A popular gospel singer known for ground-breaking christian songs, has shocked fans as he announced his divorce in a dramatic fashion.

 
Israel Houghton
 
Grammy-winner Israel Houghton announced the end of his 20-year marriage to his wife, Meleasa Houghton, telling Facebook followers "I failed and sinned in my marriage." 
 

 
Houghton is the senior worship leader at Joel Osteen's Lakewood Church. He and then-wife Meleasa founded New Breed Ministries in 1995. New Breed Ministries is comprised of noted musicians and singers who serve within their respective churches and, together, serve the church at large.  
 
Houghton has won five Grammy Awards, 13 Dove Awards, two Stellar Awards and a Soul Train Music Award. 
 
Houghton says the news might be shocking to some, but many close to them were aware of their marital troubles.  
 
The couple has three children. 
 

Israel Houghton and wife, Meleasa Houghton
 
In his Facebook post, the Singer said:
 
"It is with a collective heavy heart that we announce that after over 20 years of marriage and a long separation, Meleasa and I are officially divorced. Several years ago I failed and sinned in my marriage.
"Though this is new to many, it is not new to us as we have been working through this for over 5 years. Although we tried, the challenges in our relationship have proven too much to overcome. We have always handled our family and ministry with grace and generosity toward others, discretion, and privacy.
"So, for the sake of our amazing kids, we are also handling this privately with pastoral oversight and assistance. We choose to remain friendly and kind to each other going forward. I am in the process of restoration and I have repented for my actions. Although I am sincerely sorry, and forgiven, I soberly realize that I will live with the consequences of my failings for the rest of my life.
"As this has become a public matter I want to apologize to the many who have supported my ministry through the years. I'm sorry for the many who will be hurt to learn of my personal failure. I regret any pain or disappointment that this news may cause you.
"We thank you for your prayers and for allowing us to handle this privately with those who are set over us in this process.
"Prayerfully
"Israel Houghton"

Hmmmmm. I am just humbled and speechless.

Jeez! Thats sad. We all learn daily, from our experiences and others.

so we can't forgive ourselves or wat?