dazzle101:



Busybody pls why are you trying so hard to convince this guy otherwise? The handwriting is clear on the wall! I have been following ur pet talk to him about not disobeying God and to make sure this lady is from God but how can God saddle us with someone who'd leave us little rest of mind..

A lot of the brethren that spoke before on this issue are now quiet cos it feels their advise isn't holding water and to think you have created that seed of doubt in Danki's mind.

@Danki if you're indecisive and still on the fence about this then you need to take time out and pray for discernment and clarity on these dreams and the messages inherent. As goodmuyis rightly said 'if it is good and godly then it's from God'

It is out of utter concern n love of God that everyone has given their opinion in fact if not for the way busybody keeps tryna convince you and the seemingly effect it's having on you I was just silently reading till it was really laid upon my heart to write..

Remember everyone cannot agree just for the sake of it... please seek the face of God on this and remember not all dreams are from God plus you had a strong connection to this lady for sometime and its only logical you keep having series of dreams about her that could still be manipulated to confuse n deceive you...

Please save yourself of this threshold and move on, there is no saying if really this woman was destined for you as you strongly believed!

Cc: bro Charles, oyeludef, goodmuyis, nnamdiosu, vooks, analice, great0, superior1 please don't be silent on this, I'm not happy seeing danki's mind is being wavered!!!

oyeludef:

God bless you sis. I chose to b quiet cos it seems danki isn't actually seeking counsel but a pe things from his perspective and advice him to follow his heart but I'll just as a point of duty give one last advice.
@danki, I may sound a bit harsh, but like i said earlier, u av to b sure of ur relationship with Jesus Christ. Secondly, except you av been baptized in the Holy Spirit and eventually got the gift of prophesy, u aren't a prophet (dats d new testament way). Dat. U made a vow to b celibate at some point doesn't mean anything. May I remind you that in heathen practice, several monks are celibate. Am not saying all dis to condemn you or take ur faith for granted but I just want you to b double sure of ur salvation. Dreams are d most basic way God speaks to mankind (whether born again or not) and its a good way but not really the best way cos it can b manipulated. I'll advice dat at this point where you seem confused, seek d baptism of the Holy Spirit for as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.
Concerning ur ex,. I want you to realize that God loves her more than you do but he commands us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, he said we should abstain from all appearance of evil, he said we should flee fornication etc. Do not endanger ur soul because of her. Tjere are countless other soul that can be won tru you. You just yield to the Holy Spirit and He will lead you to the bone of ur bone and flesh of ur flesh

Gboliwe:


Hurry up and get in touch biko. To be very honest, I don't know what this thread is about. Haven't even read any post I wasn't mentioned in. I just saw you and jumped in. Lol.

CharlyG1:
@dazzle101 & Busybody2..

Okay.. it's alright.

I'm sure Danki already knows what to do. He has already been given good advice here. So it's left for him to decide what he wants for himself

There is no need to argue over this. Let's just put him in prayers.
I love you guys. Be cool.

God bless you.

analice107:

No wonder you are prancing around trying to derail the thread. This is not just any thread. This is a congregation. So pls get serious and share something that will uplift someone or just read.

CharlyG1:
@dazzle101 & Busybody2..

Okay.. it's alright.

I'm sure Danki already knows what to do. He has already been given good advice here. So it's left for him to decide what he wants for himself

There is no need to argue over this. Let's just put him in prayers.
I love you guys. Be cool.

God bless you.

Busybody2:




My dear Gboliwe, please ignore the nasty *we-don't-want-you-here-welcome* from Dazzle101 above. You have not committed any crime by stating you just stumbled on this thread...so feel free to read through the thread in your own time and come and share as Vooks suggested. God bless you Sis.

Gboliwe:


You of all persons should be able to tell my story. I don't respond to attention seeking noisemakers. The other Arrow has been mentioning my name upandan since, begging to be noticed, dude has no idea my noticeboard is filled up. Let them continue chasing shadow and leave the substance they are here for. Mcheeeeew

Danki:
I've heard you all. Thanks a lot for the various advice.
But before I let this whole thing rest, I want to make myself clear once again.
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Im not in any way interested in saving anybody as I have myself to save till the end. But that would be disobedience to God if I don't preach or deliver messages when God asks me to. Ive done this for several people when I'm called to.
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What in all these I mentioned shows I'm still lusting after this girl? Why do some of us still feel I'm not saying the truth?
And what's the big deal if chooses to use me to save the girl? Does the helper have to be oyedepo?
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Constant dream of this girl crying out for me to help is the issue!
I may disobey God if I will have to be connected with the girl in any way.

Like somebody said, nobody has monopoly of God's mind here. Because I'm in this thread does not mean I must adhere to every instructions given by the top men here. And because I committed formication 2 years ago does not warrant anybody to think he/she is closer to Christ than I am.
Honestly, this attitude of holier than thou is very smelly.

Danki:
I do not still have feelings for this girl like you have for ladym.

Im not slumbering. Yes, I may not be well versed in the Bible but by the grace of God, I don't think if Jesus comes today I will be left out.

I do not wish to marry her again. Since oct last year.

I do not feel indebted or obligated to help her!

I hardly listen to pastors and prophets on crucial issues because to the best of my knowledge; my dreams are more accurate and straight to the point. So, no pastor is telling me to help her. The only pastor that said something near to that was when Iwas 8years old. He said iI should not allow my stubbornness, impatience and hard hard to make me loose a precious gift God has kept for me.

My fear is that I may disobey God given that I would not want to have anything to do with this girl in my life again. All these fear arises from where God is going with the dreams.

Last year, I had a message about an adulterous woman I've not talked to for 5 years. I was supposed to deliver the message before 31st DEC, but I didn't for the fear of confronting a supposedly righteous woman. Later, God somehow brought the younger brother to my house (he didn't know it was my house). On sighting me, he called the lady immediately and told her I was with him. I had no option than to deliver the message. However, it was kind of late. A lot of things had gone wrong from the first of January. I also paid heavily on my own part.

Let's allow it rest so we don't derail from the purpose of this thread.

Danki:


Not really sir. And that's the reason I'm here.

But if I should take a shot, I would say maybe the girl is beginning to pay attention to the words of God because I told her that even if we are meant to be together that I will never be yoked with an unbeliever again. I will also be attacked by the demons trying to ruin her.

Before I had the dream I narrated above, I had one I wouldn't want to disclose here for identity purposes. I knew that if that heppens, she will run to God like a mad dog. But I'm just so afraid of not accepting her back if its God's wish.

Tell me what you think about the dream.

oyeludef:
Where is Chelseafan99

Danki:


"You got carried away and forgot Someone who really needed help?"

Need i remind you that this is not your private thread and nobody forced you to contribute on any other issue aside from that of chelseafan.

What a perfect human being.

analice107:

My brother, everyone just got carried away and forgot someone who really needs help.
Even the thread he opened, he hasn't been responding to comments. I called the guy who dropped his number to find out if he and chelseafan has met, but he said no. If chelseafan follows that one, hmm. I tried to evangelize him on phone, but he told me out rightly that he didn't believe in God. Yet he is interested in helping someone with a spiritual problem. Lol.

dazzle101:
Good morning brethren,

I have an experience to share, there's a neighbour's son who started ill behaving of recent. Being very disobedient to his parents, quit his job just like that with the excuse he wanted to focus more on his masters degree programme, has no source of income and is mind restless, he seems so detached n behaves so absurdly, doesn't go to church anymore and is quick to over react to any form of authority. He was always restless, going from place to place. Leaves home, goes to play nairabet n draft and is just wasting away. Often times I keep wondering why the guy in question suddenly changed, he wasn't this way before but all over sudden this. His father decided to probe further and asked him why the sudden change and why he was acting out terribly and whether consciously or unconsciously but purely by an act of God he opened up that a girl he was seeing some weeks back had taken him to barbeach n had his head washed there n then in the water.

When I heard this I felt terribly sorry, this guy has been caged by marine powers. I sought to talk to him and looked for a good opportunity, by the time I asked him why he'd let someone do something like that to him he made to shut the door and only left after telling him he was under demonic oppression, suppression, attack and manipulation and he needs deliverance asap plus it wasn't a situation that couldn't be salvaged. From his facial outlook he seemed kinda remorseful but I didn't want to push it cos I needed this to sink his soul..

Brothers, sisters, what do u suggest and advise please... This guy really needs help oblivious to him but quite visible to others. your kind contribution would be duly welcome.

Shallom...

dazzle101:
Good morning brethren,

I have an experience to share, there's a neighbour's son who started ill behaving of recent. Being very disobedient to his parents, quit his job just like that with the excuse he wanted to focus more on his masters degree programme, has no source of income and is mind restless, he seems so detached n behaves so absurdly, doesn't go to church anymore and is quick to over react to any form of authority. He was always restless, going from place to place. Leaves home, goes to play nairabet n draft and is just wasting away. Often times I keep wondering why the guy in question suddenly changed, he wasn't this way before but all over sudden this. His father decided to probe further and asked him why the sudden change and why he was acting out terribly and whether consciously or unconsciously but purely by an act of God he opened up that a girl he was seeing some weeks back had taken him to barbeach n had his head washed there n then in the water.

When I heard this I felt terribly sorry, this guy has been caged by marine powers. I sought to talk to him and looked for a good opportunity, by the time I asked him why he'd let someone do something like that to him he made to shut the door and only left after telling him he was under demonic oppression, suppression, attack and manipulation and he needs deliverance asap plus it wasn't a situation that couldn't be salvaged. From his facial outlook he seemed kinda remorseful but I didn't want to push it cos I needed this to sink his soul..

Brothers, sisters, what do u suggest and advise please... This guy really needs help oblivious to him but quite visible to others. your kind contribution would be duly welcome.

Shallom...

in dis particular case, you need to be very careful so as not to b at wrong place at the wrong time (being dat you are a lady). In a situation like dis, dat guy needs constant prayerful visitation whereby he will be fed with the word of God and it could be a process. He has to come to the realization that he needs deliverance (otherwise no deliverance for him). He needs to break the covenant dat took place unknown to himd day his head was washed at barbeach and then he needs to b prayed for and to b prayerful himself.

dazzle101:
Good morning brethren,

I have an experience to share, there's a neighbour's son who started ill behaving of recent. Being very disobedient to his parents, quit his job just like that with the excuse he wanted to focus more on his masters degree programme, has no source of income and is mind restless, he seems so detached n behaves so absurdly, doesn't go to church anymore and is quick to over react to any form of authority. He was always restless, going from place to place. Leaves home, goes to play nairabet n draft and is just wasting away. Often times I keep wondering why the guy in question suddenly changed, he wasn't this way before but all over sudden this. His father decided to probe further and asked him why the sudden change and why he was acting out terribly and whether consciously or unconsciously but purely by an act of God he opened up that a girl he was seeing some weeks back had taken him to barbeach n had his head washed there n then in the water.

When I heard this I felt terribly sorry, this guy has been caged by marine powers. I sought to talk to him and looked for a good opportunity, by the time I asked him why he'd let someone do something like that to him he made to shut the door and only left after telling him he was under demonic oppression, suppression, attack and manipulation and he needs deliverance asap plus it wasn't a situation that couldn't be salvaged. From his facial outlook he seemed kinda remorseful but I didn't want to push it cos I needed this to sink his soul..

Brothers, sisters, what do u suggest and advise please... This guy really needs help oblivious to him but quite visible to others. your kind contribution would be duly welcome.

Shallom...

dazzle101:
Good morning brethren,

I have an experience to share, there's a neighbour's son who started ill behaving of recent. Being very disobedient to his parents, quit his job just like that with the excuse he wanted to focus more on his masters degree programme, has no source of income and is mind restless, he seems so detached n behaves so absurdly, doesn't go to church anymore and is quick to over react to any form of authority. He was always restless, going from place to place. Leaves home, goes to play nairabet n draft and is just wasting away. Often times I keep wondering why the guy in question suddenly changed, he wasn't this way before but all over sudden this. His father decided to probe further and asked him why the sudden change and why he was acting out terribly and whether consciously or unconsciously but purely by an act of God he opened up that a girl he was seeing some weeks back had taken him to barbeach n had his head washed there n then in the water.

When I heard this I felt terribly sorry, this guy has been caged by marine powers. I sought to talk to him and looked for a good opportunity, by the time I asked him why he'd let someone do something like that to him he made to shut the door and only left after telling him he was under demonic oppression, suppression, attack and manipulation and he needs deliverance asap plus it wasn't a situation that couldn't be salvaged. From his facial outlook he seemed kinda remorseful but I didn't want to push it cos I needed this to sink into his soul..

Brothers, sisters, what do u suggest and advise please... This guy really needs help oblivious to him but quite visible to others. your kind contribution would be duly welcome.

Shallom...

oyeludef:
in dis particular case, you need to be very careful so as not to b at wrong place at the wrong time (being dat you are a lady). In a situation like dis, dat guy needs constant prayerful visitation whereby he will be fed with the word of God and it could be a process. He has to come to the realization that he needs deliverance (otherwise no deliverance for him). He needs to break the covenant dat took place unknown to himd day his head was washed at barbeach and then
he needs to b prayed for and to b prayerful himself. in dis particular case, you need to be very careful so as not to b at wrong place at the wrong time (being dat you are a lady). In a situation like dis, dat guy needs constant prayerful visitation whereby he will be fed with the word of God and it could be a
process. He has to come to the realization that he needs deliverance (otherwise no deliverance for him). He needs to break the covenant dat took place unknown to him d day his head was washed at barbeach and then he needs to b prayed for and to b prayerful himself. Getting his deliverance is
easy but getting all he has lost back needs constants study of God's word and prayer on his part.
Just be careful and take a spiritual brother along with you wen you visit him cos we aren't ignorant of satans devices

superior1:


The answer is warfare, stand in gap and wage spiritual warfare on his behalf. I have seen this working quite well even when I do not have physical access to the person, it is more like praying for unsaved soul except in this case you would be targeting and breaking the forces of the marine particularly on his behalf. Most times, I start the prayer by saying loud..."I am standing in gap for Bro...soso, he is a brother or neighbor of mine etc and take authority over soso powers operating in his or her life etc. .." depending on how God leads you, you should also ask the Holy Spirit for help and pray in tongues for him,since many issues pertaining to his problems are not known to you but with the help of the Holy Spirit you can handle them in prayers with tongues.

Bless you sir, I totally agree with you. Warefare is indeed the answer just like you rightly put it. Hmmmm this is quite sad! People are manipulated andd don't even know it, we will do our best.

Thanks for the advice..

Years ago, I woke up feeling some burden in my spirit, I was asking the Holy Spirit what the problem was but none came to my mind except the urge to pray, I don't know what to pray about, so i started praying in tongues,the more I prayed, the more the burden and pressure on my spirit man until I was totally consumed in the passion and the heat of the prayer, I was pleading seriously for someone who is in great danger but I do not know who the person was, I lost consciousness of time for awhile until I had a release in my spirit, I praised and thanked God and then went about my day.

A day or so later, I traveled home to visit my Mum, unknown to me she has been seriously sick to the point of death and I wasn't told so as not to be distracted from my studies. She told me, while lying on the sick bed;close to death, she saw some beings (demons) carrying her to a coffin which was by the bedside in the room and just when they were going to drop her inside the coffin,an Angel descended and asked them to return her, she started getting better after the incident and when I asked her the day and tine she saw this...your guess maybe good enough, it was the exact time I was praying out of burden in my room.

The Holy Spirit also watchout for the wellbeing of our love ones, those whose problem affects us directly and indirectly. God maybe putting this bro issue onto your heart so as to stand for him, do remember to share the Word with him and be careful doing all these.

Addition
I just read Bro. Oyeledef's post and although I also mentioned it (we both seems to be concerned with your safety)......for opposite sex, I intercede for them most times and leave it at that, satan is quite deceptive and many good Sisters and Brothers has fallen into trap of trying to help an unsaved opposite sex....better be safe than sorry, it is easy for ones testimony to get destroyed faster than to have one and while one is trying to help some people from the hands of demons, they are only paying attention because they have some other motives...I am sure you get the message...wisdom is profitable ooo

superior1:


The answer is warfare, stand in gap and wage spiritual warfare on his behalf. I have seen this working quite well even when I do not have physical access to the person, it is more like praying for unsaved soul except in this case you would be targeting and breaking the forces of the marine particularly on his behalf. Most times, I start the prayer by saying loud..."I am standing in gap for Bro...soso, he is a brother or neighbor of mine etc and take authority over soso powers operating in his or her life etc. .." depending on how God leads you, you should also ask the Holy Spirit for help and pray in tongues for him,since many issues pertaining to his problems are not known to you but with the help of the Holy Spirit you can handle them in prayers with tongues.

Bless you sir, I totally agree with you. Warefare is indeed the answer just like you rightly put it. Hmmmm this is quite sad! People are manipulated andd don't even know it, we will do our best.

Thanks for the advice..

Years ago, I woke up feeling some burden in my spirit, I was asking the Holy Spirit what the problem was but none came to my mind except the urge to pray, I don't know what to pray about, so i started praying in tongues,the more I prayed, the more the burden and pressure on my spirit man until I was totally consumed in the passion and the heat of the prayer, I was pleading seriously for someone who is in great danger but I do not know who the person was, I lost consciousness of time for awhile until I had a release in my spirit, I praised and thanked God and then went about my day.

A day or so later, I traveled home to visit my Mum, unknown to me she has been seriously sick to the point of death and I wasn't told so as not to be distracted from my studies. She told me, while lying on the sick bed;close to death, she saw some beings (demons) carrying her to a coffin which was by the bedside in the room and just when they were going to drop her inside the coffin,an Angel descended and asked them to return her, she started getting better after the incident and when I asked her the day and tine she saw this...your guess maybe good enough, it was the exact time I was praying out of burden in my room.

The Holy Spirit also watchout for the wellbeing of our love ones, those whose problem affects us directly and indirectly. God maybe putting this bro issue onto your heart so as to stand for him, do remember to share the Word with him and be careful doing all these.

Addition
I just read Bro. Oyeledef's post and although I also mentioned it (we both seems to be concerned with your safety)......for opposite sex, I intercede for them most times and leave it at that, satan is quite deceptive and many good Sisters and Brothers has fallen into trap of trying to help an unsaved opposite sex....better be safe than sorry, it is easy for ones testimony to get destroyed faster than to have one and while one is trying to help some people from the hands of demons, they are only paying attention because they have some other motives...I am sure you get the message...wisdom is profitable ooo