Ladies101 - Part 1

"Hi, good evening."

Having introduced the series and what it is about (you can go and read the introduction part if you missed it), let us go straight into our first example.

Let's call her Lady A. Lady A regards herself as a smart, beautiful and intelligent lady. She works and pays her bills. She does not really need any man to take care of her. We happen to be from the same part of the country but not exactly the same ethnicity.

On a certain day, Lady A accompanied me to a friend's place whose wife just gave birth to their second child. My friend happens to be of the same ethnicity as Lady A. So they speak the same language and both bear native names. When I introduce them to themselves they will know immediately that they are from the same place.

To avoid any embarrassment, having known Lady A for a while, I decided to do the needful. As I pulled over at my friend’s place I took a few seconds to let Lady A know whom we were visiting.

"Lady A, this man whom we are visiting is from your place and more than 10 years older than you. Please when I introduce you to him at least greet him in your dialect. You can switch to English after that but at least show him that respect by greeting him in your dialect."

"Ok."

Then we went in and I did the introduction. "Lady A meet Mr. X. Mr. X meet Lady A."

You could see the excitement in Mr. X's eyes as he heard the name of Lady A. Then Lady A went, "Hi, good evening."

Oops!

Did I just hear, "Hi, good evening," or did my ears deceive me?

Let’s take a commercial break. When we return we shall look at the implication of what Lady A just did and how men interpret it.

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