Oyind17:
Joel still dey Nl?

Joel3:
how do you mean? and I don't remembered of knowing you? or maybe u change ID.

Oyind17:
yes I changed my id , happy new year

KanwuliaJara:
You OP should get married ESPECIALLY. . . . because of YOUR SAD REPUTATION as a FAILED playboy ON AND OFF NL!!!!

It becomes highly EMBARRASSING when you end up in the ER or MORTUARY, and you always have to skip the "next of kin" section AT YOUR BUHARI AGE.

You can live as companions without marriage, BUT YOU MUST HAVE A LIVING WILL AND TESTAMENT!!!
Who will handle your affairs when you STROKE OUT with NL WAHALA?

No one to smell your CORPSE if you DIE and ROT alone in your cockroach-infested mansion, FILLED WITH THE STENCH of old ashawo pants under your bed WITH NO ONE TO CLAIM YOOR CORPSE!!!!
Even BART SIMPSON get wife!
You wanno be live and die like Linda Ikeji?

KanwuliaJara:
You OP should get married ESPECIALLY. . . . because of YOUR SAD REPUTATION as a FAILED playboy ON AND OFF NL!!!!

It becomes highly EMBARRASSING when you end up in the ER or MORTUARY, and you always have to skip the "next of kin" section AT YOUR BUHARI AGE.

No one to smell your CORPSE if you DIE and ROT alone in your cockroach-infested mansion, FILLED WITH THE STENCH of old ashawo pants under your bed WITH NO ONE TO CLAIM YOOR CORPSE!!!!
Even BART SIMPSON get wife!
You wanno be live and die like Linda Ikeji?

SAMBARRY:
haba na.be nice

This is new year na .no rudeness please

KanwuliaJara:


Where is the rudeness?
I was only being ASSATIVE!

Seduce monkey? Tufiakwa!!!!
Abeg, my brezzes need breezes!!!!

tpiar:
Why why why are nlers always in other people's business instead of their own!

what concerns you if other people are getting married! Are you not able to marry?

Joel3:
it seems to me I have won. I WON, I WON, I WON.


HAHA I WON. FEEL SO GOOD.

SAMBARRY:
your post is very harsh and unkind

Especially the last paragraph

Lol @seducing monkeys

Joel3:

you are wrong what if one still choice to have a child, does it means one must signed the marriage registrar before having a child?

I have seen 60 years old getting married to his partner after they already lived together and have grown up kids

KanwuliaJara:


Please, what is your current status?
To start this kind of thread, you need to practice what you are PREACHING.
Don't give us examples of what others are doing.

I ask again? Na which one you get now?

KanwuliaJara:


That is your opinion.
Did the OP state that?

Joel3:
An open debate with fact and what's happening around in the society.

how about living together as boyfriend and girlfriend and then grow old and die? will a life not be completed or fulfilled? is it a must to tied the knot? you see when the registrar is been signed and the whole thing becomes legal biding in both religious or traditional acceptances of marriage in mate I think that is when a lot of things goes wrong.

don't give me the bullshiit that its for better for worst. many innocent victim are been blind folded into signing this shitt. and they will tell him or her to remain in it forever. I am an advocate for this shit to be destroyed. I know in 22nd century this thing called marriage institution will be destroyed

many single hide their true self and wait patiently for the scam called marriage to be signed first before true color is out. definitely not me except ofcource I have my own interests 200% otherwise no deal

cc: lalasticlala, seun.

Joel3:
no I am not married and i don't choose to.

tpiar:
Why why why are nlers always in other people's business instead of their own!

what concerns you if other people are getting married! Are you not able to marry?

SAMBARRY:
oya cover your breasts. It's ungodly to be exposing your breasts because your body is the temple of God

KanwuliaJara:


Brezzz festival in Swaziland? You nefa see?
At least I cover 50%!!!!!
As for "the temple of God", you know where I SIT on such matters!

Joel3:
@Mindfulness thanks for your input. you really made a balanced response there. like as I have said most relationship lost it past flavour just after the knot is tied. which you analyzed there.

as for the better for worst part, it mostly on intolerance of partners. where divorce is seen as sin or sacrilege. one will wonder for a smart and educated person and even after attending numerous counseling still want a divorce then something is really wrong with it. or do you mean they didn't do their home work properly?

if that is it. then we often see marriage counselors and pastors who also find themselves in the court for a divorce ruling.