Please I have a problem, after going through some of your post on your website, I decided to write you, though I want my identity hidden.

I live with my sister and her husband, but this days am afraid, the way he looks at me, sometimes while we are walking he will like to hold me and I will stylishly dodge my hand so he wont feel bad.

Today he surprised me because my elder sister traveled, he asked me to bring him water to their room for him which I obeyed and took to him only for me to get there he asked me to wait for him to finish drinking the water so I can return the rest to the fridge, but instead of him to drink the water he was busy steering at me especially my boobs, I got embarrassed because it was obvious and walked out of the room.

Am afraid this man might force himself on me one day especially now that my sister is always coming back from work late due to Lagos hold up.

Please sir I need your help teach me or tell me what to do or SHOULD I REPORT HIM TO HIS WIFE, MY ELDER SISTER?

Guess the name of the man is Lukman

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Please your sincere advice will be welcome
Thank you

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Carry your kpekus run and leave that house ooh! If it eventually happens that you both get caught doing 'touching body' your sister will not want to hear that it was the husband that forced himself on you oh...carry your two left legs and run oh!

The best you can do is to leave that house for now

lady, there is something we called SmartPhone on planet earth
you can record the guy convo and keep that as an evidence when kasala burst.....

No need to record anything as evidence. How old are you? Abeg pack yourself and your belongings out of that house cos you aint safe there and trust me when I say you don't want to be the reason your sister's marriage hits the rocks. Husband and maid story go better pass your own if it eventually happens God forbid. My dear FLEE! And by flee I mean you run in a way that the sole of your feet touches the back of your head. Stay blessed!

Don't you have a house?

perkyendy:
After reading this young lady message I was confused and I decided to bring it here for your help...
www.seyiadesina.com/word

Please your sincere advice will be welcome
Thank you

Baba na you dey here
Haha na your Guy O. From Madrid
Perky baba

Life is already telling you its about time to have ur own life partner too. I like ppl having real life experience like this.

But seriously, don't tell ur sister. Ur maturity and patience is now needed. Just find one lovely excuse and with a bright smile, leave the house. Don't even disrespect her or her hubby because of that and don't tell mum, elder sis/bro or any member of ur family. U have to conceal (that's what a guy would do anyway -in cases where their broda's wife disrespect them), u ain't a kid anymore. God will help u.

ODE

The best and only solution here is for you to leave their house.

Abatsam111:
The best you can do is to leave that house for now

On what reason will she give to her sister for wanting to leave the house

My sister, l really feel 4 u n understand u perfectly cos l hav been in ur shoes. It was my Aunty's hubby this time. He even had d gut to tell me dt my Aunty wad always busy wt work n dt l wont b in his house n he'll go out n look 4 a girlfriend outside! A father of 7 kids!; my cousins!!.it was a difficult moment
He even started pleading wt money bt l had good training from home n l fear my God so l didnt even think twice to accept his offer. I didnt tell my aunt. I gently told him l wouldnt do it as it was a huge sin n l wouldnt dare it. It stopped for a while n l didnt hav anywhere to go cos my dad was dead n they were abt d only option l had. God helped me n l got admission to d university n thete was money for me to go school. My aunt wanted me to stay n continue helping her n so she asked me to defile it for a 1 yr till money comes. I kept cryin cos its d same money l'll use to defile dt l'll need to continue. She asked me if l want to go school n go to sch n becom a prostitue to help myself. U wont believ this:d husband told her dt if l wanted to be a prostitue l would b one in her house under her nose! I dont know if she understood dt or not. It wad dis man dt paid my school fee n l didnt defile my admission. I didnt tel my aunt abt it till today n l wasnt rude to d man too.wisdom is profitable in all things! So kindly let go of fear n talk to d man wen ur sis is not around. And dont go wearing provocative things in his presence n dont expect him not to look! God's grace

RadicallyBlunt:
Life is already telling you its about time to have ur own life partner too. I like ppl having real life experience like this.

But seriously, don't tell ur sister. Ur maturity and patience is now needed. Just find one lovely excuse and with a bright smile, leave the house. Don't even disrespect her or her hubby because of that and don't tell mum, elder sis/bro or any member of ur family. U have to conceal (that's what a guy would do anyway -in cases where their broda's wife disrespect them), u ain't a kid anymore. God will help u.

I sincerely don't think she should conceal the matter. This attitude of silence has ruined a lot of lives. You see bad thing but keep quiet? Why?
I feel she should leave the house 1st then she can tell her mum or another elder.

jashar:



I sincerely don't think she should conceal the matter. This attitude of silence has ruined a lot of lives. You see bad thing but keep quiet? Why?
I feel she should leave the house 1st then she can tell her mum or another elder.

Lol. That what. That her sister's husband is looking at her somehow cus her sister comes late from work? Whose fault is it gonna be..her sister or the husbands? Is a sister-in-law supposed to be alone with d husband b4?

It won't do any help especially if the wife is not matured enough to handle why her mother is supporting her sister over what she doesn't know just bcus they're trying to save her marriage. So the maturity still depends more on d wife's sister but maybe as a girl sha..she fit no fit handle am

poshestmina:
Don't you have a house?

What do you mean by doesn't she have a house? Is it now a crime to come to your sister's house? Or if I have an engagement in the town where my sister lives, I will go and lodge in a hotel?

Why can't the man just respect himself? Shameless man!

RadicallyBlunt:

Lol. That what. That her sister's husband is looking at her somehow cus her sister comes late from work? Whose fault is it gonna be..her sister and the husbands? Is a sister-in-law supposed to be alone with d husband b4?

It won't do any help especially if the wife is not matured enough to handle why her mother is supporting her sister over what she doesn't know just bcus they're trying to save her marriage. So the maturity still depends more on d wife's sister but maybe as a girl sha..she fit no fit handle am

@ bolded, what is wrong with the husband staying alone with his in law? Doesn't he control? Must he go after everything in skirt? She's your in law for heaven's sake... Mtcheeeew. .

Wonder what this world is turning into..

The girl should just leave the house for the stupid womaniser. .for her safety too, before he rapes her..

I fear for the man's daughters. . Maybe people will also blame the daughters for being girls just as they're blaming the lady for spending some days at her sister's house. .

PresVA:
What do you mean by doesn't she have a house? Is it now a crime to come to your sister's house? Or if I have an engagement in the town where my sister lives, I will go and lodge in a hotel?

Why can't the man just respect himself? Shameless man!

It is better to go to her house before the man forces himself on her or tear her sister's home apart

The fear of rape is the beginning of wisdom. Flee as fast as u can my dear. As for the man, he'll get what he deserves.

keishablack:
The fear of rape is the beginning of wisdom. Flee as fast as u can my dear. As for the man, he'll get what he deserves.

True talk