MARRIED IN SCHOOL, SINGLE AT HOME
Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering
who the focus of this post should be – girls or
guys or both.
In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you
find ‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands
and wives. You find a lot of these misguided
people in virtually all schools. It’s so bad that,
often times,they are duly recognised and
acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbours,
classmates and even leaders of various students
associations. Little wonder there is such an award
as “The best couple of the year award”
shamelessly and thoughtlessly received by
students..Like I said earlier, I really don’t know the
particular gender to address but let me just keep
typing. The rate at which girls live with their
boyfriends in their various off campus hostels is
painfully alarming.
Most times, these young girls are very beautiful,
with bright and promising future.They cohabit
with boys who are their fellow students as
roommates. The lugubrious part of it is that the
silly girl would always introduce the small boy as
her fiancé..Our society is really sick courtesy of
those that live in it. These girls collect either hostel
fees or house rents from unsuspecting (and
sometimes, struggling)parents and end up in the
house of a boy. You struggled possibly for several
years to gain admission. Then you suddenly
became a prayer warrior posting and shouting
‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. You fasted.
You had one prayer point filled with promises of
your loyalty and devotion to God if only He would
answer your prayer. Now that He has fulfilled His
part by answering and granting you admission,
don’t you think He is expecting you to fulfill your
own part, to keep whatever promises you made
to Him??.
Many of you just got admission and once you
settle down (especially from your second year),
crazy thoughts will begin to creep into your
minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would
have been over; If God didn’t capture you
(possibly through the various campus fellowships)
, boys would have caught you. In my school we
even have an unrecognized, unregistered but well
offered course (Moz101. moz, being the short
form 4 Mozambique hall, were fresh female
students ar accommodated). For d guys its a
course that shouldn't be carried over.
Soon, they would persuade you to move in with
them. Of course, they’d give you one thousand
reasons to make you give in to their
prodding..Before you agree to move in and live
with a boy on campus, consider the reason why
you are in school in the first place. What image
would you be creating about yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant
for him as is always the case, or will you resort to
series of abortions like many other girls before
you?
What advice will you give your children in future
concerning this kind of things? After school, what
next? Will the relationship really lead you
anywhere?.
This post is finally addressing the female folks. I
didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s because they
are the worst hit by the grave consequences of
illicit sexual relationships. They are the ones that
turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They call
it school life but they don’t realize how idiotic they
have been till it’s too late. You are not in school to
get married. Part of the reasons why you are in
school IS NOT to get the husband-and-wife
experience, to see what it feels like for the boy to
provide the money for food and for the girl to go
to the market for food stuffs and cook. That’s
pure misplacement of purpose!
One guy told me that he was practically learning
how tobe a caring and romantic husband. Such
shameless! Then you hear the girl say, “We are not
doing anything, we are just roommates”. Yet she
commits countless abortions before
graduation..Yes, your admission has given you
unlimited freedom. Yes, your parents are not
there to tell you what to do or what not to do.
There is even no blood relation around, so there's
no fear of someone reporting you. But what
about giving your womanhood respect and
protecting your dignity?
What about living in such a way as to have a
positive story to tell the next generation (including
your children) without your conscience pricking
you?
What Goes Around Will Definately Come
Around....
Y not exercise a moment of thorough thinking...


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OK noted. meanwhile, let me call my girlfriend first.