It is not right for a lady to retain her father's name (even as middle name) after getting married. She should take the new name from her man --- except theres a very logical reason for keeping the name.

its very wrong for ladies to keep their surname after marriage, because all kinds of jobless people like      will start putting mouth in other people's business as if its their own.

so to avoid this kind of pokenoser inserting his/her long nose where it doesnt belong, women should always endeavor to take on their husband's name after marriage.

Because people like        are very worried about this kind of thing! Its not good for our culture and leads to lack of respect for the god given headship of the naija men.

Ladies should avoid upsetting  in this manner because we dont want our cultural values to be lost forever and we dont want to be disrespecting  's naija brothers since it upsets them him so much.

Do not let westernization turn your head!!! Our female ancestors always took on their husband's surnames- why rock the boat now?


And why making  get his knickers in a twist?

Errrrrrrrr. . . . . .i dont think so, altho i might keep it if my husband's surname sounds ugly

i wouldnt because i dont like my surname, but i dont see anything wrong with it. . . as long as your husbands name is included aswell ofcourse.

well i dont think so

but i dont find anything wrong with it either

@tope5000
who fear nor catch wey ban you or nah anoda tope be this

y me:

well i dont think so

but i dont find anything wrong with it either

@tope5000
who fear nor catch wey ban you or nah anoda tope be this

lol

tope wat are u trying to achieve

chinesedoll:

tope wat are u trying to achieve

_{i was banned na}
stay on the topic sexyhotmom

tope5000:

_{i was banned na}
stay on the topic sexyhotmom

why were u banned?
i know say u no dey find trouble

chinesedoll:


why were u banned?
i know say u no dey find trouble

because of excatly dis . . . . . .oya stay on topic

it depends,
i might i might not

that said its up to the lady

Men with this kind of reasoning should better fly back to the century they were vomitted from.

NL
insult don start now now

@ stillwater

Lol. Vomitted from u know! I love dat!

hahahahahaha
SECONDED

I love hubbys surname & couldn't wait to change it

i think i need to clarify something here
a lady retaining her maiden name doesnt mean she cant incorporate the hubby's name
its called compound names fellas

lola thompson weds tony animashaun
after marriage lola becomes
lola thompson-animashaun
get with it!

Whoever came up with this system of filing women away under their husbands' names?

The decision on what name to answer is a very personal one between the couple. Some ladies already are established professionally when they get married and may not always be able to brandish the wedding certificate to explain the discrepancies, others just like it that way. So if they and their husbands don't mind I don't see what other peoples business is in the matter. We all Knew that Benazier Bhutto and Indira Ghandi of Blessed memory were married women even though they answered their maiden names.

no!!

Whats wrong with keeping a name that you have used all your life.

romeo:

no!!

Why? Thought it was like that in Spain. They don't even use compound names. They marry and their names stay the same.