Dear cynthia,
First of all thank you for your advice, it's been helpful in regards to family matters.

I am a lecturer and the daughter of a grown woman. My daughter's friend in the university where I lecture asked to come and leave with us because of proximity and cost issues, I wholeheartedly agreed.
She does absolutely nothing at home, when she comes home from lectures, she visits her boyfriend's place and comes home late at night when everyone must have been asleep not just disturbing our sleep but posing unnecessary security risk for my family.

I had enough of the nonsensicals one day and I asked her to pack out from my house if she wouldn't help with common house chores.
Thhe next day she came with her boyfriend and packed out.

She got married recently, her mum is dead and she called and asked if I would visit America for her (omugwo) post natal care. I was excited, I readied my passport and even bought things for the baby, basic foodstuff and everything, I never had been to America but I have been to Europe so I was excited. They called me later on to cancel my trip, she chose her aunty instead.

She wants to visit Nigeria and plans to stay in my house, she and her husband are having young couples marital issues. I told her that she's not welcomed, my daughter thinks I was harsh.

Mrs Ekeh from Uniben..

peotic Justice...dont repay Evil with Evil

Let her stay elsewhere.

you have done well my son.

























I know they would start checking my profile picture

Orisirisi!! See double standard. But she packed her bag and was preparing to go to the states for Omugbwu of some she is not the mother off.

A

If the husband cannot provide a place to stay she can sleep under the bridge.

Nothing to complain about,do me I do you.Daz all

Better she doesn't come than for her to come and you guys start having problems a few days into her visit.
Just find a better excuse than she's not welcome.

Thank God say u no go d america, na u go tire becus she for use insult and disrespect pursue u come back. U haven't done anything wrong so far. If u went to america, I'm sure u would show manners there as a sign of gratitude even though she go dey insultive. But if she came to Nigeria, she will be mannerless as usual (keeping late nites and no housechores). No wonder she's already having problem with her husband. She has to learn d hard way.

Seriously she's not ur right way to go abroad. Focus on ur naija here except u have other means to go abroad.

You may allow her to stay in your house as she's more mature now. And who knows? She might even apologise for her wrong doings and see you as a role model.