gudd morning...I watched a t.v program dis morning ..a debate...on whether indecent dressing is a reason/cause 2 rape ....so wat do u tink? does indecent dressing cause rape?....ow do u even define indecent dressing?....... I biliv ds topic should b made public considering quantum leap in rape cases in recent times....
cc:lalasticlala,ishilove

Maybe

Yh.. its one of d causes of rape.

No cos in recent times children are the victims of rape cases, can a 4 years old dress indecent ?

Is this even a question?

Rukkydelta:
No cos in recent times children are the victims of rape cases, can a 4 years old dress indecent ?

well after reading a thread here on nl "sexualization of children" and going by some comments ftom some sick fks, some say young children too can get raped because the bum shorts is "provocative" hence making their body to be misbehaving

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SAMBARRY:
well after reading a thread here on nl "sexualization of children" and going by some comments ftom some sick fks, some say young children too can get raped because the bum shorts is "provocative" hence making their body to be misbehaving

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Hmmm.... this is a online forum and the way people speaks describes their kind of personality most times, I saw those sorts of comment on that particular thread and i'm sure those posters are either accomplice of predators or predators themselves

Indecent dressing is not the cause of rape. But I will advocate people dress decently.

Rukkydelta:

Hmmm.... this is a online forum and the way people speaks describes their kind of personality most times, I saw those sorts of comment on that particular thread and i'm sure those posters are either accomplice of predators or predators themselves

no need to be sugar coating words with grammar. They're obviously unrepentant PEDOPHILES

Yes...especially indecent dressing by those 3-month old babies.

Next!!!

Gaborone:
Yes..especially indecent dressing by those 3-month old babies.

Next!!!

Our grand mothers dressed baring their breas.ts/cleavages/abdomen et al in the 19th and early 20th century yet rrapes weren't recorded as high as we have these days.

Truth is, some Men have lost morals but don't want to take responsibility for their action.

Gaborone:
Yes...especially indecent dressing by those 3-month old babies.

Next!!!

Exactly! Some 3mths old babies be looking too sexy mttchew

No, INDECENT MIND is the cause of rape.
One could look at an unclad person for a full day and not be moved...

TooNoisy:
Indecent dressing is not the cause of rape. But I will advocate people dress decently.

it's very difficult for the sexually-violent men to differentiate between a first class pröstitute and an indecently dressed woman. when they see a woman indecently exposing herself, they mistake her for a whorë and the rest is history.......

Nope, rapists can rape those that wear 'mary amaka' too.

What is seductive about a 2 year old girl? Kids are victim too.

Rapists rape because they are fools, stupid, evil etc.

its a major reason why women are raped nowadays.... But decent and responsible men flee from the temptation to rape....

Why is it called "indecent dressing"?

5minsmadness:
Why is it called "indecent dressing"?

Good question!

indecent
ɪnˈdiːs(ə)nt/Submit
adjective
1.
not conforming with generally accepted standards of behaviour, especially in relation to sexual matters.
"indecent acts"
synonyms: obscene, dirty, filthy, rude, coarse, vulgar, gross, crude, bawdy, lewd, racy, risqué, salacious, wicked, improper, indelicate, unseemly, impure, smutty, spicy, raw, off colour, ribald, Rabelaisian, lascivious, licentious; More
2.
not appropriate or fitting.

No it is not and can never be.
Let's do a front page survey alone and how many raped people there were raped because they didn't wear Mary Amaka.

You know what? Scratch that.

It's the cause of rape.
Let's blame the wrong things and leave the real issue.

Ladies dress well o. That's your protection against rape.

The cause to rape is unbridled natural lusting instincts in humans.

Indecent dressing is a catalyst to rape. Not a cause to rape.

Nairaland stop changing "rape" to "molest" for me.

dulux07:
Yh.. its one of d causes of rape.

You for go pool side start to rape all the girls in bikini and bathing suits.

It could be, but there is a demonic tendency to rap.e, a spell, curse, bewitchment before somebody can r.ape. It is more than indecent dressing.

Is driving high-end car the cause of car theft

This is a silly question. It's like asking if unlocked doors is the cause of robbery. Anybody with a brain should be able to answer that intelligibly.

SAMBARRY:
well after reading a thread here on nl "sexualization of children" and going by some comments ftom some sick fks, some say young children too can get raped because the bum shorts is "provocative" hence making their body to be misbehaving

next

I want to have this conversation with you and please be very honest here.It is going to be long....
Is indecent dressing the cause of rape?NO and YES.
No because a sick mind,a rapist irrespective of your dress mode will still rape.

Yes:

Imagine dressing like this in a supermarket and a registered rapist who has just been released from jail happen to visit the store that day to buy milk.What do you think will likely happened to you?

***sorry for the inappropriate images***





Why do Americans despite the high rate of crime especially the recent gun shootings in schools and churches,still give license to individuals to own guns? Because the same gun protect them and also kill them.

Wearing a child a bum-short is not dangerous but in the evil world we live,it is.
Leaving a child with a neighbour or family member is not dangerous,but today it is.read mail below:

As a little girl,my mum would always drop me with her elder sister who has kids,grown up kids ..(my cousins).she comes back to her town to pick me up from her sisters place every Friday after work.

I was made to do all the hard work and even serve the ones that are of same age with me..that wasn't even a problem to me cos I was trained a hard worker..I was around 6/7 years old and I remember everything like it's yesterday...

My older cousin (girl)who was about 20 years then will wake me ‎up every God given night and ask me to lick her pussy..i still remember her telling me to swallow everything...in the dark there,i will spit it all out and if am caught I get a hard knock on my head...I still feel the pain of it like it is happening now!!


We continued like that till my mum got a place in her place of work..i couldn't tell my mum all this cos I was always left in the care of this my cousin who made it a duty to remind me what will happen to me if anyone gets to hear about it ‎..today I feel like my life is not going the way I want it!! I didn't turn out a lesbian but I've tried touching girls but it's not my thing!!

My cousin is now married with 3 daughters and one part of me want to do same thing to one of her daughter still hate her a lot..i am doing well now and whenever she asks for assistance I just give her excuse even if I don't have anything to do with money...

How do I get this off my chest??will I feel better if I do same to her daughter??I can't even do it to her daughter cause they love me so much as their Aunty.. ..typing this alone hurts me so much....

Do you think this girl will one day hand her daughter to her sister or a family member for keep so that she can go and make ends meet?Why?

Even Jesus was tempted by the devil and he had to rebuke satan not because he couldn't deal with him but he knew putting himself in that situation could be dangerous.Why do married woman/man avoid close friendship with the opposite sex?Why does the bible commend us to flee from temptation?In South Africa,in Bloemfontein you can't walk freely with your phone in your hands without someone taking it away from you,and if you resist you will get killed.killed. Isn't it your right to hold the phone you bought with your hard earn money?

Despite the security many politicians have,some of them still kidnap or assassinated,why do the rest not give up on the security?either you have them or not,you will still in danger but still it makes you feel safer having them.

How will we know if our naked great-grand mothers were raped because there were no record as of present.At the age of 11 most of them were getting married,why?as soon as you develop breast and some female features,you are ripe for marriage.Why isn't it the case today?isn't it child marriage and rape? and please how many of you were present to actually give the fact that they were none?you hear more about rape because you have the means to do so via social media and i tell you rape has always been there only that we get to read more of it.
And why will they be raped because being naked was actually their way of life? is being naked on the street today normal to you?So you will actually see a young lady on the street without bra and you will simply pass?

Will you leave your doors open just because it is criminal to steal and when you get caught you go to jail?If so why do you lock your gate?Why do we put an alarm system in the house,cars.Why cctv in a secure place like the white house,like your own home.

Why do you think we always advice people who masturbate or addictive to porn to stay away from porn?likewise smokers and alcoholic to stay away from people who smoke cigarettes and drink?So why give a rapist the opportunity to unleash his devils on you when you dress provocatively?

People wearing marie amaka(whatever) get raped because they just unfortunately happened to be around a rapist,sadist....did it help them?no but does it mean that i should not at least try to protect myself by dressing decently,just maybe I can be spared?

I remember a thread we had asking the females if they will be comfortable having a male teacher in nursery.Almost all the family section women said no,why is that?what was the reason?I was one of them too.My reason were that it a bit dangerous for a male stranger changing my 3 years old diaper and many gave the same reason.

Sambarry,will you allow a male neighbour give wura a bath?and why please?

We can condemn,curse,abuse rapists but the truth is they are around us,among us and will always be despite the protests and jail.The best way to feel safe is to protect ourselves.

And before i forget,can someone here post their debit card details?we all know that it is a crime to steal,so don't worry and while you are at it don't forget to post your home address because it will be selfish to whomever that will have your card details not to at least show appreciations by sending you flowers or a letter of acknowledgement.

No. It causes indecent thoughts which can lead to rape

Yeah, it's one of the causes. ..
Indecent dressing, Porn, indecent words/books, Nairaland sexuality section ... etc....

They give rise to indecent thoughts which could lead to rape... But the problem is that most times innocent ones are the victims. . Ie Mrs A dresses indecently, Mr A sees her and starts nurturing some dirty thoughts, then Mrs B passes by and Mr A bounces on her.. while Mrs A goes Scot-free...
Same way Mr A watches porn, reads sexuality books or has some dirty chats then goes home to abuse his children who are vulnerable. ..
Rapists choose their victims wisely, they choose those they can easily overpower, entice with money or threaten to keep shut!!
The perpetrators of indecency hardly fall victims, innocent people do and that's the problem. ...

However, rape to a large extent is all about personal values because some men can see naked women but won't be moved instead they become irritated.. it's a thing of the mind...

edwife:


I want to have this conversation with you and please be very honest here.It is going to be long....
Is indecent dressing the cause of rape?NO and YES.
No because a sick mind,a rapist irrespective of your dress mode will still rape.

Yes:

Imagine dressing like this in a supermarket and a registered rapist who has just been released from jail happen to visit the store that day to buy milk.What do you think will likely happened to you?

***sorry for the inappropriate images***





Why do Americans despite the high rate of crime especially the recent gun shootings in schools and churches,still give license to individuals to own guns? Because the same gun protect them and also kill them.

Wearing a child a bum-short is not dangerous but in the evil world we live,it is.
Leaving a child with a neighbour or family member is not dangerous,but today it is.read mail below:



Do you think this girl will one day hand her daughter to her sister or a family member for keep so that she can go and make ends meet?Why?

Even Jesus was tempted by the devil and he had to rebuke satan not because he couldn't deal with him but he knew putting himself in that situation could be dangerous.Why do married woman/man avoid close friendship with the opposite sex?Why does the bible commend us to flee from temptation?In South Africa,in Bloemfontein you can't walk freely with your phone in your hands without someone taking it away from you,and if you resist you will get killed.killed. Isn't it your right to hold the phone you bought with your hard earn money?

Despite the security many politicians have,some of them still kidnap or assassinated,why do the rest not give up on the security?either you have them or not,you will still in danger but still it makes you feel safer having them.

How will we know if our naked great-grand mothers were raped because there were no record as of present.At the age of 11 most of them were getting married,why?as soon as you develop breast and some female features,you are ripe for marriage.Why isn't it the case today?isn't it child marriage and rape? and please how many of you were present to actually give the fact that they were none?you hear more about rape because you have the means to do so via social media and i tell you rape has always been there only that we get to read more of it.
And why will they be raped because being naked was actually their way of life? is being naked on the street today normal to you?So you will actually see a young lady on the street without bra and you will simply pass?

Will you leave your doors open just because it is criminal to steal and when you get caught you go to jail?If so why do you lock your gate?Why do we put an alarm system in the house,cars.Why cctv in a secure place like the white house,like your own home.

Why do you think we always advice people who masturbate or addictive to porn to stay away from porn?likewise smokers and alcoholic to stay away from people who smoke cigarettes and drink?So why give a rapist the opportunity to unleash his devils on you when you dress provocatively?

People wearing marie amaka(whatever) get raped because they just unfortunately happened to be around a rapist,sadist....did it help them?no but does it mean that i should not at least try to protect myself by dressing decently,just maybe I can be spared?

I remember a thread we had asking the females if they will be comfortable having a male teacher in nursery.Almost all the family section women said no,why is that?what was the reason?I was one of them too.My reason were that it a bit dangerous for a male stranger changing my 3 years old diaper and many gave the same reason.

Sambarry,will you allow a male neighbour give wura a bath?and why please?

We can condemn,curse,abuse rapists but the truth is they are around us,among us and will always be despite the protests and jail.The best way to feel safe is to protect ourselves.

And before i forget,can someone here post their debit card details?we all know that it is a crime to steal,so don't worry and while you are at it don't forget to post your home address because it will be selfish to whomever that will have your card details not to at least show appreciations by sending you flowers or a letter of acknowledgement.

Madam, I think you have summarized it, nothing to add. I have a right to hold $1 million in my hand and walk the streets of Oshodi in Lagos at night. But if I get robed, I am sure people may blame me too.

But I will add that robbery just like rape can never be justified, but we all know there are robbers and rapists out there! May God protect us all.

MarvellousGod:
Yeah, it's one of the causes. ..
Indecent dressing, Porn, indecent words/books, Nairaland sexuality section ... etc....

They give rise to indecent thoughts which could lead to rape... But the problem is that most times innocent ones are the victims. . Ie Mrs A dresses indecently, Mr A sees her and starts nurturing some dirty thoughts, then Mrs B passes by and Mr A bounces on her.. while Mrs A goes Scot-free...
Same way Mr A watches porn, reads sexuality books or has some dirty chats then goes home to abuse his children who are vulnerable. ..
Rapists choose their victims wisely, they choose those they can easily overpower, entice with money or threaten to keep shut!!
The perpetrators of indecency hardly fall victims, innocent people do and that's the problem. ...

However, rape to a large extent is all about personal values because some men can see naked women but won't be moved instead they become irritated.. it's a thing of the mind...

True!
They say some men are sexually-violent.
When a TRULY sexually-violent man sees a semi dressed woman in a public place, why not jump on her and devour instantly for us to believe he's surely sexually-violent?.
Why start monitering her and keep waiting for the day he will lure or catch her to/in a close place?

Armed robbers and rap1sts are in a league of their own.
When you flaunt your wealth, armed robbers either rob you instantly in an open place or track you to your house.
Rapists don't rape instantly and when they track their victims to house to rape her, it has passed indecent dressing.
It's funny how people think only flaunted cleavag.es, breas.ts, nippl.es, laps can arouse rapists.
What 'bout women with sexy lips and beautiful face? They should cover it also?

By the way, Going by the definition of INDECENT DRESSING according to dictionary which seems to mean dirty, obscene, crude et al, isn't that synonymous to a haggard mad woman(?) and why should a SANE man sleep with a mad woman?.
Anyone that does so, deserves to be kept in an assylum.
Check many rape cases, SLUTS that dress indecently don't get raped but ones who are moderate in their dress sense.
Most of our celebrities have been robbed but how many of our female celebrities that flaunt their body have screamed they were raped?.
OUR GRANDMOTHERS DRESSED WORSE THAN 21ST CENTURY WOMEN - SOME MEN BECAME WORSE.

Edi edi.edi baby

nawaya o.why will you deliberately be dangling bananas in front of a monkey. Anyway I jump am pass.i refuse to fall into such temptation

ok so to the question "will I allow a male to baff wura"?


you already know the answer na

no no, never and neverest.it is not possible. Being that as it may based on the examples you gave, it's safe for us to say that it is God that protects kids from hawks and yeah I saw valid points in your example

as for that yeye yash that one is displaying for the general public, that one is a story for another day

edwife:


I want to have this conversation with you and please be very honest here.It is going to be long....
Is indecent dressing the cause of rape?NO and YES.
No because a sick mind,a rapist irrespective of your dress mode will still rape.

Yes:

Imagine dressing like this in a supermarket and a registered rapist who has just been released from jail happen to visit the store that day to buy milk.What do you think will likely happened to you?

***sorry for the inappropriate images***





Why do Americans despite the high rate of crime especially the recent gun shootings in schools and churches,still give license to individuals to own guns? Because the same gun protect them and also kill them.

Wearing a child a bum-short is not dangerous but in the evil world we live,it is.
Leaving a child with a neighbour or family member is not dangerous,but today it is.read mail below:



Do you think this girl will one day hand her daughter to her sister or a family member for keep so that she can go and make ends meet?Why?

Even Jesus was tempted by the devil and he had to rebuke satan not because he couldn't deal with him but he knew putting himself in that situation could be dangerous.Why do married woman/man avoid close friendship with the opposite sex?Why does the bible commend us to flee from temptation?In South Africa,in Bloemfontein you can't walk freely with your phone in your hands without someone taking it away from you,and if you resist you will get killed.killed. Isn't it your right to hold the phone you bought with your hard earn money?

Despite the security many politicians have,some of them still kidnap or assassinated,why do the rest not give up on the security?either you have them or not,you will still in danger but still it makes you feel safer having them.

How will we know if our naked great-grand mothers were raped because there were no record as of present.At the age of 11 most of them were getting married,why?as soon as you develop breast and some female features,you are ripe for marriage.Why isn't it the case today?isn't it child marriage and rape? and please how many of you were present to actually give the fact that they were none?you hear more about rape because you have the means to do so via social media and i tell you rape has always been there only that we get to read more of it.
And why will they be raped because being naked was actually their way of life? is being naked on the street today normal to you?So you will actually see a young lady on the street without bra and you will simply pass?

Will you leave your doors open just because it is criminal to steal and when you get caught you go to jail?If so why do you lock your gate?Why do we put an alarm system in the house,cars.Why cctv in a secure place like the white house,like your own home.

Why do you think we always advice people who masturbate or addictive to porn to stay away from porn?likewise smokers and alcoholic to stay away from people who smoke cigarettes and drink?So why give a rapist the opportunity to unleash his devils on you when you dress provocatively?

People wearing marie amaka(whatever) get raped because they just unfortunately happened to be around a rapist,sadist....did it help them?no but does it mean that i should not at least try to protect myself by dressing decently,just maybe I can be spared?

I remember a thread we had asking the females if they will be comfortable having a male teacher in nursery.Almost all the family section women said no,why is that?what was the reason?I was one of them too.My reason were that it a bit dangerous for a male stranger changing my 3 years old diaper and many gave the same reason.

Sambarry,will you allow a male neighbour give wura a bath?and why please?

We can condemn,curse,abuse rapists but the truth is they are around us,among us and will always be despite the protests and jail.The best way to feel safe is to protect ourselves.

And before i forget,can someone here post their debit card details?we all know that it is a crime to steal,so don't worry and while you are at it don't forget to post your home address because it will be selfish to whomever that will have your card details not to at least show appreciations by sending you flowers or a letter of acknowledgement.

Madam coco what of those pudah women that wear overall black curtains from head to toe. How come their outfits hasn't protected them from rape. I mean the ones that cover their nose and mouth, wear black socks and black gloves. The only thing outside is their eyes. How come those ones too aren't exempted.


You people should say the truth and let the devil be ashamed

cococandy:
No it is not and can never be.
Let's do a front page survey alone and how many raped people there were raped because they didn't wear Mary Amaka.

You know what? Scratch that.

It's the cause of rape.
Let's blame the wrong things and leave the real issue.

Ladies dress well o. That's your protection against rape.

Gbam. Take 5 jare

FrancisTony:

True!
They say some men are sexually-violent.
When a TRULY sexually-violent man sees a semi dressed woman in a public place, why not jump on her and devour instantly for us to believe he's surely sexually-violent?.
Why start monitering her and keep waiting for the day he will lure or catch her to/in a close place?

Armed robbers and rap1sts are in a league of their own.
When you flaunt your wealth, armed robbers either rob you instantly in an open place or track you to your house.
Rapists don't rape instantly and when they track their victims to house to rape her, it has passed indecent dressing.
It's funny how people think only flaunted cleavag.es, breas.ts, nippl.es, laps can arouse rapists.
What 'bout women with sexy lips and beautiful face? They should cover it also?

By the way, Going by the definition of INDECENT DRESSING according to dictionary which seems to mean dirty, obscene, crude et al, isn't that synonymous to a haggard mad woman(?) and why should a SANE man sleep with a mad woman?.
Anyone that does so, deserves to be kept in an assylum.
Check many rape cases, SLUTS that dress indecently don't get raped but ones who are moderate in their dress sense.
Most of our celebrities have been robbed but how many of our female celebrities that flaunt their body have screamed they were raped?.
OUR GRANDMOTHERS DRESSED WORSE THAN 21ST CENTURY WOMEN - SOME MEN BECAME WORSE.