ikamefa:


prolly a  slackened 

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ikamefa:


prolly a slackened

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Ashana central!

MrCrackles:

Ashana central!

Rogo:

yes my big people, i mean the man 28 while woman 22, people are complaining that is too early for them to marry.

whatever advantage and disadvantage you think that can help intense of advice you can post

thanks

be right back in a moment

Phemour:

It mostly happen in North.

12years old get married, three weeks after marriage husband gets another again.

TeskyMan:

 

Success of any marriage depends on the SACRIFICE we can afford, not by SHOUTING IT every now and then BUT BY ACTING IN THE SACRIFICIAL LOVE, these are what to be expected:-

[b]Sacrifice is about forgetting about you.

Sacrifice is about closing the door on your ego.

Sacrifice is about swapping convenience for inconvenience for the sake of your relationship.

Sacrifice is about acknowledging the fact that your spouse’s happiness is primary and yours is secondary.

Sacrifice is about accepting a view you don’t necessarily agree with for the sake of peace in your home.

Sacrifice is realisation of the fact that disagreements will arise, but they do not need to escalate to quarrels.

Sacrifice for women, is the realisation that no matter how strong-willed you are, your husband is the head of the home and should be accorded that respect.

Sacrifice for men, is the realisation that head of the home is not synonymous with dictator.

Sacrifice for women, is the realisation that ALL men are born with egos and when you try to compete with a man’s ego, the marriage is the sufferer.

Sacrifice for men is the realisation that her being married to you is a choice she made and it’s your duty to make sure she does not ever regret making that choice.

Sacrifice for women is the realisation that you cannot understand a man’s ego because you were not created to understand it.

Sacrifice for men is the realisation that women were created to be loved, not understood.[/b]

The problem is that so many people spend so much time planning their wedding, but not their marriage. And if you think a talk about a subject like that may be awkward, then maybe the relationship is not as strong as you think or want to believe it is. If you had issues with certain things before the wedding, why do you think marriage will change it?, Humm, I have been wondering about this issue for quite some time now. 

WHY DO PEOPLE SPENDING MILLIONS TO ENGAGING PARTY PLANNER TO PLAN THEIR WEDDING CEREMONIES?, CAN'T THEY SPEND SO MUCH ALSO TO PLAN THEIR MARRIAGES


FOOD FOR THOUGHT, I know my N/L people go start to dey abuse me now, peace out!!!!

TeskyMan:

Whaooo!!!! What an interesting Topic. Everything in life has its advantage and disadvantage IMAO. I got married @ 28 and my wife 25. We have a handsome BOY now who clocks 2 in April 09. I can say it categorically that MARRIAGE has to do with a lot of MATURITY.MATURITY as it is does not have any relationship with age. Despite my age, i have grown up ones who look up to me for advice marriatally(am not being pround its just the grace of BABA GOD). I have been praying to God since i was in SS3 about getting married early. One thing i noticed is that MARRIAGE has to do with a lot of MATURITY in the part of the couple, there are challenges infact challenges that might want you to look back but once u can swallow your pride, i mean swallow your pride and u can SACRIFICE yourself for your partner, and PRAY together where u r a chriatian or a muslim('cos a family that PRAYS together PLAYS together) i tell you,the marriage willl excell but the problem is both the HUSBAND and the WIFE will always have an excuse to quit. 

Success of any marriage depends on the SACRIFICE we can afford, not by SHOUTING IT every now and then BUT BY ACTING IN THE SACRIFICIAL LOVE, these are what to be expected:-

[b]Sacrifice is about forgetting about you.

Sacrifice is about closing the door on your ego.

Sacrifice is about swapping convenience for inconvenience for the sake of your relationship.

Sacrifice is about acknowledging the fact that your spouse’s happiness is primary and yours is secondary.

Sacrifice is about accepting a view you don’t necessarily agree with for the sake of peace in your home.

Sacrifice is realisation of the fact that disagreements will arise, but they do not need to escalate to quarrels.

Sacrifice for women, is the realisation that no matter how strong-willed you are, your husband is the head of the home and should be accorded that respect.

Sacrifice for men, is the realisation that head of the home is not synonymous with dictator.

Sacrifice for women, is the realisation that ALL men are born with egos and when you try to compete with a man’s ego, the marriage is the sufferer.

Sacrifice for men is the realisation that her being married to you is a choice she made and it’s your duty to make sure she does not ever regret making that choice.

Sacrifice for women is the realisation that you cannot understand a man’s ego because you were not created to understand it.

Sacrifice for men is the realisation that women were created to be loved, not understood.[/b]

The problem is that so many people spend so much time planning their wedding, but not their marriage. And if you think a talk about a subject like that may be awkward, then maybe the relationship is not as strong as you think or want to believe it is. If you had issues with certain things before the wedding, why do you think marriage will change it?, Humm, I have been wondering about this issue for quite some time now. 

WHY DO PEOPLE SPENDING MILLIONS TO ENGAGING PARTY PLANNER TO PLAN THEIR WEDDING CEREMONIES?, CAN'T THEY SPEND SO MUCH ALSO TO PLAN THEIR MARRIAGES


FOOD FOR THOUGHT, I know my N/L people go start to dey abuse me now, peace out!!!!