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If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by tonychristopher: 8:56am On Oct 08, 2015
If you’re still poor at 35, you deserve it!


Jack Ma:

Before I founded Alibaba, I invited 24 friends to my house to discuss the business opportunity. After discussing for a full two hours, they were still confused — I have to say that I may not have put myself across in a clear manner manner then. The verdict: 23 out of the 24 people in the room told me to drop the idea, for a multitude of reasons, such as: ‘you do not know anything about the internet, and more prominently, you do not have the start-up capital for this’ etc etc.

There was only one friend (who was working in a bank then) who told me, “If you want to do it, just try it. If things don’t work out the way you expected it to, you can always revert back to what you were doing before.” I pondered upon this for one night, and by the next morning, I decided I would do it anyway, even if all of the 24 people opposed the idea.

When I first started Alibaba, I was immediately met with strong opposition from family and friends. Looking back, I realised that the biggest driving force for me then was not my confidence in the Internet and the potential it held, but more of this: “No matter what one does, regardless of failure or success, the experience is a form of success in itself.” You have got to keep trying, and if it doesn’t work, you always can revert back to what you were doing before.

As with this quote by T.E. Lawrence – “All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream in the dark recesses of the night awake in the day to find all was vanity. But the dreamers of day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, and make it possible.”

Jack Ma: People lose out in life because of these 4 reasons:

Being myopic to opportunity
Looking down on opportunities
Lacking understanding
Failing to act quickly enough
You are poor, because you have no ambition.

Ambition is living a life of great ideals; a magnificent goal in life that must be realized.

In this world, there are things that are deemed unfathomable, but there is nothing in this world that cannot be done. The depth of one’s ambition determines the potential of one’ future.

The Story of Juliet Wu Shihong – one of China’s first-generation professional managers, who gained success by working her way up the ranks from a cleaner, a nurse, a marketing executive, through self-education and learning on the job.

Juliet Wu Shihong

She had been the general manager for the world’s most famous multinational IT groups’ Chinese branches (Microsoft 1985-1998; IBM 1998-1999). She is also China’s first successful international corporate executive to join the executive team of a domestic private firm. Wu was seen as a symbol of the new generation of business executives that China has produced in its economic reform and opening-up.

When Wu started off in a big company working from the lowest ranks, her daily job was to pour tea and sweep floors. Once, because she forgot her staff pass, the company’s guard stopped her at the door and denied her entry. She explained to the guard that she was indeed one of the company’s employees, and that she had merely left the building for a short while to purchase office supplies.

Despite her pleas, the guard still did not allow to enter. As she stood at the gate, she watched as those of similar age to her, but smartly dressed in business attire walking through without having to show their passes.

She asked the guard, “Why are these people allowed through without producing a pass?” The guard dismissed her coldly nonetheless.

That was the turning point for Wu – she felt great shame, her self-esteem trampled on.

She looked at herself, dressed in shabby clothes and pushing a dirty push cart. Looking back at those dressed in smart attire, her heart felt a deep ache from the sudden realization of the sorrow and grief from being discriminated. From that moment, she vowed never to allow herself to be shamed like this again, and to become world-famous.

Since then, she used every opportunity to enrich herself. Every day, she was the first to arrive at work, and the last one to leave. She made every second count, spending her time learning the ropes. Her efforts soon paid off; she was made a sales representative, and quickly progressed to being the regional general manager of this multinational company in China. Wu did not possess strong academic qualifications, and was revered as the ‘Queen of Part-timers’. Subsequently, she assumed the position of GM of IBM China. This is the Wu Shihong, the heroine in China’s business circle.


If not for the incident, Wu Shihong would not have had the ambition to become rich, and her life would have taken a very different path then.

You are poor because you do not have the desire to become successful.
You are poor because you lack foresight.
You are poor because you cannot overcome your cowardice.
You are poor because you lack the courage and determination.
With ambition you can overcome all inferiority and maximise your potential!
With ambition you can persevere, continuously learn new things and strive for perfection.
With ambition you can defy all odds, and create miracles when others daren’t.
No matter how poor your family is, do not doubt your own abilities and lose sight of your ambition.

When your family deems you worthless, no one will pity you.
When your parents do not have money to pay the medical bills, no one will pity you.
When you are beaten by your competitors, no one will pity you.
When your loved ones abandon you, no one will pity you.
When you have not accomplished anything by the time you are 35, no one will pity you.
Go big, or go home. Otherwise, you’re wasting your youth.

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Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by absoluteSuccess: 9:27am On Oct 08, 2015
This is absolutely powerful. Albeit, no time frame to hitting it big I think. Some folks are early risers and some late bloomers.

One should have learn alot before coming to success, lest at one stroke of ill tides, all the wealth disappear. One thing it is to succeed, another is to succeed being a true success.
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by amii131(f): 9:39am On Oct 08, 2015
True talk
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by Nobody: 9:44am On Oct 08, 2015
...This is the best part of my ordeal that is still in writing...it. Is my song- vision/passion for smthn.

If you for a milisecond doubt or rationalise any of d facts stated above, you are foundamentally unfortunate and gloriously cursed...

Like rihanna said, the people that have eyes are mostly blind.
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by theDEVILisHERE: 10:01am On Oct 08, 2015
Being poor, rich or otherwise results from a combination of certain factors and situations
These factors and situations are not usually the same for every person
It is very ignnorant and wrong for anybody (rich, poor or otherwise) to make statements about situations they do not fully understand
As the saying goes "he who wears the shoes know's where it pinches"
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by absoluteSuccess: 10:03am On Oct 08, 2015
olatemitayo:
...This is the best part of my ordeal that is still in writing...it. Is my song- vision/passion for smthn.

[b] If you for a milisecond doubt or rationalise any of d facts stated above, you are foundamentally unfortunate and gloriously cursed...[b]

Like rihanna said, the people that have eyes are mostly blind.

Thats not true, what calls for this fanatical sensationalism?
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by absoluteSuccess: 10:09am On Oct 08, 2015
theDEVILisHERE:
Being poor, rich or otherwise results from a combination of certain factors and situations
These factors and situations are not usually the same for every person
It is very ignnorant and wrong for anybody (rich, poor or otherwise) to make statements about situations they do not fully understand
As the saying goes "he who wears the shoes know's where it pinches"
In other words, no perfect universal experience anywhere to deliver equally perfect social experience to everyone.
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by theDEVILisHERE: 10:23am On Oct 08, 2015
absoluteSuccess:
In other words, no perfect universal experience anywhere to deliver equally perfect social experience to everyone.

Long and short of the story is
Do not put everyone in the same box when you do not FULLY understand what everyones INDIVIDUAL situation is all about

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Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by absoluteSuccess: 11:22am On Oct 08, 2015
theDEVILisHERE:


Long and short of the story is
Do not put everyone in the same box when you do not FULLY understand what everyones INDIVIDUAL situation is all about

2 MILLION LIKES,

It reminds me of a lady that always disdain old people hawking pass her store. she will say 'thats their lot, as they had squandered their youthful years on worthless things'. And I would asked her 'do you know their story?'

it is unhealthy to have prejudice on people for what we have that they lack. Since we can't help being proud or help them to be our equals, we must not be resentful or the success will fail.
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by theDEVILisHERE: 11:53am On Oct 08, 2015
absoluteSuccess:


2 MILLION LIKES,

It reminds me of a lady that always disdain old people hawking pass her store. she will say 'thats their lot, as they had squandered their youthful years on worthless things'. And I would asked her 'do you know their story?'

it is unhealthy to have prejudice on people for what we have that they lack. Since we can't help being proud or help them to be our equals, we must not be resentful or the success will fail.

True that
Successfull people should not be making ignorant statements based on their own myopic world view of things due to their naivety or plain stupidity
Re: If You’re Still Poor At 35, You Deserve It! by Funjosh(m): 5:16pm On Oct 08, 2015
Hmmm

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