger guy with less ambition but with love and friendship?

older guy( 10-18 yrs gap), ambitious, no love for now, stable MD VS younger guy (2-4 yr gap) , less ambitious, love and frienship, just starting his career?

You already know the one you like but you want to make sure you're making the right decisions. No matter how much you type about both of them, even if you upload pictures of them, no one will ever make this choice for you.


Don't overthink the issue, just go with your mind.