THAT FUTURE WIFE (GIFT FROM AR - RAHMAN)
I was raised to understand that a woman married to a man, needs not to work.... this is how I wish to live with my wife after Nikkah should Allah permit me insha Allah.
If she's a niqab sister then I have to struggle hard to get a self contain apartment to assist and maintain her deen cause am gonna benefit it more in the future... because kids are to be born by her...
I don't wish for my wife to work but if she insist of working then she has to work under my establishment, (after Nikkah, she becomes my responsibility)
I have a plan but Islam says she has right to decide, so the choice is hers.
Ill Appreciate if she wake me up for tahajjud and I'll always keep some tangible items to pay for her effort.
if she wakes me for tahajjud, I'll offer her.
If I wake her and she wakes and offers tahajjud, I'll offer her.
if not by my choice atleast by hers for me to walk with her out on weekends and have this sense of feelings of love towards her for the sake of Allah......
And if I die before her, then she prays for me and seek for Allah's mercy on me.
And if she dies before me, it'll become a duty upon me to keep praying for her till when Allah takes away my life.....
And the children could have learnt a lot from this wife of mine. because I followed the rule of Islam, by offering her rights and wait to see the miracle of offering a wife a right, and she had the choices and then poured out a training which I have no ability of, to kids who bear my name...
I'll ask her to promise to take me with her to jannah should Allah grant her.
And she'll ask me to promise her same!
Then we both will strive continuously.....
And Allah is the All knowing!
So brother/sister how do u plan or wish for urs. If u don't have any, then plan from now for things we take for granted is what causes the serious havoc in the world... But if u have a plan then please, comment, maybe I can as well learn from urs.....
I CAN'T WAIT FOR THAT FUTURE WOMAN, SHE WORTHS THE WAIT! SHE WORTHS MY SWEAT!
If ure married please, honor that woman she's a complex creature, so tender! Hmmmmmmm!
What do you plan for ur wife
And how do u plan to care of a husbands home, let's educate each other..... YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE COULD BE SEEING THIS..

@ op, I admire your respect for women in general and your would be wife in particular.

I take it that she will be your only wife, no need having more than one wife. Am I reading your mind?

MASHA ALLAH OP