byvan03:
Mr Brown J's A is why cheating can never stop. If you can't separate yourself from a cheating partner then learn to live with it. People are free to do whatever they like once there are no consequences.

True.

I know two men who said they will never cheat because they know their wives will walk out.

No looking back.

All these future punishments na wash.

If a man sleeps with all the women in his village and asks for forgiveness on his death bed, God will forgive him and heaven is sure.

Sadly, the wife carrying bitterness and hurt might not.

byvan03:




Tell me a popular politician you have seen his nudes. My point is that you can't threaten a man to submission, decrease in life span is no threat to keep a man faithful. Only a man can decide within himself to be faithful or not. Your role as a woman is to decide what you do with his infidelity if it affects you. Am not preaching about role models here, my point is that the comments are beginning to sound like scare tactics, like practically begging with gritted teeth " please do not cheat! ".


Dying young is not a threat, innocent women die in child birth and life continues. Death isn't a threat to a cheating man and you can't manipulate a man into not cheating with threats. Pray for a man with a conscience if you aren't married already, that's all.

dear life is a personal race. and at the end the choices you make affects you.. I am just trying to make people see reasons not to cheat but I can't control any one.. if I marry today n my hubby is a womaniser although it can't happen, the best thing to do is pray for him and beg God not to punish my kids for his sin and leave him. no Mr and Mrs in heaven o.. Na only me dem born so I won't kill myself over someone not willing to change. I am begging because I have seen the dangers.. nuff said.

ENIMONEY:
dear life is a personal race. and at the end the choices you make affects you.. I am just trying to make people see reasons not to cheat but I can't control any one.. if I marry today n my hubby is a womaniser although it can't happen, the best thing to do is pray for him and beg God not to punish my kids for his sin and leave him. no Mr and Mrs in heaven o.. Na only me dem born so I won't kill myself over someone not willing to change. I am begging because I have seen the dangers.. nuff said.

OK dear, got your point. Surely infidelity is dangerous but those that indulge can only see the fleeting pleasure. May God grant you the type of man you seek.

bukatyne:


True.

I know two men who said they will never cheat because they know their wives will walk out.

No looking back.

All these future punishments na wash.

If a man sleeps with all the women in his village and asks for forgiveness on his death bed, God will forgive him and heaven is sure.

Sadly, the wife carrying bitterness and hurt might not.

Confirmed!! Future punishment nah pure wash, you go wait karma tire . If there is a definite consequence, it won't be as bad.

byvan03:



OK dear, got your point. Surely infidelity is dangerous but those that indulge can only see the fleeting pleasure. May God grant you the type of man you seek.

. amen and you too. thanks

ENIMONEY:
. amen and you too. thanks

Thanks .

what danger? abeggi

ENIMONEY:
dear life is a personal race. and at the end the choices you make affects you.. I am just trying to make people see reasons not to cheat but I can't control any one.. if I marry today n my hubby is a womaniser although it can't happen, the best thing to do is pray for him and beg God not to punish my kids for his sin and leave him. no Mr and Mrs in heaven o.. Na only me dem born so I won't kill myself over someone not willing to change. I am begging because I have seen the dangers.. nuff said.

and the cheating continues. more sad news everyday. celebrities are even hit harder. jayz cheating on Beyonce and I wonder what else a man could want. # exhales