But let's face it, why is it that 92% of men want sex with a woman, while 94% of women wants a ready made man with all the untold comfort in a relationship and marriage When a lady sees a man approaching her for relationship, the 1st thing she does is to size up the man's pocket to know where he works, what the the man does for a living, and to tell if d man is presentable and worth going out with and a marriage candidate or husband material. That spurs the greed and desperation to go extra miles to gv d ladies what they want, lies!! Women lie, men lie but money don't lie.
To me, I believe its the reason for delayed marriage, failed marriages, divorce, unwanted pregnancy, juvenile delinquent, vagabond and bastards, single parenting, failed and wrecked relationship, Loss of sense of value and integrity. Why is all these so How many woman can afford to give her salary to her man or always deposit it in her man's account 1st thing once she has been paid without removing a dime from it, not even your tithe?? Lets say the man is jobless and earns no income, or better still to lighten the weight of demand to have the man earn 120k per month and the woman earns 750k per month, How many has the guts to front such course in such a cornered and conditional situation in a relationship?? Sure alot of men are like demons on heaven's wanted list in disguise but even the worst and the most innocent of angels can be saved from sin. Most men have poisoned alot of women and have done alot of unspeakable things to innocent women, but the truth is that most women allowed it. Women by nature are fantastic people and blessings to men but are people who allow their eyes to deceive them. They allow object to appeal to their sense of sight. Most would say if it doesn't look it, then it is not it, women are good at judging a man or other objects by the cover and color.
Women are objects and subjects to perspectives. Ask any woman today what kind of a man they want in their life and 96% will give you a perfect or near perfect expectation features. Some would say, "I want a tall, handsome, dark, loving, caring, sweet, understanding, romantic, hardworking (money), gentle and God fearing man." In other words, its like asking to marry a ready made tall, dark and rich Jesus!!! 70% of we African men have ego, and hardly will you find a man who wants to depends on a woman's money or proceeds for a living or for up keep except that the man is a criminal, a thief, a crook and a hatchet minded. As if we are to say women work with the eyes and heart, and men with the medulla in the the brain left lobe, men generally are smarter, which allows them to cheat at will on women and yet 75% of the time go uncaught. For this reasons, most women blow up like Russian thermobaric bomb and build up a resistant like an antibiotics, in the ploy to avenge their grief and sufferings in the hand of men, most women become far worse than the devil.
Just as men must learn to be hardworking to step up their earning power to increase their choice, prefrence and responsibility, women should agree that not all that glitter is gold. A woman is the last hope of Gods creation to save the earth from extinction and from the wickedness of mankind. The only device that can undo the strongest & most notorious and reckless of men is a weak, harmless and innocent looking woman. Like children, Women are men's weakness, to get a man, attack the woman he loves and he will break. Most women don't know their power and obligation that's why they follow mischievously wrong and failed women's advice to pay men evil for evil. I believe women are indirectly far more powerful than men. If you are not part of the world's Solution, you would be part of the problems. How many of you women can do that? To give your fiance or husband all your salary and plan together?? I know most women won't dear this because of their relative background attachment and importance to money. A woman has a reserved power to remote and control her husband by untold total submission even if the man is vulnerable to been a nuisance in matters of fidelity, the rest is common sense.
It is like a paddlock, if you try that and your husband or fiancé turns out a devil, then you should know your in a wrong cage fight, you should use your tongue to count your teeth before the matter escalate to become life threatening. I as a person encourage divorce when a partner has flagged a stance of utter hopelessness and life threatening. Every man is subject to change given a selected factor and circumstances but not in some cases where your spouse is subject to irrepressible emotional loss in the past that makes him treads out in psychedelic manner. A situation where the man turns the woman into a punching bag or beats and chases a woman about with a cutlass is totally unacceptable, once this is in sight, seek a 3rd party or expert help. Don't sabotage your life on the blind spots and blind lines of love and emotions. Most ladies rush to help a guy out of desperation for ease of marriage but in the end, it turns out that they have just dug their own grave as most guys often turns out to be a beast and an ungrateful soul in the end!!! Its OK to help a man to start out a life and your marriage, but please before you do that, be sure he is d right candidate of trust. A man is so complicated that he can hide is leopard skin only to strike you after forty good forgetful years (40yrs). I advise ladies never to marry or make the choice of a man out of a pity party but out of a sense of rationality and sense of purpose. It is in this way we can reduce poverty and ensure equitable wealth distribution. Not in a throw money in the air fun fare but through collective engagements in wealth creation as an idle mind is the devil's work station. A lot of women to day have been instrumental in the success of their husband and are enjoying the reward of the sacrifice today but at the same time a good number of women have dug their own grave by this singular act.
The point am trying to affirm here is that, as a lady 92% of the men in your life want SEX; and as a man 94% of women in your life wants a friend, a home and your comfort excluding SEX if possible. For women money is not primary but secondary as a man must be comfortable before he can give it. Whether male or female, single or married, your relationship cannot be successful if you are not ready to disclose or share your hard earned money with your partner. The Sacrifice may look to steep a risk or a price to pay, but someone has to be the first to step in the deep waters to cross the river else the two partner will remain at mouth of the river or on the fence forever dreaming about the other side. In anything, money is key for progress and someone has to provide it. Power to we men is like a Goat and Yam placed side by side, they don't agree; the goat is always to be blamed only when the yam ends in the stomach. I tell people, the world will change if only we can go to the house of Parliament and call all the women in the house to oder and appoints more women to fill in political office to the sit of the President and ask the women the way forward. perhaps the era of the men has expired and we men have to be humble enough to see the women as our partner and not as our subject or rival. It is for this reason that France, Germany and the USA has outgrown the world. It is for this Egocentric problem that the Republican has consistently and technically lost to the Democrats in the USA for a very long time. Promoting Woman value is promoting and preserving the value of Humanity. Women needs to add more depth, respect, value, respect, attitude, humility, dignity and charisma to themselves for an appreciable consensus from the male folks. The late Nigerian Dora Akuyili and Nigerian revered Dr Obiangeli Ezekwesili stands out because of the selfless niche they have carved for themselves. The way up is the way down, to show the women leadership as men, we must be ready to demonstrate and not explicate and trash our ego. Don't cast your pearl before the swine so that you don't in the end cry over spilt milk. Don't say I told u this. CAVEAT EMPTOR!! BUYERS BEWARE!!! Philipians 2:3

In summary, it's a man's world right? We know that already...

You aren't even holding your kind responsible for any thing at all.issiorite!

Women are the cause of everything wrong in this world. . Women, una too much oo

So long you keep treating women like commodities let them place a price tag. If you cannot afford it waka pass

Dear writer, Nice write up with deep insight you shared.
Truly speaking, 'some women' really don't know their power and influence to the society and the world at large.
Most men overspeed and flaunt their ego even to a disastrous end still non-stop.mostly in this age.
The truth is, do what is Right whether a Man or a Woman because we all have the ability and tendency to do so and even more.