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Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by LaRoyalHighness(f): 6:35am On Mar 29, 2016 |
Wear red boxers.... Reduce your weight ... In fact ...Do all those things that your fellow men would advise a woman to do (if she was the one that created the thread) 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Adedoks(m): 9:50am On Mar 29, 2016 |
Most married women are very funny ooo... Am a married man n I know what am saying. Some married women can go a month without sex if their hubby doesnt make a move towards them. N its also sad some married men will cajole n cajole their wife before she has sex... If the man is always the one cajoling one day he will be tired. Same man women outside are ready to grab n their is Wifee acting up. When the man goes outside she will start unnecessary prayers dat she could Av averted. U wont have sex with your man in a month plus n u think all is well. Most married women that do dis are not matured enough as they are still relatively new in marriage... Some learn from bitter experience. Oga Op be patient with her n explain to her as a man ur needs. God bless you for being faithful 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Nobody: 10:53am On Mar 29, 2016 |
OP if you have the energy and power to cheat.....i.e. the lies, the booking of hotel rooms, picking up and dropping off here and there, the stresses on your finances, time and energy, the stress of deleting phone records and chats, trying to be in 2 places at the same time, your conscience bugging you all the time ........ THEN You have the energy to talk to your wife and try and work this out You wont be the first, neither will you be the last that is going through this in your marriage People before you and after you have been/going through similar issues and they managed/will manage to resolve it its no different from any other stress that couples go through here and there in their marriage Its a phase and its how it is dealt with that will determine the prognosis. communicate with her and try and get to the bottom of the issue and you both work as a team in finding a way of resolving it. Cheating is not the answer You have not solved the problem you are only introducing a different type of problem into an already established problem. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by hanubarbie(f): 11:46am On Mar 29, 2016 |
One month without sex and he is already thinking of cheating? Na wa 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Creamish(f): 12:26pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
postmann: Exactly.. well except the child was born out of wedlock.. otherwise, give her sometime. Its a recovery process for her. U shuld never try to replace communication with psychology or assumptions. Say it as it is...datz how u address issues. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by 2goodbobo(m): 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
The secret to your solution is "Talk". Have a talk with her and tell her how you feel. She cant know she is hurting you by her inaction if you dont tell her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by postmann: 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
Creamish: Lots of men don't actually know this. They're ignorant of the changes that take place in a woman after child delivery. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Creamish(f): 1:55pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
postmann: u are one of the few gifted men going by the responses on the thread.. No one considered the hormonal changes as a reason. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by kola1930: 2:23pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
Adedoks:U seem to understand the issue very well... If u don't make d move, then me ready to be starved for a year, cos they will not. So annoying 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Adedoks(m): 3:29pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
kola1930:she may not even understand what she's doing.. Be patient and talk to her about dis. Its a phase in marriage that will pass.. Peace bro 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by postmann: 3:46pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
Creamish: Make I treat myself to some small laugh. Heart warming compliment coming from someone like you.... Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Creamish(f): 3:59pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
postmann: Thank you too. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by uzoormah(m): 4:19pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
kossyablaze: Now that made me laugh.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by obiak4(m): 7:18pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
Onegai:100000000kisses 100000000000 like you just spoke the truth men support thy wife with all thy heart with all thy might in fact become a woman rapper when she has issues to deal with especially a baby. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by chii8(f): 8:36pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
kola1930: u mean ur wife is annoying u,jst afta one baby?....hmmm,well i v notin to say,wat som of u men dnt knw is dat wen a woman is breastfeedn,she goes tru a lot...a sore nipple of which d baby continually sucks,changing diapers at midnite,breastfeedn all tru d nite,tryn to calm d baby all day n nite wenever d baby cries,washn clothes,dishes n wat hav u,doing d cookn,arrangn d house dat our darling hubby scatters wenever hes back frm wrk.....d wife does all dis wtout help orwt little help,and u think she wl rememba SEX,well if u want to meet anoda gal outside,well ride on 'its in you' 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Mskrisx(f): 10:34pm On Mar 29, 2016 |
austine4real: My friend are u a comedian? Lwkm today 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by kaziblake(f): 12:08am On Mar 30, 2016 |
austine4real:LWKMD |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by MsGlobalwonder(f): 3:18am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Onegai: |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by glloomy(m): 4:04am On Mar 30, 2016 |
[quote author=MsGlobalwonder post=44236009][/quote] Talk to her and discuss the issue politely without getting angry. Anger kills make her feel she is important to you and find out the problem to fix it. Unless you identify the problem you cannot create the required intimacy for sex and love for you in her heart and mind. Follow this link below for better love and relationship life i hope it helps GOD BLESS you http://lovefindsitsway.com/how-to-keep-a-relationship-strong/ http://lovefindsitsway.com/how-to-spice-up-sex-life/ |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by austine4real(m): 6:56am On Mar 30, 2016 |
Mskrisx:my enemy i'm d most silliest being on earth |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by TheArchangel(f): 12:43pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
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Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by TheArchangel(f): 12:44pm On Mar 30, 2016 |
kola1930:Take yours and give the other to your wife. Continue using them until you guys learn how to communicate and convey your needs. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by jabojafa(m): 3:50am On Mar 31, 2016 |
marriage is all about communicating with ur spouse. You shd talk abot evrytin with ur wife. Learn to help her out with house chores becos her performance wud be hindered if she is always tired from daily activities. Lovemaking shd start right from the beginning of dt day i.e being romatic, sending her romatic text, placin a call to her during work, buyin her gift, leavin sweet notes by d bed side for her etc. Make ur home a romatic home and u will enjoy lovemakin with ur wife. Talk to her abt d tins she likes n dont like durin luv makin, learn to spice it up, dnt be too stiff, invent new tins to spice it up, leave missionary style for old couple. Always help her and be her best frnd if ur ar not. Pray n study d bible together, bath 2gther especially @ night. Remember if u want your wife to b an angel, u hv to create an angel-like home for her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by sukkot: 10:55pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
kola1930:lol bro once a woman is married and has kids, 9 times out of 10 she does not want sex again, or at least not from the same person. my advice to you is to look for better more productive ways to occupy your mind than sex . try golf 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Eebrahym(m): 10:58pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
pet4ril: Who is a man of God and where does he live 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by drnairalov: 10:59pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
kola1930: haba broda just 1 month and u wanna cheat... .. Okay since u obviously had a good sex life, since your wife seems to have lost interest in having sex with you, my guess is that you haven’t given her a reason to trust you, or that you’ve killed whatever trust she once had. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Try this Cheatinotherapy
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Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by macaranta(m): 11:02pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Maybe something is bothering her...or to put it bluntly,she's getting it elsewhere. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by yemicoal(m): 11:03pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
OP hope you don't have mouth odour she might be tired of bearing it. If you don't I suggest you talk to her |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by llprincztonp(m): 11:03pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
Marry second wife or else u go stroll away husband! Or test run before marriage is adviseable |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by themayor4542(m): 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
deen11:sorry but I think I'm slightly confused here. most of these things you just listed here are things that we guys do or must do before getting married. I'm talking about taking her out, buying her gift. if we still continue to do them even after getting married then what's the point? I mean, fish wey man don catch shey man dey hook am again ni? my apologies if my question seem unwarranted but I'm just a bit confused here. thanks. 1 Like |
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