Please help! This is from a lady friend married for 10 yrs with 3 kids .

What do you do if your husband’s younger brother insults and beat you up in your own house at the slightest thing?
At first he started with abuses and later progresses to punches.
The most annoying thing is that the husband who is supposed to support the wife is so scared of the brother he only begs you in the room and tells you to keep mute about the whole issue.
The mother in law apologizes on the boy’s behalf but the boy himself is not sober and there is every tendency it is going to happen again.
Big question! How do you get this person out of your house?

Well,it cannot happen to me because my brothers & sisters know my stuff.They know that i don't take any issue that concerns my wife lightly.

Why did u allow your MIL and BIL to live with u?
Send him away. . . . .Next time u might not be alive to tell the story.

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Big question! How do you get this person out of your house?

Is it not obvious?hes a threat to your life.Let ur hubby ask him gently to leave cos hes a threat to your life,If he refuses use force. . . .Police ,whatever.
Ur hubby can get him an alternative accomdation though  Its ur matrimonial home for Gods sake not some refugee camp for some retard.

Thanks all !

What does the wife do since the hubby is not being a man . He does not have the liver the send the boy packing and they say you can't arrest in -laws in ONDO.

The hubby is so tied to his brothers aprons.

Then she endures the beatings or leaves with her children to her fathers house.

Closing my eyes for a moment to imagine my husband's younger brother laying a finger on me. nah! can't even fathom it.

I can show your husband where he can buy a spine though.

spoilt:

Closing my eyes for a moment to imagine my husband's younger brother laying a finger on me. nah! can't even fathom it.

I can show your husband where he can buy a spine though.

She should get thugs to beat up that goat and also to beat the shit out of her husband. I know that I would probably kill that boy. I wonder if he is mentally ill though because why would the husband be scared of him? Bottom line even if there is mental illness he should not be in the house but in an insane asylum.

What an insult. I try not to be an advocate of violence, but tell your friend to send the boy packing.

Ndipe:

What an insult. I try not to be an advocate of violence, but tell your friend to send the boy packing.

Please don't make me laugh here. You are telling her to send the boy packing. Which mouth will she use to say it. The one that he will slap. The woman cannot do anything because her husband is a sissy. She has to give him a taste of his medicine. That is the language he will understand. You cannot treat wild animals the way you treat humans. This one is a wild animal.

For real ? What is her husband doing? I dont know but there may be more to this.