hi NLs
i av a male friend.we ar both in choir though hes a guitarist and has been in my church before me. late last year he asked for my number after the usual sunday service nd promised to cal which he did just to say hello.i was surprised he asked for my number coz we have been together in church for rehearsals nd other church activities and we relly dnt talk or xchange greeting dat much.

ever since he got my number ,hes bin calling and showing so much attention to my daughter especially on sundays after service, he sees me off to take transport most times after rehearsals. the question i want to ask is dat since he hasnt told me anytin which is why i see him as a friend but his body language speaks more yet he hasnt said anything.

do i ask him of his intentions or do i just watch him?

Just give it a few more weeks.You both are matured,so nobody is playing games anymore,you could ask him..

Give him sometime. . Maybe he's just being nice or he's gathering the courage to say the 'in-thing'; once he gets enough green light from you, he may ask you out..

Time will tell dear.. no need of asking his intentions; continue taking him as a friend. ..

PresVA:
Give him sometime. . Maybe he's just being nice or he's gathering the courage to say the 'in-thing'; once he gets enough green light from you, he may ask you out..

Time will tell dear.. no need of asking his intentions; continue taking him as a friend. ..

thought as much.tanks

Don't ask him anything Sis. Let him continue bn nice while you keep bn polite and appreciative. Time will solve this.

Swissheart:
Don't ask him anything Sis. Let him continue bn nice while you keep bn polite and appreciative. Time will solve this.

ok then.tanks dear

realtalk19:
hi NLs
i av a male friend.we ar both in choir though hes a guitarist and has been in my church before me. late last year he asked for my number after the usual sunday service nd promised to cal which he did just to say hello.i was surprised he asked for my number coz we have been together in church for rehearsals nd other church activities and we relly dnt talk or xchange greeting dat much.

ever since he got my number ,hes bin calling and showing so much attention to my daughter especially on sundays after service, he sees me off to take transport most times after rehearsals. the question i want to ask is dat since he hasnt told me anytin which is why i see him as a friend but his body language speaks more yet he hasnt said anything.

do i ask him of his intentions or do i just watch him?

How long has this been going on and how old is your daughter?

Sunnypar:

How long has this been going on and how old is your daughter?

my daughter is 3+. its not relevant any more coz av reconciled with my husband now .tanks

realtalk19:


my daughter is 3+. its not relevant any more coz av reconciled with my husband now .tanks

Good to hear
Hope you have cut the brother off completely and he knows that you are no longer available and you are not accepting his phone calls or escorts.

tearoses:


Good to hear
Hope you have cut the brother off completely and he knows that you are no longer available and you are not accepting his phone calls or escorts.

lol.i dnt call besides he only send text to ask of my welfare nd y i was absent in church for service. i dnt av any attachment asidez choir colleague

realtalk19:
hi NLs
i av a male friend.we ar both in choir though hes a guitarist and has been in my church before me. late last year he asked for my number after the usual sunday service nd promised to cal which he did just to say hello.i was surprised he asked for my number coz we have been together in church for rehearsals nd other church activities and we relly dnt talk or xchange greeting dat much.

ever since he got my number ,hes bin calling and showing so much attention to my daughter especially on sundays after service, he sees me off to take transport most times after rehearsals. the question i want to ask is dat since he hasnt told me anytin which is why i see him as a friend but his body language speaks more yet he hasnt said anything.

do i ask him of his intentions or do i just watch him?

So what happened eventually?

Just give him time, asking him any thing may reduce your worth.you know how some of us reason

davidif:


So what happened eventually?

i eventually reconciled with my husband after much scrutinizing and God's intervention.

i feel happy now.

realtalk19:


i eventually reconciled with my husband after much scrutinizing and God's intervention.

i feel happy now.

Awwwwwwwwwwwww. That is sooooooooooo awesome to hear. I had no idea that you were separated. That's really cool that you were humble enough to accept scrutiny. God exhaust the humble.