Why go to the market when u don't want to buy anytin, if u don't want to be bleeped stay away from relation. The bible gat only one remedy wic is FLEA ( RUN). All dis bible scripture won't help. If u don't want to smoke stay away from such association, same applies with SEX.

I hope dis helps

frubben:
Why go to the market when u don't want to buy anytin, if u don't want to be bleeped stay away from relation. The bible gat only one remedy wic is FLEA ( RUN). All dis bible scripture won't help. If u don't want to smoke stay away from such association, same applies with SEX.

I hope dis helps

hope u kow i will get married someday.

JustJosh20:




Read the book of colossians. and romans daily... study the life and ministry of Paul...

just make him your mentor...
.but don't depend on your strength...
avoid all sources of temptation....

u can state it here bro

read about how forni.cators and adulter.ers end up.
(in Revelations ) .
read those verses where Jesus say's depart from me ye ACCURSED

Read about verses that talk about the human body and sexuality in the NT.
Just saturate your mind with these verses.
Think on them a lil, b4 u jump into knacking... just keep going back to them.
with time , as the seed is sown in your heart, it could start pushing against the desire of the flesh (your spirit is getting stronger).
Sow seeds of righteousness (the word) in your heart and keep sowing and it will eventually displace seeds of lust sown by the enemy - porn, roving eye etc.

You might not have realised the significance of the parable of the young boy who could not get the bicycle he wanted despite praying fervently for it. This poor young boy then permanently took another person's bicycle and prayed for forgiveness from God. Reflect on this parable and you might find the guidance you seek. Shalom.

Godsgal:
Hmmn. Difficult question buh i'll try.
More reasons y u shouldn't be alone with him/her in an enclosed place (dats if u knw both of u are too weak 2 resist).
Ur discussions should not be centered on sexualy provocative topics dat'll instigate the feeling.
Finally, u & only u can resist the urge cos only u knws why u want to wait. Hence, u should always be reminded of ur convictions each time the urge arises. Thanks

I agree with her, mencade5 everything we see these days movies and even humans outside our homes shout sex. We must becareful and avoid those point she hinted. Its very hard but its possible.

Bartork:



I agree with her, mencade5 everything we see these days movies and even humans outside our homes shout sex. We must becareful and avoid those point she hinted. Its very hard but its possible.

nice points bartok sex has saturated our today world. Its really a challenging situation. May God help us.

mencade5:
nice points bartok sex has saturated our today world. Its really a challenging situation. May God help us.

That's it, very challenging. Its hard to see a few that have been able to stand fast.
Thanks

Sad.lalasticlala do the needful.

mencade5:
This post is a bit long. Please bear with me.

Oh yes...there are many advocates of no sex before marriage and the marriage bed undefiled. A relationship free from all forms of sinful lifestyle that will hinder your spiritual growth.

These words of caution have been the watchwords of so many believers here on nairaland and in my vicinity. We are quick to dish out this advice to singles about godliness, say things like avoid kissing, dont visit him alone, if you are with him open all doors and windows, dont hug him or her, avoid close contact etc.

Na wa ooooo
but will these help?

despite all these i have not seen or heard a distinct and effective solution to this issue of no sex before marriage.
What happens when he or she is alone in the room and the feelings comes real strong? I guess you will tell me to rebuke the spirit abi?

Oluwa eseun ooo

I was with a sister yesterday after sometime she started praying. Later she told me the urge for sex came and she had to rebuke it.
Osanobua!

I told her if my presence always causd her to fall then she should let me know so that i wont lead her into temptation. She declined it. I was told of a guy who was having sexual urge, his peniiis was erecting and instantly he spoke to it (peniiis) that calm down its not yet time and it relaxed!
Chaiiiiiii
for real?
there was a case of an intending couple who according to church doctrine must not defile their marriage bed. They agreed to it but the lady was sleeping with their next door neighbour, relieving herself while deceiving her man and pretending she was abstaining until she was caught one day.

No textbook solution please. A practical or real life solution is what we need here.

Pastors, pastress, prophets, teachers of the word, evangelist, catechist, reverends of this great religion i need your inputs on this matter. Honestly its a very serious one.

How do handle sexual urge in a godly relationship.

Please those with experince should contribute. People will learn from this.

Fast to reduce sexual desires as per Islamic teachings. Ibn Mas‘ood said that he and others were there when the Prophet (PBUH) said: “O young people, whoever of you can afford marriage should marry because it is more (conducive to) lowering the gaze and more protective of the private parts; and whoever is not able to marry should fast, because fasting diminishes his sexual desire.” [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim].

Godsgal:
Hmmn. Difficult question buh i'll try.
More reasons y u shouldn't be alone with him/her in an enclosed place (dats if u knw both of u are too weak 2 resist).
Ur discussions should not be centered on sexualy provocative topics dat'll instigate the feeling.
Finally, u & only u can resist the urge cos only u knws why u want to wait. Hence, u should always be reminded of ur convictions each time the urge arises. Thanks

is it that easy? because am trying to hold myself and am almost going nuts. I even had a dream today where i wanted to release but i remembered i promised God not to have anything to do with sex for a long time then i stopped and woke up. If i had released, i would have done that in real life. Am freaking...