As a married man, the first critical thing is understanding what temptation is. Temptation is a strong urge or desire to have or do something: especially something that is bad, wrong, or unwise. You have the inclination of that particular thing being wrong yet there is the strong urge to complete it.

The irony of temptation is that it comes, anywhere, anytime and in different phases. I have always have the urge for Coca-Cola despite the fact that it makes me fatter and add more sugar to my levels, yet there is temptation to have a go at a litre bottle. I have a friend whose temptation is shirts; he has enough, yet wants to buy more and more of it.

There is always a force behind being tempted. It could be as a result of our attraction to things and people around us. Sometimes it is always our desire and cravings that gets the better of us, and then we end up in the loop which happens over and over to the point of regret.

Temptation is an endless process, it just keeps coming without stopping. There is a latest trend out here now which is the sudden rise of young girls dating married men. The usual understanding and conviction is that married men, seem to be more mature and fathom how to treat ladies.images (1)

These married men who have committed themselves to being together forever with their spouses, suddenly develops this urge to explore, be on the look-out for variety carved out by the sudden influx and attention created by these ladies. Not helping matters is the popular saying, Variety is the spice of life.

While it may be fine to be tempted into buying things you possess if it can be afforded. It is a different ball game when you are married and then tempted to enter into another relationship with people as a result of their irresistibility. The attraction may be fierce enough to lure you into the prospect and actually having her in your life. I have met with a lot of married men, who are currently sitting with loads of young women as girlfriends and bed mates.

Statistics have shown that a lot of older married men, especially those who are 15 years and above into their marriages have had ladies who play second fiddle to their wives. These men have carved out a niche for themselves in ‘relieving’ their wives of sexual duties by placing responsibilities on these so called females not minding whatever happens to the mental, emotional and sexual life of their partners.images

As a married man, have you ever faced temptation, have you ever been thrown a pass by a young girl, or even older married women? How did you deal with it? Are you currently in that situation right now. Please see below tips to assist you in fighting temptation.

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