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| 10 Reasons Cheating Will Save Your Relationship by ElrayKhalifah(m): 10:13am On Nov 14, 2015 |
[b]Is it ever OK to cheat and, indeed, is it even advisable to do so? Read on and decide for yourself. 10. You’ll Benefit From An Ego Boost One of the most common reasons for cheat*ng is simply ‘because you can’. To view absolutely everybody who cheats as being mor*lly bankrupt $ex fiends is an immature and limited way of seeing the world. Many people who cheat on their partners don’t plan to do so – they simply take advantage of an opportunity in a moment of weakness. a$$uming that their partner never finds out and they can live with the guilt, what is the benefit of a one-night stand? An instant benefit from a one-nighter is the incredible ego boost that it provides. The joy of knowing that a complete stranger or your close friend finds you $exually attractive can boost your self-esteem to the point that you become a more confident, productive person in other key aspects of your life. Your performance at work may improve as you view yourself in a better light, you’re more relaxed and happy around your friends – and you become a more attentive and loving partner. While extended affairs have a tendency to be viewed as a greater betrayal, the ego boost provided by one-off instances of cheat*ng can sometimes be so effective that the first relationship receives a boost, too. The happier a person is in their own skin, the better they tend to treat and relate to those closest to them in turn. 9. cheat*ng Can Lead To You Becoming A Better Lover Unless a couple go out of their way to try out new things in bed, a long-term relationship can suffer through the $ex life becoming stale and predictable, boring even. There are, of course many useful $ex guides and tip sheets plastered all over the internet and magazine columns, but many people chose to learn new tricks outside of the marital bed. $ex, like most other things, improves with the more practice and experience you have. Although tenderness and intimacy are often the key factors to the most satisfying $exual experiences, new techniques, positions and experiments always add spice. When one partner in a relationship is more libidinous than the other, it can be tempting to explore new experiences by cheat*ng. While $ex isn’t the be-all-and-end-all of a successful relationship, it does form an important part of life for most couples. In the confines of, say an open-relationship, it could be argued that polygamy can improve the $ex life of a couple and therefore the relationship itself. 8. Infidelity Can Add Fizz To A Flat Relationship Unless you’re supernaturally lucky, marriage and long-term relationships are hard work. It’s naive to think that love alone is enough to keep a relationship successful and healthy – what can seem safe and loving one moment can quickly grow to be boring and suffocating with indecent speed. That said, is infidelity really the way forward? Many commentators and experts seem to believe so. Couples with one partner who has lost their $ex drive have spoken of feeling a new freedom when the other has $ex outside of the partnership. On other occasions, people have rediscovered their lust for their partner after being turned on by the notion that somebody else finds their partner attractive. Even when the affair remains an open secret, what started out as an illicit secret has proven to be the savior of many relationships. . You Can Satisfy $exual And Emotional Needs Not all people who cheat cover their $exual adventures with layers of subterfuge and deception; open relationships are becoming more common, where one or both partners are free to pursue an active $ex life outside of the relationship. This is quite common where one partner has a low or no $ex drive but the other still has natural urges. The couple are open about the fact that one is having $ex outside of the marriage, but the other is often happy that their $exual needs are being fulfilled. The reason for cheat*ng is not always $exual, but can often be tied into the feelings of being desired and needing intimacy. In a marriage where the couple have common interests and little desire to part, but have long since lost the $exual spark, cheat*ng can be a way of ‘filling in the gaps’ that are present in their partnership. [/b] |
| Re: 10 Reasons Cheating Will Save Your Relationship by DeGhost: 12:34pm On Nov 14, 2015 |
Hmmmmm, it takes an open my to absorb this o! My mind is not that open  |
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