The reason why Most individuals / families get into serious problem is because of the High standard of living they wish to live even when things are so rough.
These set of people sacrifice their Integrity, their Morality,ethics and core principles ,even faith and religions to rub shoulders with the bigwigs in the society!!!!
Truth is ''they use what they have to get what they want ,but in the process life becomes complicated and they have this high self esteem and begin to show off that they become oppressors and seperate from their best friends who suffered with them when they were nothing!!!

Take for instance a young guy who lives in the Ghetto earns a meagre 2000 per month and squats with 5 people now gets an opportunity and becomes exposed to city life from the village.He loses all the principles that defines him and becomes a big guy in 2 to 3 years and it is like when you fru puffpuff.
The guy just does all to get rich or die trying.
He becomes what he is but it doesn't change the fact that it was not WHO HE WAS SOME 2 YEARS AGO.
ALL WHAT AM SAYING ''PEOPLE CHANGE WHEN THEY WANT TO LIVE ABOVE THEIRLIVES .A HIGHMINDED PERSON WHO WAS ONCE HUMBLE BECOMES
1)PROUD
2)ONCE A GOOD MANAGER OF WARDROBE,ASSESTS AND PROPERTY BECOMES A RECKLESS SPENDER AND SOMEONE WHO SHOWS OFF
3)ONCE SOMEONE WHO KNEW HOW TO FEEL PEOPLES SUFFERING,CONSOLE AND TAKE PITY ON HIS FRIENDS NOW BEGINS TO SHOW CLASS, FEEL BIG,BECOMES A SNUB AND AND A BRAGGER.ALL OF A SUDDEN THEY DON'T WANT TO ASSOCIATE WITH YOU AGAIN.
THEY FEEL THEY HAVE ARRIVED AND ITS A GREAT STUPIDITY.

WHAT THEY FAIL TO UNDERSTAND IS THAT LIFE IS NOT ABOUT OR DOES NOT CONSIST IN THE ABUNDANCE OF MATERIALISM BUT YOUR ABILITY TO OUTLIVE ALL NEGATIVE INFLUENCE IN THE SPHERE OF WEALTH AND IMPACT ON OTHERS WITHOUT ANY PRIDE IS A TRUE LIFE STANDARD.
YOU CAN HAVE RICHES WEALTH ,BUT IF YOU DO NOT WORK FOR IT OR KNOW HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR BEHAVIOUR THEN YOU HAVE LIVED ABOVE YOUR LIFE AND BECOME WANTON.

WHEN U R PROVING THAT U OWN WHAT U NEVER HAD,THEN YOU ARE TRYING TO LIVE ABOVE YOUR LIFE.

WHEN BACK HOME YOU ARE DRINKING GARRI,BUT U SOLD YOUR MORALS AND PRINCIPLES AND BEGAN TO EAT WITH BROTHELS,CULTISTS WHO ARE RICH,WHAT DOES THAT MAKE OF YOUR FUTURE?

JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU ARE, DONT SELL YOUR CONSCIENCE,MORALS ETHICS,FAITH OR PRINCIPLES TO IMPRESS PEOPLE,UR BOSS OR FRIENDS AT UR EXPENSE.
CONDESCEND WITH MEN OF LOW DEGREE.
IN GOD'S EYES ALL MEN ARE EQUAL, SURELY MEN OF HIGH DEGREE OR LOW DEGREE AS AS VAPOUR AND A LIE