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Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by AreaFada2: 4:44am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Very correct 5mins. Health ignorance is alarming. Many are not more enlightened than our grandmothers in the village despite google & having an array of degrees. Regarding suspicion, how often do people doubt their darling beautiful young bride? It is exactly that trust they capitalise on to deceive. Your first instinct is to believe that both of you are working towards same goal. 1 Like |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by christinie(f): 4:49am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Some impotent guys don't disclose their medical conditions to their wives before marriage. Gloriagee: 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by Nobody: 5:12am On Apr 01, 2016 |
marcjane: Was thinking same as well. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by saintneo(m): 6:10am On Apr 01, 2016 |
bennyrazz: I seriously don't understand the severity of this thingy fibroid My sister told me of her problem with fibroid and she wanted to have children. She didn't operate on it; however, she now has a baby boy. (All glory to God) 3 Likes |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by Nobody: 6:36am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Drama! Blame the society for this kind of game. It's quite unfortunate! |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by drizzymadbet(m): 7:12am On Apr 01, 2016 |
babes are desperate, had an uncle that was tricked into marrying a lady that was 9 years older than he is. Babe was fresh and dope and ma uncle at 31 looked older than she is only to fins out few weeks to the wedding. fortunately unfortunately he still went ahead with the wedding plan Buh am sure the marriage does reflect that perfect happiness that it should have because of being built in deceit. Please for all intending would-be brides and grooms, shine your eyes, guys and babes are really desperate and would do anything even lieing for Africa to achieve that 3 Likes |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by JOKLEVIZ(m): 7:16am On Apr 01, 2016 |
[quote author=fem29 post=44274026] So true. How come they never went to the hospital to do a pregnancy test. I would have thought if someone you don't want to marry says she is pregnant for you, you would do all tests possible to make sure she is pregnant before you marry her. This story get as e be[/quote Is not de story that get as e be is de pple involve, their brain get as e BE... 1 Like |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by doskie(m): 7:20am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness:I doubt that AA story because I thinkan SS person can be known from visual inspection. if you said she was AS I would have believed. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 7:49am On Apr 01, 2016 |
doskie:Well it happened wether u believe it or not. Someone else here has already related his true experience. Read through the thread. Out of curiosity though, what are the things u can see in an ss person from 'visual inspection'? 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 7:53am On Apr 01, 2016 |
DeeTus:I agree! I wouldn't have said this before but I have come to see that a lot of people in society take marriage as a do-or-die affair! Imagine someone telling me she's going ahead with a marriage even though from all indications the marriage won't last a year. Her words: "eh, lemme get married first then will handle whatever comes afterwards " I was like wow! Is it really that bad? Tomorrow her husband will be bashing her up and down and she'll be crying blue murder meanwhile she entered the thing will eyes fully open! 2 Likes |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 7:57am On Apr 01, 2016 |
AreaFada2:Very true my brother. Do you know it took multiple scans for him to finally see the truth. When the first scan was done the woman went to native with him and they told him the scan couldn't see anything cos the baby was hiding! I was like, hiding where |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by doskie(m): 7:59am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness:pale yellow eyes, low weight, weak appearance, generally a sickler looks like a sickler and you can at least have cause to ask questions merely looking at the person |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by DonaTee(f): 8:00am On Apr 01, 2016 |
MEN HAVE DEIR OWN SHARES OF LIES TOO. 1. Erectile dysfunction 2. Undescended testes 3. Premature ejaculation 4. 0 sperm men do hide deir medical history too. I hav seen millions of cases. Ranging from different causes. But are hidden frm d potential spouse til after marriage. Some men even wit deir history continue to cheat as if cheating wil solve deir problem. So go ahead to disgrace the woman even wen dry know its deir fault. Some men encourage deir wives to cheat n get preggy so pple won't knw of deir fertility problems. Anoda classic example is d issue of HIV. Marriedcouple, d man was ccheating n got d virus. He was ill n wen it was discovered n managed he was discharged but was told to bring his wife for counselling n testing. For 5 solid yrs dis man refused. He was punctual to take his drugs frm d hospital but didnt wsnt his wifevto know ge was positive. YET he was sleeping wit her witout condom. Long story short......wife got sick. Diagnosed of HIV. She told her hubby of dr report after 1month of drs persuasion. The husband surprisingly didnt make a fuss. After few days asked her to cook n prepare a feast for his guests. On d said day she was surprised to see her family members n elders arriving deir house. After eating n making merry, d man made a speech to thank dem for d wonderful wife dey gave him, but from now he is returning d woman n d bride price. He is no longer interested cos she has HIV It was a shocking moment Clinic was never d same for few days. She came back to accuse our snr doctor of ruining her marriage. D man even sent her off with her kids. Luckily d kids were all negative. The man got married to a new woman who still didn't know his status. Alot happens. Deception can b either way. Alot of Christian sisters/pple who don't engage in pre marital sex suffer. After marriage u discover many of those men have erectile issues, but stuck with dem during courtship because dey r sure dey won't b discovered since its a celibate relationship. But d man knows his organ is dysfunctional. It goes on n on. Na God go save pple 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:03am On Apr 01, 2016 |
AreaFada2:@bolded, and they will deny with thier last breath. Why do they do that?? What happens if you two had gotten married then 10 yrs , 25yrs and no kids People be going from pillar to post and crying to God and whoever meanwhile they know the cause of their problem. Then when the man finds out and realises that his beloved even knew about it but was hiding it from him, its very devastating. How do they live with themselves? |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by DonaTee(f): 8:04am On Apr 01, 2016 |
doskie: Some sicklers hav a different phenotypic appearance. I guess his is d Saudi Arabia sickle. D oda 4 sickle av terrible illnesses. 1 of my inlaws is a sickler. Very robust n handsome man. He plump sef. But has yellow eyes but pple dont really take time to notice such. He hardly ever has crises too. So his can pass for normal illness. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:06am On Apr 01, 2016 |
[quote author=Funnyguy83 post=44299236][/quote] No its not the same case bro. The stories are different. In this one the woman had her womb removed long before the marriage. The woman in that thread said she has her womb intact. I have seen that other thread and commented on it. I agree she isn't saying everything. Nevertheless she should move on. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by NattyBaba: 8:07am On Apr 01, 2016 |
what about men lying? Talk about them too. Everybody lies - man or woman |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:10am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Bollinger: You are very right! Men tell no lies, in fact, they are incapable of lying in a relationship, haven't you noticed? Men are the most decent sort of species you can hope for especially when it comes to romance! However this particular thread is directed towards women and women matters. You can open up a counter thread extolling the virtues of men if you want! |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by saintdennis(m): 8:15am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Can a woman actually lie to me? Being a casanova has its advantages sha, if u like wear hijab, big skirt we go know your capabilities and vice versa. @ op I feel your pain sha, another one is ladies who constantly have miscarriages (real ones) and start running to pastors claiming it's spiritual when it's due to the abortion they had which has rendered their cervix incompetent. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:17am On Apr 01, 2016 |
NattyBaba:True.. There are men who deceive women into marriage as well. Men who lie about their impotence and fertility etc. But I focused on the women cos of the case that inspired this thread and the way they will lie and play victim when the man finds out and starts to sleep around or misbehave. They will be the first to start insulting the man and telling all and sundry that the man is acting up and being a beast meanwhile they re the ones at fault and they know it. We bashed that man behind his back and sometimes in his front for months, thinking he was immature and insensitive, and he never once let out his wife's secret until he finally had no choice! And it was pathetic seeing the woman admit her guilt and plead after the man had finally made up his mind to leave her. She knew she would be more vulnerable at the end, she should have been Kinder towards the man and his societal image before slandering him. Hence the topic. 3 Likes |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:19am On Apr 01, 2016 |
doskie:Guy not all Sicklers look like this o |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:22am On Apr 01, 2016 |
romme2u:I gats time on my hands to spare this period How u doing bro? |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:28am On Apr 01, 2016 |
histemple:Em... Ok Thanks. Am not easily deceived though. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:30am On Apr 01, 2016 |
fem29:And did your husband go with you? Be honest now. |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:32am On Apr 01, 2016 |
InformedLola:Sweet Jayzus! I have said it repeatedly that she is not the one oh. Her story and the one I put up are not similar at all. Having said that I don't think she's telling us the while story. But it has nothing to do with the one I wrote! |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 8:34am On Apr 01, 2016 |
SAMBARRY:Because superstory dey sweet. No chop am na. Your loss. Today na Saturday. Owambe tins And Yes! I have cleaned my gas cooker |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Absolutely yes . He Went for every scan . WE were pregnant 1 Like |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 0ubenji(m): 9:14am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness: no pun intended bro..I can guarantee ur script on the 2yr-conception wud go into production phase straightup if introduced to Universal Studios Directors... #kayefi 1 Like |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by bimbology(m): 10:04am On Apr 01, 2016 |
It all started from garden of Eden. Woman had been deceiving man right from the time of Adam nd Eve. It now vice-versa. The fear of God is only the beginning of WISDOM to know the best for your life, in order to avoid being deceived into rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by Praktikals(m): 10:29am On Apr 01, 2016 |
5minsmadness:Some Laboratories give misleading results, I know of a couple that fell victim of a similar situation. 1 Like |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by 5minsmadness: 10:36am On Apr 01, 2016 |
fem29:If u say so, ok. Good for you. Most men don't go for antenatal clinic with thier wives. I should know. They come maybe once, if they're good twice. Then they leave the rest of the biz for the women. A lot of women use antenatal to collect money from their men cos the men don't know what goes on there. They simply say they need money for this or that and the men will give to them only for them to use it and buy moi-moi You'd be surprised how many men blank out when they see a pregnancy strip esp when it's from someone they didn't expect. It sends the brain cells into shock |
Re: Women, Stop Lying To Your Husbands And Playing Victim Afterwards! by Nobody: 10:39am On Apr 01, 2016 |
saintneo: Most black women have fibroids. It affects fertility based on size and position in the womb. |
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